Threesome's with a couple

[LilJock]

True, but I still don't think it's that common. This falls into the category of "the passing panhandler" phenomenon. ... As humans we tend to extrapolate from whatever's unusual that catches our attention.

I think it actually falls into another kind of "human" reaction -- not believing things that we haven't experienced ourselves. Some people on this thread think that wanting a threesome for added size is very rare, because it is outside of their personal sphere. However, I have been with many dozen couples who want an outside man to join them.

Uncutpete, you may be surprised, but you don't make a landslide, nor even a trend. You, too, represent a variant of "the passing panhandler" phenomenon. You extrapolate from your own experience and think, ipso facto, that's how everybody else must live. Nomads in the barren desert herding camels and South Sea islanders wearing grass skirts probably thought everyone lived just like they did at one time. Even sophisticated people in Manhattan fall into that trap. The New Yorker movie critic Pauline Kael once expressed complete disbelief at the landslide of 1972, "I don't know anyone who voted for Nixon!" Pauline, like Dorothy, wasn't in Kansas.

I suppose the divergence may lie in how we interpret "common". To the original woman's question, I responded statistically, that as a percentage of the population three-ways and swinging probably weren't that common. That doesn't mean many people don't do it. Lots of people are members of LPSG, but if you stopped people on the street and asked if they were members, you could probably go all day without getting a positive response (even assuming they were totally forthright). There are probably a couple thousand LPSGers in New York, Los Angeles and London, but each of those cities has a population in the millions, so, per capita, they're not that common.

That was my point, not that lots of people didn't.

As to the "other kind of 'human' reaction -- not believing things that we haven't experienced ourselves," I've had a number of three-ways and an extremely active sex life. I've been to nude beaches and resorts, sex and swinger clubs. I've also explored many areas of the "dark side" which I don't even bring up in private chat. But I'm also aware that most people are a little more sedate sex-wise. The last I heard, the average male lays somewhere around five to six women in his life. This is not the makings of a worldwide orgy, let alone a national slumber party.

But I concede that "the birds do it, bees do it, even educated fleas do it" - just not as often as we think, and usually in twos.

 

[Uncutpete]

Uncutpete, you may be surprised, but you don't make a landslide, nor even a trend.

I claimed neither landslide nor trend. Just more common than many people think. Perhaps your own experience is proof of that.

 

[reuben36]

I claimed neither landslide nor trend. Just more common than many people think. Perhaps your own experience is proof of that.

I still tend to agree with Pete that it is maybe a little more common than thought. I know that this is a stretch but recently read somewhere that domestic violence takes place in most relationships in like 4 out of every 10 marriages. Even in couples where you'd think it'd never happen. I guess my point is just because you don't see it in your everyday life doesn't mean it not happening behind closed doors more often than thougfht.

 

[bloodshot69]

I think it actually falls into another kind of "human" reaction -- not believing things that we haven't experienced ourselves. Some people on this thread think that wanting a threesome for added size is very rare, because it is outside of their personal sphere. However, I have been with many dozen couples who want an outside man to join them. Other guys here have as well. More often than not, cock size plays a role. That is our experience. And I assure you, that desire in couples is way more common than your 'panhandler phenomenon."

Take a look at my poll about sharing wives and girl friends, in the ("Relationships, Discrimination and Jealousy..." forum). Over 110 people answered that they either fantasized about, or actually shared their partners (in a ratio of about 2:1). I'm not making any attempt to be statistically accurate, just that a significant number chose to answer the poll positively just on this site. In terms of the people who take the time to read and answer polls here, that's not that rare at all.

Threesomes in general are exceedingly rare, the average person out there has never experienced one. MMF threesomes are even more rare, FFM threesomes are more common, but still very rare. I would say using this site as a litmus test for what's "normal" out there in the real world is probably not a good idea.

My ex and I had more than a few FFM threesomes over the years we were together, I always enjoyed it a lot. She was bi and we lived in LA, so it was an easy situation to get into. I'm one of the only friends I know of that's ever done something like that though.

 

[BaronSaber]

i have several times.

