The Lost Art of the Blowjob
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daddy4use69
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I understand the porn driven blowjob with only a mouth, but I always defer to the guy I'm blowing. If he says no hands, it's no hands. If he wants hand, I use my hands and my mouth. It's all up to the man. When I was having women blow me, I liked it when they mixed it up some hands, some mouth and some both, but I too wanted to see their head bobbing up and down on my cock at that last minute and to keep their hands away as I was too sensitive and wanted it to last.
Now that I have no interest in receiving blowjobs and only crave giving them, again, it's up to the man. I mean I love feeling a warm cock in my fist as I jerk a cock into my mouth. I can feel his heartbeat with one hand while I cup his tightening balls with the other. I do a threesome, one hand cupping his balls, one wrapped around his cock just under my mouth and I bob up and down with my fist connected to my mouth. It drives a man crazy, but some guys just want to see your head and face and eyes as you blow them.
I really love giving a mouth only blowjob and do my piston thing with my lips sucking his cock head on each up stroke, closing my lips on the tip. When he's about to cum, unless he wants to see his cum shoot in my mouth or on my face, I don't even react to him cuming into my mouth as I just keep moving up and down moaning as I go and trying to swallow. Sometimes, I'll deliberately let some cum dribble out and slither down his cock as I'm still working his cock. Other times, they'll cum so hard that I truly can't keep it all in my mouth and swallow too.
One guy really wanted to see my open mouth full of his cum and told me to save it all and show him and then swallow, which I did. That was so hot for both of us, but he came a lot.
So I'll disagree about blowjobs being a lost art, in my own case.
I'm always ready to put up or shut up with my mouth doing the talking.
Now that I have no interest in receiving blowjobs and only crave giving them, again, it's up to the man. I mean I love feeling a warm cock in my fist as I jerk a cock into my mouth. I can feel his heartbeat with one hand while I cup his tightening balls with the other. I do a threesome, one hand cupping his balls, one wrapped around his cock just under my mouth and I bob up and down with my fist connected to my mouth. It drives a man crazy, but some guys just want to see your head and face and eyes as you blow them.
I really love giving a mouth only blowjob and do my piston thing with my lips sucking his cock head on each up stroke, closing my lips on the tip. When he's about to cum, unless he wants to see his cum shoot in my mouth or on my face, I don't even react to him cuming into my mouth as I just keep moving up and down moaning as I go and trying to swallow. Sometimes, I'll deliberately let some cum dribble out and slither down his cock as I'm still working his cock. Other times, they'll cum so hard that I truly can't keep it all in my mouth and swallow too.
One guy really wanted to see my open mouth full of his cum and told me to save it all and show him and then swallow, which I did. That was so hot for both of us, but he came a lot.
So I'll disagree about blowjobs being a lost art, in my own case.
I'm always ready to put up or shut up with my mouth doing the talking.
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I just blog posted this because I've gotten asked so many times, "Do you have any tips?"
It's less about the using the hand vs. not using the hand, but that's part of it.
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It's less about the using the hand vs. not using the hand, but that's part of it.
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Dude, you could teach a master class just with the tips you've shared. And I'd gladly sign up!!
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People don't go to the baths like we used to and you would learn good technique there by osmosis by seeing and experiencing others giving great head. The last time I had an orgasm by a guy was 20 years ago at the baths in Chicago. Of course most of the guys sucking on me were straight massage clients, but they had a reason to be clueless. I had a straight boytoy for 6 years who loved the way I sucked cock but never thought to try sucking my cock that way, thus he was never able to get me off and I didn't like telling him what he was doing wrong as he was more important than me getting off.
So you just primarily orgasm by masturbation for the last 20 years?
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I’m very inexperienced at sucking cock. But this blows my mind. I’ve gone down on my best friend twice and I can’t keep my hands off his cock. I love the feeling of it in my grip. I can’t take all of him anyway, so I get to rub and hold him as I use my mouth for the rest.
Any owner of a cock should know how to pleasure another cock. But the world has become very selfish and no one takes the time to enjoy it.
Any owner of a cock should know how to pleasure another cock. But the world has become very selfish and no one takes the time to enjoy it.
Exclusively and while watching porn. I used to cum by others efforts when I went to the baths over 20 years ago, but I got worried about disease. I can't complain. I like servicing others and have had many thousands of erotic massage clients over the years. I still have very intense orgasms at 70, so I can't complain, plus i still get some hot massage clients at 70, 42 years after I began being a masseur. I had hot sex with my boytoy I saw for 6 years at age 58, but although he loved the way I sucked his dick, he sucked my dick like most porn stars so I never ever got even close with him. I didn't want to correct him and never corrected others.
