Hi so I think my "Straight"Crush likes me and can you guys tell me if I'm delulu or....Ok well to describe my crush he is like the straighted person I have ever met at least in his appearance.If I had to describe he like a very handsome pale skin Arab guy with big brown eyes pink lips and very hairy(Looks Latino THO).He is the player type I know that he had many girlfriends or atleast girls he was talking to at the same time.He is also a Muslim and I am too.These are some of the reasons why at first I thought there was no chance but let me explain.In the beggining of last year at highschool i was put into a class with many other classmates and 1 of my friends and everyone was new and then when we were moved to our classes that's when I noticed him.This boy who I thought was really cute and obviously like most other dreamboats I concluded in my mind he was straight and even tho I was attracted to him I thought it couldn't be something more but then He started to ask my friends about me and sometimes ask me the most random questions and thats just something anyone can do so I didn't think much of it but I started to get a bit confused when he started dating my friend,First of all when they started dating he would literally never talk to her even in the beggining I would always have to go drop her off by him and say something in a joking way like"I can't deal with this girl anymore she's yours now"And he would always look disappointed but hug her then she would come back after like 20 seconds everyday we would be looking for him but then at classes I noticed that he barley ever talked to her he would mostly just come sit by us say something to her then just start talking to me and at the time I didn't think much of it because he was my friends boyfriend and you should have a decent relationship with your lovers friend he would do this everytime and I never really noticed until I actually thought about it after 2 days he broke up with her and since she is my friend I was not going to try to talk to her ex during that time period(Forgot to mention he would always ask me during this time period if I was gay and he would like bite his lip while saying that and I always said no in a awkward way)I noticed that he would always be looking at me if he is not talking to his friends most of the time I'd notice him looking at me with those big brown eyes and I just wouldn't look back but I could still feel his eyes on me, after a while he started talking and flirting with my other female friends everytime he would come to sit by me and my friend/friend talk to them for a couple seconds and then try to bring me into the conversation like he say something like "Well what do you think about it (My name)."And most. Of the time I would give him short cold answers like "I don't really care"Or something of that nature but not in a rude per say more like a I don't care way and the thing is if I wasn't sitting with my friend he would never talk to them even if he was sitting right next to them after while because of this behaviour he would do it every single day it was like a pattern I also started to notice the other things he does like to someone he has a crush on to me like being polite asking me for favours etc etc Once he actually did say to his friend that I got a fatter ass then the girls and his friend told me even tho he was begging him not to tell me and I was shocked I didn't say anything and just avoided eye contact but inside I was dying ok fast forward to this year we were put in different classes and he hasn't talked to me since but I see that he is often looking at me and I decided today I'm gonna tell him I like him and see if he actually likes me back but what do you guys think about this?
Think my "Straight"crush likes me ,thoughts?
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Dude I say go for it what could go wrong! He definitely seems interested from all of that but also be careful and mindful that you don't loose your friend from dating him. Just be mindful and I would also ask your friend if they dont mind you trying to see/talk to him. But yeah go for it!
Thanks so much I'm gonna talk to him tomorrow because I got shy today also my friend was actually not a good friend to me so I unfriended her but thank you
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Good. Also please keep in mind that this guy is probably still figuring himself out so be aware of the things he could do because he's "straight" so yeah take care of yourself and remember to put yourself first
Hi there. Do not say you like him.
It's likely about sex for him
Emotions might come after if and when once there is sexual contact between you both
But if you start with emotions and "i like you", then he'll likely get spooked and that is that.
Take it easy
Take it slow
Orchestrate your seduction but make it seem as if it's all his idea and he's in charge and let him come to you
Goodluck
It's likely about sex for him
Emotions might come after if and when once there is sexual contact between you both
But if you start with emotions and "i like you", then he'll likely get spooked and that is that.
Take it easy
Take it slow
Orchestrate your seduction but make it seem as if it's all his idea and he's in charge and let him come to you
Goodluck
Thank you so much I will put my myself first I heard alot of people don't get treated right because they are the experiment,I think im gonna pull mission befriend him and see if he confesses his feelings to me But I'm try to hint at him that Iike him but more boldly thoughts?
Thank you so much for the advice I'm gonna do exactly that I'm put plan befriend and seduce into action
Guys yesterday I wanted to tell him but I got shy so thank you guys for the advice and I'm glad I didn't atleast yet but also yesterday we had a convo because my friend asked him a question and I was with that friend and he would like never ever ever make a eye contact with me I even asked him to look at my eyes to see if he could see them through the glasses and he like glanced and he looked down again then responded is that a good thing?
