His main concern in opening up to me about it, is to him it is an absolute nuisance and hindrance in his life. .. He sincerely wishes he was half that size. ... As some are very insecure and unhappy with being almost micro, he is that depressed on the other end of the spectrum.
Here is the thing. Look at it from the position of the people here. We have seen countless people show up saying very similar things. To the point where their posts look randomly generated by AI. Always the giant penis phantom who is trying to avoid fame. But, the thing is, nobody (well, "most", but hedging language sounds less impactful now) will believe an extraordinary claim without corresponding extraordinary evidence. And, a functioning penis, that has not been clearly altered with surgery, that is over 10", non-bone pressed, is an extraordinary claim.
So, if you want to be believed, what you will need is for him to take photos of it in strict accordance with the rules. This can still be done anonymously. There is no need at all for his real name or face to be associated with it.
He will need to take pictures under these conditions:
1. Fully erect.
2. He must be standing, not sitting down.
3. Penis is horizontal/perpendicular to his body (pointing it down can add perceived length)
4. Measured with a hard ruler on top of the penis (not a tape and not to the side, or underneath)
5. The 0 mark on the rule must be visible. (it cannot be bone-pressed)
6. Several photos from similar top-down angle.
Now, bear in mind, the photos will be scrutinized for shopping or AI enhancement. As well as other shenanigans like obvious surgery scars, or dick ballon that looks puffy from having just gotten pumped beyond its natural proportions.
These strict conditions have not yet been met by an individual claiming to have a ten inch penis. Most of the time, people show up, saying something no different than you did. The "shy penis phantom" I call it. So, the only way you will be believed is if you can prove it with the evidence in the strict format laid out.