 

[84879]

All I know is that in my local craigslist page, everyday there are dozens of couples, married and otherwise that are seeking to involve a single, usually hung third party so although not common at large there are always some in every city ready to experiment.

 

[reuben36]

All I know is that in my local craigslist page, everyday there are dozens of couples, married and otherwise that are seeking to involve a single, usually hung third party so although not common at large there are always some in every city ready to experiment.

The same can be said for here in Nashville, Tn and im sure in most larger cities.

 

[Kingofpop]

Sounds like Chadstallion and uncutpete have done this quite abit :wink:.

 

[chadstallion]

Sounds like Chadstallion and uncutpete have done this quite abit :wink:.

I do what I gotta do to get the dude😄

 

[Scott8361]

I only had one threesome experience with a couple. They were once married to each other but were divorced, but they still got together for sexual relations. They had a fantasy to have her have sex with another guy with him taking pics and video. They propositioned me with the opportunity through a amature pic exchange site.

Despite being only 6.5x4.5 I was still the bigger guy as he was a good inch shorter than me. I was nervous as hell as this was a first for me. It was strange to be the center of attention with high expectations to perform. They both liked my cock.We had some fun but I had some difficulty keeping things going. The guy ended up getting sick due to a mix of booze and some drug he took. So that pretty much messed up the evening.

A week later I got together with the guy to review the video. I remember one part where I was straddling her torso as she was sucking me. She took my hard dick and started slapping herself in the face with it. He commented how much she must have liked my dick to do that. She never did that with him. He also liked a still shot he took of us in the doggy position with my longer, hard cock laying on top of her ass. He said I should have just shoved it in and fucked her hard right then, but we were just getting started capturing some still shots before he broke out the video.

Turned out he liked my cock too! He offered me right then and there to fuck him in the ass bareback! That caught me off guard and turned him down. The whole situation proved very awkward for all of us and we never tried it again. But it was strange to be the "big guy" as I usually was the smaller guy in my bi exploration.

 

[deleted73529]

Well, we are a "real" cuckold couple. My wife has had sex with a dozen men over the last few years. Most have been in threesome scenarios, although typically the other man is the focal point in terms of intercourse, and I usually watch and perform oral on her.

In every threesome, the other man has been considerably bigger than me (I'm under 5" and thin) and almost always has been able to bring my wife to orgasm(s). On the other hand, I have never been able to bring a woman to orgasm from penetration alone....so the penis size dynamic is a big part of the reason why we became involved in this lifestyle.

I don't believe threesomes are that widespread, maybe 5% of the married population, but it's more prevalent that you might expect. Check out AFF or SLS and you'll find plenty of couples looking for an extra male for the wife's pleasure.

 

[littleguyhugedick]

I have done dozens 3ways. You set the rules first and if anyone wants out it is over. My cock has ALWAYS been bigger than the other guys.

 

[reuben36]

Well, we are a "real" cuckold couple. My wife has had sex with a dozen men over the last few years. Most have been in threesome scenarios, although typically the other man is the focal point in terms of intercourse, and I usually watch and perform oral on her.

In every threesome, the other man has been considerably bigger than me (I'm under 5" and thin) and almost always has been able to bring my wife to orgasm(s). On the other hand, I have never been able to bring a woman to orgasm from penetration alone....so the penis size dynamic is a big part of the reason why we became involved in this lifestyle.

I don't believe threesomes are that widespread, maybe 5% of the married population, but it's more prevalent that you might expect. Check out AFF or SLS and you'll find plenty of couples looking for an extra male for the wife's pleasure.

Interesting, lol.

 

[steel33]

It has been our experience, my wife and I, that as a couple it is easier to have a MFM experience than finding a couple that fits us both. I enjoy both seeing her get off with another guy but also being part of her experience. It's more about finding someone respectful to both of us. It is after all both of us participating. I guess the size if the guys cock isn't really as important as respect and ring a decent dude.
We are not that uncommon in our wants either. More couples are finding this is a direction that is much easier to navigate.

 

[jeff_infl]

Just curious Jeff but i get that he enjoyed seeing his wife with a bigger guy but do you think you really satisfied her better or just gave her something bigger? And if you gave it to her better what were there reactions to it? Was the husband angry?

