The act of bondage can be part of sex! I love tying and being tied up. With a guy that enjoys the bondage it is part of the sex act-kinda hot foreplay! I also like a man taking time to tie me up, moving the rope around, getting them just right, the time, the feeling of rope against skin, the look of it, just adds to a great experience. There can be a definite power exchange during the process. I also think the untying process is hot and part of sex. Elaborate rope bondage is not for everyone, but with the right play partners it is fantastic!
So one of my stories, there was a special kink night at the leather bar my group hangs out at. I had my sir do a rope harness on me that I wore to the night out. It was fun putting it on, was very well done, was also intimate doing it, and showing it off at the party was great.
Well because of next day activities we were going to our separate homes after the evening out. I asked him if he could untie me at the club. We decided to do it on the main activity floor instead of going to a private corner. We were off to the side, but he was unwrapping me in front of a number of guys. This was a full harness so we had to work at getting it off my cock and balls without violating liquor laws in our city. (No privates can be out in a bar!) That made it fun, naughty, and hot. It was a very intimate act done in a very public space, but with people who enjoyed the show.
It was hot walking out of the bar shirtless with the rope slung over my shoulder, knowing that we had provided entertainment for a number of guys.
I love rope!