Dear So Cal Freak,
To me this is no different than postsecret. Sharing an anonymous secret with the world, hurting no one. I keep the secrets that matter, she trusts me, and I trust her. This is not an abuse of trust, this is an expression of sexuality and a form of therapy, with a little fun thrown in.
When I first came on to the lpsg as a 17 year old teen under a different screename over 10 years ago, I found this place as a form of therapy. I was a teen with a nearly nine inch cock, and I was causing my girlfriend to cry and bleed when we had sex. I had no one to go to, my guy friends couldn't relate, and my girlfriends didn't want to hear about it. I needed help, and it was too embarrassing to go ask an adult "Hey mom I'm fucking this super hot dancer girl from school, and we are having sex, and my dick is soo big that I literally cannot fit it inside of her when she tries to sit down on top of me, and the only way to get it in, is for me to push as hard as I can, and use my weight to force it in, and she cries and bleeds and needs an ice pack for her pussy and 2 advil after"
So I came to the LPSG. And I learned about sex, and I learned from many helpful people on here, how to use my endowment. And we finally had decent sex, and it wasn't horrifing for her. And then i went to college, and the first girl in the dorms saw my dick and ran away scared. so i turned to the lpsg again because I felt like a big dicked freak. And the community here was supportive and welcoming. Then I had a really serious girlfriend, and I had to teach her how to orgasm, and how to have really good sex, because she hadn't come out of her shell yet, and i turned again to the lpsg for help, and found lots of helpful people and posts.
At the same time, it's fun to post anonymously online on a forum about big dick issues, or to read about peoples sexy reactions when they find out you're hung, or to share naughty sex stories. It's also a fun place too, as well as a therapudic place (It is a "Support group" after all) and I have greatly benefited from this website. And every girl I've fucked has benefitted as well haha.
That being said, if I were to go talk to a therapist about these things, would you be upset with me then?
I am an honest man, and I have integrity, and I am a good person.
If this were the other way around, and if i was in her shoes, I wouldn't care if someone anonymously posted a sexy pic or shared a naughty text. It's not ever coming back to me, or her, and who cares? On top of that, if reading a sexy message from my girlfriend, can help to turn someone else on, isn't that a good thing? Doesn't that benefit the world?
I keep my "LargeInLife" life private. This way I can come back here and post and share without hurting anyone, and I can freely speak my mind. I think thats why they design groups like this.
I have also educated myself a lot about sex. I know a great deal about sex, and the female anatomy, and orgasms, and health, and I've learned a great deal. So 5 years ago I started my own blog to share my information with the masses,
Large In Life I've got hundreds of thousands of hits, and I've helped countless couples with their relationships to have better sex. I get approached all the time by nervous wives who come to me with problems in their marriages, or with their boyfriends, and I've helped many people. I think that is a benefit to the world too, and this is all becuase I found the LPSG a long time ago.
On top of that, I express myself sexually online. Sometimes I write erotic stories and its fun for me. Again, this is stuff I keep private. I don't tell anyone, ever, in my personal life, about Lpsg or "LargeInLife". I keep this stuff private to protect the ones I love, and to not em barrass myself or my loved ones. I don't think my friends or family would ever want to see photos of my face and my dick online... How can you expect to have any sort of professional career when you and your wife publicly expose yourselves... You must have a pretty cool job, and you know what, even though I don't understand you, I think its great. I'm glad you come here and express yourself, and you and your wife share sexy comments, and she brags about how hot you are, and how big your dick is, and you come on here and you brag about how sexy she is and how awesome she is in bed. That is great man. I'm glad for you both.
If my message to your lady made you uncomfortable, I apologize. That was not my intention AT ALL. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with what I said, and why you would get so defensive about it only makes me think that you must be pretty insecure yourself. I already apologized to her, and I don't think its very cool for you to bring something private, and share it on here like that, when you could have simply messaged me.
But seeing as you did make this public, here is the message I sent to ms snarky earlier today.... I read her comment in a thread about how she admits to bragging to everyone about how big your dick is... and I liked that she was so confident about it, and so I sent her the following message:
Hey there!
I noticed your comment on this
thread and I wanted to say that I love what you said, I love that women talk about our size as boyfriends, and I think its super hot that you're confident about it, and are honest about it. We love the attention, and its a huge point of turn on for us men. I also think it is a great way for a couple to come together, and to turn each other on, to share a fantasy, and to make it into a fetish of sorts.
Tell your girlfriends, your friends, the neighbors, its super hot. Then come back and tell us the story when you get home. I love hearing stories like that when my girlfriends have done so.
have you ever done a measuring with your man? I have explored this before with my ex, where we pulled out a ruler, and she took her time and examined my cock from base to tip, seeing how hard she could make me, and how big she could make me grow, then announcing out loud exactly how big I am. It's extremely hot, especially for the guy, and I bet women like you would love doing this, especially when you compare your man to the average dick of five and a half inches.
thanks for posting, women like you are why the lpsg is so fun.
She seemed to be quite offended by my message to her. She was rude and unsavory in response to me. She said that my measuring fetish was weird, she judged me, and she wasn't kind at all.
This is a website all about big dicks, where that is the subject of conversation, and she posts photos of you measuring your cock... and she brags about you to others, and she clearly is very satisfied with you and your penis.
Is it really that inappropriate for me to talk to her about big dicks, on the website where she voluntarily participates in, shares photos and videos in that is dedicated to talking about big dicks?
Are you intimidated by me? is it because my dick is bigger than yours is? Because you don't need to be insecure when you have eight inches between your legs bro, and a wife that clearly adores you.
I saw how big you are because your wife posted photos of you measuring your cock... You're giant man. Huge cock!
Did you know that your dick is literally bigger than 99.2% of ALL other men!? That's pretty fucking impressive. Using that logic, if you went to an NFL game of 60,000 fans... your dick would literally trump 59,520 of them. I looked it up on
The Visualiser - The Cock Comparison site and your dick man, is the exact size, to where you are legitimately twice the size of the average american penis as found by the kinsey study for the average man.
Your dick is twice the volume of the average american. That's rad bro.
I'm 8.5 inches long, and according to that site I'm 3% bigger than you (don't be mad) and sometimes when I get down, and I'm out in public I think about those numbers i just told you about, because our dicks are essentially the same size (except for that 3%), and I look around, and I realize, that in virtually any room I walk into... I have the biggest cock... I used to have a boss who was a douche, and I would think about that.
I wasn't trying to strike up a bad or inappropriate conversation with her when I messaged her. I was giving her props man. Why are you mad about that? If anything, my conversation with her was me saying:
"Hey my girl and I are kinda like you and your hubby... we should talk... btw we like to do x,y,z... I'll bet your husband would like that too..."
ALSO..... What I said to her... could have benefited you my friend....
What if she took my cues, and came home tonight and she told you a story about how she made her hot coworker jealous because she told her all about how big her husbands cock is... and then your wife dropped down on her knees, sucked your cock, pulled out a ruler, and told you that your dick was the biggest thing she'd ever seen....
You don't think you'd like that?
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I meant no disrespect when I messaged ms snarky, and I meant no harm either.
Please be more kind to others, the world needs more kindness.
Also orgasms, the world needs more orgasms. Maybe you need to go bust a nut man, it always calms me down...
That being said, I'm gonna go jerk off to the video your wife posted of herself
sucking your cock.
I'm just kidding. I jerked off to that a while ago.
Best of luck to you both.
D.
