Too thick for 'quickies'?

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chaz very true some people just cant be truthful but it is what it is. My wife has measured me and I am a true 6.5" girth with tape pulled tight. she says it is just to thick to suck for very long that her jaws get sore and because of the girth she can't take much in her mouth. We also have to use a lot of lube even after I go down on her for awhile. Pic included measured. One of her trying to suck it u can see her hand does not go around it.

using this statement as one of many examples, the thicker the cock, the more lube is likely needed upon entry and start of vaginal sex. also if too thick, blowjobs and anal may be out of the question. hence my question for you guys wielding around a fat cock, does your size typically prevent you from having quickies (as well)?
 

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For sure...we typically don't use lube, but my wife has to have at least on orgasm with me using my mouth or fingers before I can try penetrating. Which is fun, but no quickies for us.
 

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I rarely get head cause my girls jaw hurts after. It is the same with sex. zero anal. she has to be really worked up before sex or lube is required. It can be a major draw back at times. I have never been deep throated and I would love to have my cock swallowed. Oh to feel the noise hit the belly...wow. That would be hot!!
 

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Yeah. I'm certainly not huge, but I've never been able to have a quickie unless we've had some sort of foreplay beforehand and she got really wet. Otherwise, the quickie becomes a longie!

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Well, I am not nearly as thick as some of the men here but I am a bit on the stout side, about 5.5" circumference at the head and close to 6.5" right at the base, a little under 6" at mid-shaft.

My wife has no trouble giving me head, but there were a few women in my past who complained of a lot of jaw fatigue when they went down on me. My wife and I used to enjoy quickies years ago and didn't experience too much difficulty at all and we have never had to use artificial lubes.

But with other women I had sex with before marriage quickies would have been problematical.
 

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I would have thought anal would have been easier than vaginal sex for guys with a large penis, as the sphincter is able to stretch more and you can insert deeper into an ass that you can a vagina.
Dont get me wrong, it can still be too think for a quickie as you will need plenty of fingering and lube to stretch and warm up before you take anything to big in your bum.
 

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Actually Fenris it's the other way around. I've had both and I can tell you a vagina is much more capable (and self lubing as well) of accepting what it needs to accept then the sphincter is. An exceptionally large cock or a large cock for the initial entry is much easier vaginally than anally.




I would have thought anal would have been easier than vaginal sex for guys with a large penis, as the sphincter is able to stretch more and you can insert deeper into an ass that you can a vagina.
Dont get me wrong, it can still be too think for a quickie as you will need plenty of fingering and lube to stretch and warm up before you take anything to big in your bum.
 
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Even though I've had an uncomfortable number of partners over the years, I've never even tried a quickie. My first few girlfriends in my early years had enough issues with me even after lots of oral sex and additional lube that I just assumed that this was the way things were going to be; that lots and lots of foreplay was just something that I thought was part of sex. I don't regret always going at it like that for an instant, and neither have my partners.
 

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Needing lube for a thick cock to penetrate is only an issue for circumcised guys. I am considerably thicker than 6 inches around, and I never use lube for vaginal fucking. The foreskin is its own gliding surface, it feels even better than lube to the woman
 
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using this statement as one of many examples, the thicker the cock, the more lube is likely needed upon entry and start of vaginal sex. also if too thick, blowjobs and anal may be out of the question. hence my question for you guys wielding around a fat cock, does your size typically prevent you from having quickies (as well)?

yeah its true... can't just jam in it and have a nice release... the other half of it is-- girls understand this and don't want it either. I'm a big fan of 69s, so thats my quickie. get the girl with my mouth from behind and she can handle my girth better when im on my back.

foreplay and sex is at least 40minutes otherwise, maybe slightly faster if she's been a regular
 

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Well I must agree with Good_Looking_Loser. I really love to eat pussy. even more than sucking a good cock. but it definitely helps getting her nice and wet. So I don't have to force it in. But the circumcised/ uncircumcised thing to me is a myth. I really don't find my cock having a hard time with sensation. unless it's blowing it top then I have a hard time controlling myself from the aftershocks.
Hope that helps
 

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I had a thick buddy who didn't get how his girth made quickies impossible. Funny he never really got it, so I had to make myself scarce because I knew I'd be out off commission for days after fucking him.
 

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I am quite wide and if I enter before lots of foreplay and lube, my GF hurts. If I doesn't heat her up, she dries very fast, we even broke a condom once.
This definitely sucks, since she would love to have a quickie!
 

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I'm 6.25" mseg, close to 7" at the base. I can fit in most women without a whole lot of foreplay, but they've said it's pretty uncomfortable. Usually we require at least a few minutes of foreplay before sex. I've never been able to have a "drop the pants and fuck" quickie, but have still had plenty of less than 10 minutes sessions.