I'm just curious,Tops is it more work opening up a virgin,and is it worth it over a power bottom? What do you like about each?
I frankly doubt if I ever have taken a male bottom's virginity. But I take it slow and easy whenever I first open up my bottoms to take my above average sized dick. But while I think I could do a great job of taking someone's virginity, I'd have to also be challenged to the emotional impact it would make on them. So if I was given the choice, I'd prefer fucking a more experienced bottom.
That's a great reply. I like how you take everything into account. Not just your own pleasure,but the impact on the bottom.
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As a top who's gonna be taking a virgin ass soon, tbh I think it's definitely gonna be more better to clap an ass that's experienced and I'll say why.
For virgin ass and tight ass in general that lacks use, it's gonna be a tedious process prepping the ass to be clapped since you have to loosen the hole, and it's quite uncomfortable using fingers or toys if there hasn't been much use there, although I think eating ass is a good way to really prep the ass since it feels good and using it is easy, although it not for everyone. Also tight ass actually can hurt for both partners since the virgin is basically having a orifice thats not meant to technically be penetrated be entered, and you'll have to go slow and probably even back out if the pain is too much but everyone has a different pain level. For the top, the tightness can feel good for them but it can be too tight, and then there's also the addition of not knowing if the virgin cleaned themselves out prior to it
For an experienced ass, it'll be way easier and less pain inducing since power bottoms know how to prep before hand, both via cleaning and even prepping themselves to be topped, and since they now know how to get pleasure from it, it's both easy and fun for both partners.
My partner is pretty eager to be clapped tho so even tho he's a virgin, ill still be sure to be gentle and move at his pace so he'll be comfy and not feel stressed
For virgin ass and tight ass in general that lacks use, it's gonna be a tedious process prepping the ass to be clapped since you have to loosen the hole, and it's quite uncomfortable using fingers or toys if there hasn't been much use there, although I think eating ass is a good way to really prep the ass since it feels good and using it is easy, although it not for everyone. Also tight ass actually can hurt for both partners since the virgin is basically having a orifice thats not meant to technically be penetrated be entered, and you'll have to go slow and probably even back out if the pain is too much but everyone has a different pain level. For the top, the tightness can feel good for them but it can be too tight, and then there's also the addition of not knowing if the virgin cleaned themselves out prior to it
For an experienced ass, it'll be way easier and less pain inducing since power bottoms know how to prep before hand, both via cleaning and even prepping themselves to be topped, and since they now know how to get pleasure from it, it's both easy and fun for both partners.
My partner is pretty eager to be clapped tho so even tho he's a virgin, ill still be sure to be gentle and move at his pace so he'll be comfy and not feel stressed
Wow a great educational reply,thanks. I see that you've confirmed what pwrdick has said. I hope that more tops respond,as I'm curious about their opinions.
I'd also like to chat,pm me if you want. I'd like to discuss this further
Good foreplay can help get a guy ready and open, whether a virgin or not, but... Virgins are overrated. I know lots of guys think being someone's first is a badge of honor, and you'll certainly be remembered. But really, for quality sex, you're far better off with someone who's experienced. I've been with two virgins over the years. Sure, they'll always remember me, and I guess that's a plus. Fun, but again, they have so much to learn!
I'd rather have a guy who knows what he likes, knows how to please a top, knows how to take dick (especially if it's thick like mine), and is relaxed about having sex. Also, if you want to be remembered, the odds of a guy collapsing afterwards and saying, "oh my god, that was amazing!" and remembering the sex for ages is higher if you gave each other mind-blowing orgasms. And that's more likely if you're both experienced!
Thanks,I'll remember your advice. If and when I have the opportunity to experience anal( it might never happen hence my curiosity, I'm 72) ,as a bottom,and as a top I'll take everything into account. Prepping for it ,and using butt plugs in graduating sizes to get my ass used to it. When and if it happens, I want the full experience,as a first time bottom and top, rimming,sucking, being the meat in a sandwich,you name it. Thanks agay
Just make sure it's with someone who likes you, not some random hookup. I wouldn't want my first time trying such things to be with a virtual stranger. You'll want someone who takes the time to make it good.
Yes , I realize that. I fantasize about a couple of guys,and think that everything will be all that I want to experience. Anybody can say they will be considerate and clean. I also realize that I need to take precautions,maybe even Prep before I try my first time,even thinking about a condom, although I want it to be bareback. Seeing it on porn ,and the actual deed are two different things. I might add that I'm married,so there's that,if my older wife dies, there'll be a good chance I'll try it. I don't know if the experience will be great or I'll consider it a mistake that I'll never do again. You just never know...
I can't imagine a virgin bottom being a preference of anyone other than a virgin top. A first experience is forever memorable, regardless of how many subsequent times you do it. The clingy attachment that could arise from the newbie toward the de-flowerer when on the other end was nothing more than a forgetful encounter with someone they'll most likely never see again is not worth wanting an extra tight tunnel.
It's like watching the late-night dating shows, and to nearly all women, the last person on Earth they would want to have a sexual encounter with is someone with zero experience.
It's like watching the late-night dating shows, and to nearly all women, the last person on Earth they would want to have a sexual encounter with is someone with zero experience.
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To add to the already excellent replies, I can suggest as one who has been the first dick in line on a virgin hole that it is 100% about getting the man into the state of mind where he is absolutely insistent on getting your stiff member deep up his tight throbbing cock hotel.
Jumping on it and shoving it in is disastrous, obviously.
Progressive teasing, and lightly licking a slow trail from extremities ever closer to the prize will have them visualizing it long before you enter. Too many instructions can kill the moment. Just let them visualize the event and follow their body language.
Which is better, virgin or power bottom? The answer is YES.
Jumping on it and shoving it in is disastrous, obviously.
Progressive teasing, and lightly licking a slow trail from extremities ever closer to the prize will have them visualizing it long before you enter. Too many instructions can kill the moment. Just let them visualize the event and follow their body language.
Which is better, virgin or power bottom? The answer is YES.
In other words both? Am I right? Probably like both for different reasons. I like your answer too.
Having sex with an experienced bottom is always amazing, there is no denying.
But I also love the idea of fucking an inexperienced bottom. I've been with a lot of guys, but as far as I know I've never technically taken anyone's virginity.
But I like to think that I've been the first good experience of a handful of guys. They had had sex before, but it was always a bit quick, rushed or with guys they weren't comfortable with.
In that case I've surely helped them relax and take it fully, much deeper and in a way that was a lot more intense.
If the guy is really inexperienced, I always advise them to train a bit with a small dildo, to learn his body and how to relax the anal muscles. Sometimes I've entered guys with dildos first, it does wonders.
But I also love the idea of fucking an inexperienced bottom. I've been with a lot of guys, but as far as I know I've never technically taken anyone's virginity.
But I like to think that I've been the first good experience of a handful of guys. They had had sex before, but it was always a bit quick, rushed or with guys they weren't comfortable with.
In that case I've surely helped them relax and take it fully, much deeper and in a way that was a lot more intense.
If the guy is really inexperienced, I always advise them to train a bit with a small dildo, to learn his body and how to relax the anal muscles. Sometimes I've entered guys with dildos first, it does wonders.
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