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Guys what are your top tips for taking a huge cock? Best lubes? Anal relaxers? Poppers?
 
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if you're going to take a really big dick for the first time, lightly douche to make sure you're clean deep down.

Then with the guy as others have said, lots of foreplay, fingering, rimming, maybe use a well lubed dildo to just start to relax the sphincter muscles and a guy who'll take it at your speed, try different positions with you till you find one that works for a first time.

otherwise good luck, and enjoy
 

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In addition to suggestions above get a lube injector and lube yourself deeply. Twice.

Never a fan of poppers but a drink or two of alcohol helps partners loosen up. As I've gotten older I prefer sex to be alcohol and drug free.

I don't bottom much but if I know or expect I'm going to I stretch out my boyhole with butt plugs in advance so my top can get into me without much delay.
 
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IMO, being proactive and being an active part of the action is the way to go with any top, moreso with really hung guys.

In bed (or elsewhere), I'm not into poppers, alcohol, PnP, numbing lotions (i.e. clove oil), etc. Being in control allows you to relax more and not fear what's happening. I prefer to be a participatory bottom, not a scared little victim or a wet rag. If he's not taking the time to relax you and open you up with his fingers, do it yourself. It can be really hot foreplay, especially if you're blowing him at the same time.

Also, since "training" with big toys I've found the confidence to take real monsters. Pre-washing is a must (a couple of hours before play, if washing deeply), again building confidence. The knowledge that you can not only take it, but also keep your composure enough to work him over, in my experience, blows really hung tops away.
 

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@DancerBottom Yea. It is an old timer's cure for a tooth ache too. I have some clove oil and have used it for various things. Let me know if you do use it for lube. At least things down there would smell really nice... (if conditions were right). Best!
 
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@DancerBottom Yea. It is an old timer's cure for a tooth ache too. I have some clove oil and have used it for various things. Let me know if you do use it for lube. At least things down there would smell really nice... (if conditions were right). Best!

Anything numbing is a bad idea when it comes to sex, unless you cum in 10 seconds and use it to numb your glans. Pain is the body's signalling mechanism and it's pretty important to work with it, not against it.

The only positive use of numbing I've seen is for deepthroaters to use some chloraseptic spray to suppress the gag reflex, although there are other tricks. See Don’t give up on gaggers for some ideas.
 
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