Top Privilege?

[Beanie]

ive searched already, and probably not well enough as someone is bound to tell me.

I want to discuss “top privilege” as the title suggests. I do wonder if it is indeed a thing and if it is relating to you; what does it mean?

I see frequently In porn that the top always gets to climax, however the bottom, being the receptive partner, gets no such release. Is this an oversight I’m exaggerating or a trend??

 

[OKCLane]

Porn does not equal reality.

 

[SkiCop]

Not sure what porn you're watching but i don't find that to be the case. I've been with many a bottom that don't want to cum. so go figure....

 

[Brodie888]

As a bottom, I don't really care if I cum or not during sex. It usually happens but it doesn't bother me if it doesn't.

It's often better not to cum because you feel like being fucked more often through the day.

 

[Bittydrew]

I don't need to cum when I guy is fucking me my prostate does and its better than cumming to me plus I get turned on by pleasing the person I'm with which is an emotional high...

 

[UncutViking]

As a polite top I want to service my bottom, making him enjoy the fucking as much as possible.
I take it as a huge compliment if he cums while I'm inside him. I'd be perfectly happy if he jacks me off after I pull out.

 

[hairybubblebum]

last time a top didn't get me off i asked if i could make him cum again by riding... and shot my load all over his face lol

 

[ohiorod]

I think the situations that the OP referred to are more prevalent in porn. But, I would guess that it may happen in one night stands, where someone just wants to get off and could care less about the sex partner.

Since I am a bit more relationship prone, I am always concerned with the pleasure of my bottom, my significant other. I don’t recall any times that we have engaged in sex where both of us were not satisfied and each had ejaculated. The circumstances vary since we mix it up sometimes, but mutual pleasure is a common denominator.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I don't often cum when I bottom and it's not a requirement because I like to think of myself as a pleaser. I get pleasure from them climaxing and it serves as my goal when I'm intimate with someone. If I don't cum in the moment of passion I will cum much later when I am replaying the scenes of our session in my head.

 

[muskokan]

i only bottom and will always spread my legs for a good top. It is not imperative for me to cum but i do not think of there being a privilege for the top to make me either.
As @Brodie888 says "As a bottom, I don't really care if I cum or not during sex. It usually happens but it doesn't bother me if it doesn't." that for me is all that matters

 

[D_odif]

if the top is hung he is going to make me cum hands free and early on. Which is fine, I can usually pop two more times during the event. Unless the top cums quickly. General I don’t mind if he cums before me, seeing a top blow his load first is what gets me going.