To bi curious or bi men in the closet.

[JD__OL992]

I'm well aware so many guys are deadly afraid of trying things with other men, even if they are dying to (what if I'm gay? What if women stopped liking me? What if my family shunned me?)
But as someone who started in his 30s, please don't wait another 30 years to start, give it a try, if you like it fine, if you don't, don't. Doesn't make you less of man, besides, you might discover you look really good giving or taking dick.
Like the first guy I fucked, not only his ass looked amazing bouncing, but his moaning made me even harder, not to mention how much he complemented me physically.
Yes, I did feel kinda ashamed after, but getting so many compliments and so sexually desired can be a life changing experience.

 

[daftman]

Thx for that!

 

[Pangurl4u]

My best friend spent 25 years of his adult life denying his bisexuality. When he finally was able to admit it, at the age of 45, he was so much happier. He is still in the closet to his family, friends he grew up with and his colleagues and I am the only person he has ever told. He did that out of necessity because we were developing feelings that were more than just friends and he certainly is not into the same D/s lifestyle that I am. Knowing that he has one person who gets and accepts all of him has opened himself up to now being in a relationship with his twink and being in love for the first time in his 52 year old life. I am so happy for him. He only regrets that it took him so long to come out of self denial.

 

[Trevor]

My best friend spent 25 years of his adult life denying his bisexuality. When he finally was able to admit it, at the age of 45, he was so much happier. He is still in the closet to his family, friends he grew up with and his colleagues and I am the only person he has ever told. He did that out of necessity because we were developing feelings that were more than just friends and he certainly is not into the same D/s lifestyle that I am. Knowing that he has one person who gets and accepts all of him has opened himself up to now being in a relationship with his twink and being in love for the first time in his 52 year old life. I am so happy for him. He only regrets that it took him so long to come out of self denial.

How does he keep the relationship with his twink a secret from his family and friends?

 

[JD__OL992]

How does he keep the relationship with his twink a secret from his family and friends?

I've known plenty of guys who do it, don't ask me how.

Could never, I cannot be not upfront about it.

 

[Pangurl4u]

How does he keep the relationship with his twink a secret from his family and friends?

He projects himself as straight and has a beard (not me). His mother has been so unkind to his female relationships in the past, he hasn't brought any of them home for introductions since 2017.

He lives at home taking care of his elderly mother and 2 disabled brothers. Just to have his own chill space, and save his sanity, he has the keys to my apartment. He uses my apartment to host his twink for dinner dates and for intimacy. Sometimes I am present but not involved, sometimes it a 3 way with my Dom Daddy's permission and sometimes I make myself scarce.

 

[Trevor]

Whatever works I guess!

 

[JD__OL992]

I couldn't do that honestly, there's people who have lost interest in me due being upfront about my sexual orientation and I'm completely fine with it.

Obviously haven't told everyone, but I will if I have to.

 

[Ernestoteles]

What most gender-typical men lack is acknowledgement of their desire for 1) young bodies (‘teens’ or the male equivalent, ‘twinks’) and 2) sexual variety. These male sexual desires are clearly not reflective of female desires, and are dismissed because most women react negatively to them.

Using the label of bisexuality as a tool to find a way out for men trapped in marriage, and the demand that homosexuality must also be practised, seems dubious to me, because I have never noticed a significant difference between young men and women, sexually or emotionally, since I realised that I had overlooked the male half of the population.

Inserting your penis somewhere where it costs nothing (gay men, goats, masturbators) is one thing. But for those who “need both”, good advice is hard to come by. Naive enthusiasm (“the best of both worlds!”) for trying everything is not responsible advice, because most studies show that life outcomes for bisexual men, and even more so for bisexual women, are more negative than for the other groups.