threesomes

Back in college I was in a 3some. It was my girlfriend and I and one of my close friends from the basketball team. It started of well but did not end well and I have not been in a 3some since. He was unable to get it up and keep it up. This was bad for a few reasons
1) He was really big..about as big as me hard when he had a semi (7")
2) My g/f of the time had never been with a black guy and wanted to
3) It ended up with my g/f and I fcking and him jerking off trying to get hard...it was weird however because he came but never really got hard...I didn't know that was possible.
4) Our relationship was always kind of weird after that...he seemed embarassed, but never wanted to talk about it.

If you have any feedback, or want me to go more in detail just let me know. I would love to get some reactions from you.
 
ive done a lot of 3somes mainly with 2 girls
the few MFM i have been in mostly the guy will watch fuck his wife or let her suck him as i fuck

one of the crazier MFM, the guy was almost as big as me, at first we just took turns fucking her and then when we was fucking her he told me to start fucking her ass, that lasted a total of 4 hours and we left her lifeless on the bed
 
I don't like threesomes for a number of reasons, I find having another person there doesn't make things more intense, it makes it less so because there are more points of focus, personally I felt I was interchangeable. The simple mechanics themselves can also be awkward. I much prefer one on one sex, I like the intensity and the intimacy.
 
I almost had a three-way with my on again off again girlfriend and a buddy. She had been making a lot of comments about how good looking and well built he was. So one night we were together smoking weed at his place and I encouraged them to start making out, hoping I could get a three way going. Well, he was very hung, and my girlfriend fucked and sucked him while I watched and jerked off. I was very jealous of him and I am still trying to get over it. Later they both told me it was a real turn on to watch me jerk-off while they fucked. Worse it got around or circle of friends. So be carefull what you wish for.
 
I know what you mean, SP. Most of the time, I crave the intensity of one-on-one sex.

On the other hand, I find that "extra" sex strengthens the bonds and intimacy with my main guy. The trust factor is HUGE, plus it adds a LOT of spice to our sex life. Never boring, never the same, always something to talk about and imagine. In fact, it's downright amazing!

I guess I might wind down someday, but until then, I'll make hay while the sun shines... and it ALWAYS shines here in sunny Southern California!

PS: Heyyyy DNxxl.... I'll add that to my list! :biggrin1:
 
I'm wanting to do a threesome, but I'd really only want to do a MFM. I definitely don't want another woman in the mix. No problem with other people doing that, it's just not for me.

And hey, if both guys are hung, I'd be loving that! I've half joked that my ultimate sexual fantasy (to get ALL my fantasies satisfied at once!) is to be with two well endowed, multiracial guys in their twenties! :wink:
 
On the other hand, I find that "extra" sex strengthens the bonds and intimacy with my main guy. The trust factor is HUGE

Granted this is an untested theory, as of yet, in my life but that is how I imagined it to be. This is not something that I would add at the beginning at a relationship and/or to try to make the relationship more and/or save something that is dying/not there. In my mind the relationship has to already be established. You have to have something absolutely over the top incredible before you add others into the mix.

plus it adds a LOT of spice to our sex life. Never boring, never the same, always something to talk about and imagine. In fact, it's downright amazing!

Some of my best fantasies are not just the addition of others but what happens in the aftermath of the additions. The man I that becomes my partner with will be so into me and me into him, there will be no threat by adding others, we will both know who the other belongs to.
 
I have always believed the widely touted standard that a FMF 3 some was every guys greatest fantasy, and I dreaded the day I would love someone so much that I would have to entertain this possibility, not only to make him happy but share experiences with him even if it wasn't my fantasy- I have never been attracted by the thought of a threesome no matter the gender of the participants.
Thankfully I have learned it isn't his fantasy- he's not even interested- which is a good thing cos I am definitely a one on one type woman- dont want another guy there, cos I want to give 100% of my concentration and attention to just one. Dont want another girl there, cos I want 100% of his attention as well.
I think I would have a difficult time being stimulated even with anyone else in the bed- or the kitchen- or the car- or the...............:tongue:
 
I sometimes do threesomes -- my bf and another guy. What I like is sucking one dick while I'm being fucked doggie style; or I'm on my back and one guy is fucking my mouth while the other guy is fucking me with my legs up. They also take turns watching while touching themselves. Sometimes, a "third guy" will ONLY sit back and masturbate while watching the show. The two guys never touch or play with each other.

The most fun part is the FUN of it. We joke, laugh, talk dirty, etc. It's NOTHING like what you see in porn movies -- it's more like going to a ball game (double meaning intended). Maybe it would be more like a porn movie if we added some B&D elements to it, but I have yet to try that with a threesome... hmmmm, maybe I will...

But I digress.

If the "third guy" is a "virgin" at this, make sure he's not a regular member of your social circle in case it gets a bit weird.

BUT, if the third guy is already a player (has done this before), no problem.

And make sure that the third guy is NICE to your gf afterwards and respectfully thanks her or gives her a thank you card. Good manners are essential. You HAVE to thank the "hostess" for having you... and a hostess gift is always welcome.

Oh, and as far as safety goes, condoms, condoms, condoms. My bf is safe, so I can suck him no problem. But without a condom on, I will not give a full blow job to another guy. I'm very strict about safety.

OMG MILF:biggrin1: , I very rarely ditto anyone!!
I can't believe I was about to write a long post about our experiences with MFM threesomes - but you have written a post almost exactly as I would have written it myself!:tongue: Thanks

My thoughts on MFM threesomes * see above * :smile:

xx
Honey