Obviously I have no way of quantifying if I satisfied her better.
I know she came a few times on my cock, and I know she was extremely verbal both being fucked and riding me.

The husband was not upset, I was not the first person that had fucked her in front of him.

 

[reuben36]

Obviously I have no way of quantifying if I satisfied her better.
I know she came a few times on my cock, and I know she was extremely verbal both being fucked and riding me.

The husband was not upset, I was not the first person that had fucked her in front of him.

Hmmm...interesting.

 

[Italian1986]

yes, the couple 3somes I've had my cock was bigger and thicker than the husband's. she liked it hard and deep; he liked to watch; i'd do the wife doggie style and he would be underneath both of us; licking my cock as I fucked her. she would blow him. the second time we played i got to fuck him as well as her. the next time he wanted to meet without the wife.

Damn buddy! This is EXACTLY what just happened to me!
I love having sex with couples, being their toy...

 

[FreddieCrunk]

My experience with a sweet and petite long time ex wasn't great but it was interesting. It was a just happened thing. A guy known for his size and conquests with said in mobile home park (yeah, I can see the snicker on your face as you read this now! hey, it was wildly cheap and I was saving up funds). I had taken a place for six months with a lead from a female co-worker (who had mentioned the guy and had sampled the guy, she lived there too just four units from the place I took). I had made some comments to my waif of a girlfriend about watching out for the guy. He worked midnights and was the maintenance guy for the twenty or so unit park. I gathered this gave him the schedule and the access to do his thing with females like my co-worker who was also there on a six month deal having just divorced and had to wait for the settlement funds to get to her.

In addition to his position and schedule he had two other things going for him. He was rather attractive. Very wiry in build and though only 150 pounds had a swagger and aura of a guy that could take care of himself. It was his piercing blue eyes that must have opened a few doors for him. They were captivating.

Anyway, my gf had a talk our senior year of how we had "missed" out on the college sexual exploration stuff by dating exclusively almost the entire four years. We had not acted upon that then. The topic came up again. My gf and I were sitting around a little "camp fire" I had made in front of the mini-abode sipping through a six pack. He came over and joined. I had spoken to him a few times by then and so this was done seamlessly. Then a few hours into the evening the whole "we will likely get married someday yet wonder about the sow your oats phase we both missed" came up. It came organically from his chatting about only focusing on a more hedonistic life style and then the next thing he knew he was 35 and both single and childless and wondering if he had wandered too long down that path.

In looking back at what happened a few days later I had to admit I had been played. He was shark in bloody water. He had game and knew what buttons to press. I don't care about all that instead give him a standing ovation for his patience and guile.

Besides the session was a memory for life. As would be expected it took a while for her to adjust but once she did it was an amazing scene to participate in for all three of us. I can still see the magic look on her face. I was on my knees getting oral from her after giving her oral. I was off to the side. He had been watching and getting "ready." He got between her legs at the end of the bed when I went to the top. She had one hand on my dick and her face towards me to give casual oral. She looked down as he was starting (rolling his erection over her clit and vulva to mix up the natural lubes) and then she looked up at me and we made eye contact. Without words she conveyed a perfect mix of nervousness and eagerness to try. I had seen the look before when we had gone bungee jumping. Except this time the look was tinged with pure eroticism.

I have that picture in my head and the sounds she made. Both the ones implying a bit of a struggle in the beginning and the ones she made during her ten minutes after that.

 

[At.your.cervix]

I've written about this before in here, so I'll keep it short, though not very sweet. In college I had an older buddy, Gary, who asked me if I'd fuck his wife Jan (who I was also close with). We used to swim together and he knew that even flaccid, I had a much larger than average dick, while his was barely visible behind his pubes--he wanted to see her get screwed by a big cock. At first I said I didn't think so, but after him asking me again a few weeks later I agreed, and that night I fucked Jan while Gary watched. We fucked each other like wild animals, with Jan coming over and over again; Gary cried like a little baby. Our whole friendship fell apart in short order after that night, as did their marriage. That was my last threesome with another couple for obvious reasons.

 

[allre]

Yes, this happen all the time I get invited to threesomes. Its why I am there, I love it.