In my experience different cocks may like very different intensity and kinds of stimulation compared to your own. What feels good for your cock may not work for someone else's. Being in tune with the cock and man you are sucking and paying attention to cock swelling and the man's moaning is key.
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I agree 100%.
That’s kind of what I mean. You should be able to tell by how the man you’re pleasuring reacts to what you’re doing and tell what he likes and what he’s not liking.
I would like to share my favorite blowjob technique. I do this to my boyfriend at least 2 or 3 times every weekend. It's basically having a guy fuck your face. Have the man lie on his side facing you. Grab a pillow and position it near his groin. Lie on your side with your head on the pillow facing the man's groin area. Get yourself in a comfortable position for him to thrust his cock in your mouth. Have him fuck your mouth: thrust in and out while you suck him. No hands on the cock. But definitely use your free hand to play with his balls and ass. You can use your other hand to JO but try and stay focused on the guy and the job at hand. Focus on rubbing your tongue on his shaft. This last point is important. Rub your tongue on the shaft fast and hard and continuously. Put your effort into this tongue massage part wile he thrusts in and out of your mouth, it may get tiring to do this tongue part, but I think it works wonders. Taking a short break and allowing the guys cock to rest 10 seconds sometimes helps move things along. You will be rewarded with a mouth full of tasty jizz. Usually it squirts down the back of my throat so I wont even taste it but I try to suck it into my mouth so I can savor the taste. I JO my self while doing this but I keep the focus on him. When he is done I have him straddle my face with his cock all the way in my mouth and his balls in my nose and I JO like crazy. Sometimes I finish JO by rimming him.
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Dude getting blown (Merp) looks just like a good friend from my youth who fathered kids with four different women. No surprise there.
Like you say most good bjs are suck/stroke combos. I would add holding a guy's balls in one hand while letting index & middle fingers of that hand press against his perineum (taint). This stimulates the prostate which is internal to the taint. First time it happened to me my orgasm happened fast and was almost insanely intense. I have used it since.
No need to actually rub the taint using this technique. The vigorous motion of stroking while sucking sets up a kind of rubbing motion all on its own. Just keep finger pressure against it. I experiment with forking fingers around the taint and monitoring the response.
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Most of my married clients also liked a finger on the prostate. They would see Jesus.Dude getting blown (Merp) looks just like a good friend from my youth who fathered kids with four different women. No surprise there.
Like you say most good bjs are suck/stroke combos. I would add holding a guy's balls in one hand while letting index & middle fingers of that hand press against his perineum (taint). This stimulates the prostate which is internal to the taint. First time it happened to me my orgasm happened fast and was almost insanely intense. I have used it since.
No need to actually rub the taint using this technique. The vigorous motion of stroking while sucking sets up a kind of rubbing motion all on its own. Just keep finger pressure against it. I experiment with forking fingers around the taint and monitoring the response.
There isn't really a straight forward answer to a technique question because it does depend a lot on how much time you have, the size of his cock, what he likes, cut or uncut etc.
So my advice is to know half a dozen techniques and rotate through them to figure out what he responds to. Usually the swelling of his cock will tell you this. The key then is to return to the ones he likes and use the one he likes most to make him cum.
The "art" of a blowjob Is crafting an experience that has him coming back for more.
If you are having a long edging session, I tend to start with softer sensations first and build up to more intense ones and cycle back just before he cums.
If you're needing to make him cum ASAP for whatever reason, go straight to the intense stuff, keep it wet and make sure your rhythm is consistent until he cums.
So my advice is to know half a dozen techniques and rotate through them to figure out what he responds to. Usually the swelling of his cock will tell you this. The key then is to return to the ones he likes and use the one he likes most to make him cum.
The "art" of a blowjob Is crafting an experience that has him coming back for more.
If you are having a long edging session, I tend to start with softer sensations first and build up to more intense ones and cycle back just before he cums.
If you're needing to make him cum ASAP for whatever reason, go straight to the intense stuff, keep it wet and make sure your rhythm is consistent until he cums.
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Good points and now I realise where I got my skills from. In those far-off days when porn was rare you got all your tips on sex from experience, and I had loads of "baths" experience, from steam to sauna. Steam baths were best and the sucking was amazing, it wasn't just a cock in the mouth simulating a fuck but a sex act itself, involving not just the cock but balls, nipples and asshole. Naturally in the steam other things went on but when you're hot and relaxed its amazing what you can take - being pleasured with a guy on his knees in front and a guy grunting in your ear as he pumps spunk in you, well, was amazing.
So thanks for the trip down memory lane, I'm sure my gentleman callers would be amused where I did learn my skills