Also I forgot to mention that last year in the locker room he would usually just put his stuff right behind me while I got in my underwear and put on my or uniform and take out his uniform and he didn't even need to because he wore his PE clothes under and before he shouldn't even do that
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Your overthinking it too much. I'd say if you known him for a bit just ask him if he's been checking you out and if he feels the same way you have about him. I mentioned be careful cause straight men love to toy with you because they get scared if things in the heat of the moment get too real. So just keep that in mind and ask him out when you can
Well I mean I wanted to try and hang out with him but I got shy but we did have like a small convo and also it randomly started raining on Tuesday I think and I held out my umbrella for him
Thank you for the advice ,I feel Hella scared to ask him that but Imma try and muster up the courage today
So I had a similar situation with a friend I really liked. We hung out all the time but back then I was still dating girls and so was he. We would go out together to parties to pick up girls and sometimes we did. But I found him incredibly attractive and I’d jerk off thinking about him all the time.
It wasn’t until 2 years of knowing him that we both got drunk and he was gonna sleep over at my place and in my bed because I only had one. In the middle of the night I had the courage to ask him if he’d ever done anything with men. He said no, he asked if I did, I said yes, he asked what I did, I said everything and then we went to bed.
I thought he liked me because he flirted so much with me and did many things to lead me into thinking he was interested in me but it wasn’t the case.
Be careful how you go about this situation!
It wasn’t until 2 years of knowing him that we both got drunk and he was gonna sleep over at my place and in my bed because I only had one. In the middle of the night I had the courage to ask him if he’d ever done anything with men. He said no, he asked if I did, I said yes, he asked what I did, I said everything and then we went to bed.
I thought he liked me because he flirted so much with me and did many things to lead me into thinking he was interested in me but it wasn’t the case.
Be careful how you go about this situation!
Thanks for sharing. From what I get from it, I am definitely under the impression that he has taken a liking for you and may be curious/still exploring his sexuality. Similar to what the others have said, I urge you not to say “I like you” to him. It’s good to be honest with your emotions, but this is a sensitive situation so I recommend you take it very slowly. This is because I do believe that if you directly tell him that you like him, it’s very likely (but not certain) that he might be frightened because of the emotional commitment.
I would suggest that you start off hanging out 1-on-1. Maybe ask him, “hey, I was thinking of watching a movie? wanna go with me?” So pretty much hang out with him and try to do an activity because if he likes you then he might be a bit shyer than usual if it’s just you two and the activity could help break the ice. Maybe go get some ice cream too or go for a walk near a downtown or something. Wish you the best of luck OP and keep us updated because I’m kinda invested now haha!
If he was a close friend, I would say NO, NO, NO. It inevitably ends the friendship.
However, he is an acquaintance. I would see if you can find a reason to invite him to a bar for some heavy drinking. Find ways to compliment yourself or him. I am not sure what the rules are in gay Muslim culture. But if in white world, at juiuuust the right level of drinking, I would be like “Ever kissed a guy?” “Would you want to, if it was just a secret between us?” And use that as the way for him to express his desire. If he goes for it and is all tongue, you know he fucking wants you. Then I would be like “Wanna go to my place or yours? I feel all sweaty and need a shower. That cool.” A very nonthreatening way to tell him “I am willing to be naked around you.” Then let it go from there.
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It sounds like you’re not out at school? If so FFS do NOTHING except get to know him. I don’t know if everyone saying “tell him” is 12, an eternal Peter Pan or plain old deluded but from what I’ve observed, school is still no pansexual playground where you can safely announce a crush on anyone you like. Throw muslim into the mix and, like, WTF?
Moreover, and sorry to hit you with this, you are creating a fantastical narrative around the slightest interaction that you’ve had with this guy; probably from overthinking then taking your heart’s paintbrush and filling every blank space with shades of pink. You likely have memories of short scenarios that stretch to eternity now and have spun them round and tugged at and tweaked them until they are a perfect soap opera of two hot gay teens that will definitely end up together.
Yet there’s a 99% chance that you never ever cross his mind outside of those scenarios.
So I don’t know maybe this is a piss take and the replies are piss taking back, but I say get to know him better if you want to then see. And DON’T seduce but befriend.
UNLESS you’re out and proud and have a strong support network who’ll stand up for you should the worst happen?
This has happened to the best of us and happy endings are quite rare. Sorry. Would love to hear a new version of an age old story though…
Moreover, and sorry to hit you with this, you are creating a fantastical narrative around the slightest interaction that you’ve had with this guy; probably from overthinking then taking your heart’s paintbrush and filling every blank space with shades of pink. You likely have memories of short scenarios that stretch to eternity now and have spun them round and tugged at and tweaked them until they are a perfect soap opera of two hot gay teens that will definitely end up together.
Yet there’s a 99% chance that you never ever cross his mind outside of those scenarios.
So I don’t know maybe this is a piss take and the replies are piss taking back, but I say get to know him better if you want to then see. And DON’T seduce but befriend.
UNLESS you’re out and proud and have a strong support network who’ll stand up for you should the worst happen?
This has happened to the best of us and happy endings are quite rare. Sorry. Would love to hear a new version of an age old story though…
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