Transgals And E.d.

[iamjustme65]

Seeing this a ton is trans-porn.
I can't help but notice the frequency of difficulty with them maintaining an erection..even during sex.
It isn't all of them of course, but waay more than straight porn.
Do trans females who have added breast/taking hormones have a problem of maintaining an erection?

 

[deleted6505551]

Yes, you are correct. At it's core, male to female hormone therapy is suppressing testosterone and elevating estrogen. Like older guys who's testosterone levels drop we accept the erectile dysfunction is a part of the process for many, if not most, of us. The part you may be missing is that many, like myself, look forward to being unable to maintain an erection. You'll also notice many trans women in those videos have very small dicks because both the penis and testicles atrophy as the estrogen goes to work making them into the feminine version. In other words a penis that suddenly finds itself with almost no testosterone and an abundance of estrogen begins to reform as a clitoris. Again this physical change is welcome, even desired, by many of us.

 

[Bittydrew]

Couldn't say it better AlyssaMTF

 

[deleted6505551]

Couldn't say it better AlyssaMTF

Thanks. It's a thing I am becoming well practiced at explaining. The more we can help others understand us the easier life will be I think.

 

[iamjustme65]

Thanks. It's a thing I am becoming well practiced at explaining. The more we can help others understand us the easier life will be I think.

And I appreciate the answer.
The question was not judgmental, and I appreciate the answer wasn't either.

Cheers

 

[deleted6505551]

And I appreciate the answer.
The question was not judgmental, and I appreciate the answer wasn't either.

Cheers

I took absolutely no offense. In fact I appreciate anyone willing to ask about the lifestyle choice we make. It's not an easy thing to do on many levels so with each step there is a feeling of accomplishment and personally I love talking about it. Hope my answer didn’t seem judgemental as I certainly didn’t intend it to be.

Aly

 

[deleted6505551]

Part of the fascination with trans women for me is being able to give her a orgasm by sucking or by recieving anal. I know its very selfish and goes against the reason why people transition. But I want her to be sexually satisfied.

I'm quite certain that for some girls that is perfect. For some of us though, traditionally male orgasms are well down on the list of what satisfies us sexually. I'm not being critical and appreciate your wanting to offer sexual satisfaction but some of us find that getting blown or being the penetrating partner adds to our dysphoria. Just trying to help you see we aren't one size fits all and what you so kindly offer may be exactly opposite of what some of us seek.

Aly

 

[Bittydrew]

Do like being sucked and licked but not being the person penetrating someone but do like being penetrated....my preference I guess

 

[deleted6505551]

I understand completly. Very confounding trying to seperate sexuality from being born in the wrong phyisical body. I still want to look at a trans person as a person. But my sexual attraction to a beautiful and sexy trans women is strong.

You're so right that it is confounding. I live it every day and still feel confusion a good part of the time. To further complicate matters my sexuality lead me to my desire/ need to transition away from masculinity. While most other aspects of my existence are now a part of my non-masculine life, sexuality is still the most constant. So yes, it seems I do fetishize myself somehow.

Hopefully I didn't come off as preaching in my previous reply. That wasn't my intent. I appreciate you being upfront about your attraction to us. I'm driven by sexuality so your attraction seems completely normal and desirable to me.

Aly

 

[merc41]

Hopefully If I ever were lucky enough to have a LTR with a trans women I would be able to make her feel appreciated and desired as a women.

 

[deleted6505551]

Hopefully If I ever were lucky enough to have a LTR with a trans women I would be able to make her feel appreciated and desired as a women.

I have no doubt you would make her happy.

 

[cherryboom66]

Part of the fascination with trans women for me is being able to give her a orgasm by sucking or by recieving anal. I know its very selfish and goes against the reason why people transition. But I want her to be sexually satisfied.

I can’t think of anything worse than being blown or being asked to “be the man”. Being a fetish infuriates me - but being educated is good.

 

[cherryboom66]

Hopefully If I ever were lucky enough to have a LTR with a trans women I would be able to make her feel appreciated and desired as a women.

This would be difficult as you are transfixed on the “trans”. The worst thing for me, is being constantly reminded that I’m trans. I’m a woman and want to be treated as such.

 

[merc41]

This would be difficult as you are transfixed on the “trans”. The worst thing for me, is being constantly reminded that I’m trans. I’m a woman and want to be treated as such.

There was never intent to demean. But this is a sexual forum. The attraction to you would be as a women. The external genitalia would be a bonus.

 

[cherryboom66]

There was never intent to demean. But this is a sexual forum. The attraction to you would be as a women. The external genitalia would be a bonus.

“Part of the fascination with trans women for me”.... this, you said it earlier on.

 

[merc41]

“Part of the fascination with trans women for me”.... this, you said it earlier on.

But you don't know if they are geniticaly a women or a trans women until after you meet them. You are or I am attracted to them by their female attractiveness, their looks,sense of humor, intelligence etc.,etc, If things click you don't find out untill later that they are transgender. Again a bonus in my book.
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[cherryboom66]

But you don't know if they are geniticaly a women or a trans women until after you meet them. You are or I am attracted to them by their female attractiveness, their looks,sense of humor, intelligence etc.,etc, If things click you don't find out untill later that they are transgender. Again a bonus in my book.
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That generally can’t happen due to abuse, violence and murder. Think I’ve only spoken to a guy twice in a bar who I didn’t know.

 

[merc41]

That generally can’t happen due to abuse, violence and murder. Think I’ve only spoken to a guy twice in a bar who I didn’t know.

Cherryboom66 Don't get me wrong but you seem to be demonizing me because I have an attraction to TG women. I wouldn't be attracted.to anyone at first if they were not good looking. I know that is rather shallow but I'm talking sexually attracted. But aren't we all attracted.to good looking people. Once you get.to know them - if they are idiots,stuck up, bad people that's where you stop. If we are lucky and we are able to get physical and they are TG all the better for me. You seem to get aggressive only because I have a sexual attraction to TG women. I would think that you would be happy that they are sexually acceptable to me first as a person second as women third as a sexual partner. But it seems you have issues with that.

 

[deleted6505551]

But you don't know if they are geniticaly a women or a trans women until after you meet them. You are or I am attracted to them by their female attractiveness, their looks,sense of humor, intelligence etc.,etc, If things click you don't find out untill later that they are transgender. Again a bonus in my book.
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To reinforce what cherryboom66 said, this won't happen. And I think you will find that to be the rule with most of us rather than the exception. First, to not make a guy aware is not fair to him. Second and even more important, it's dangerous. Many men would not see that surprise in our panties as a good thing and are capable of anger and violence. Our need to be cautious is real. It's only paranoid if it's just imagined.

Going back through this thread I think it's important for you to understand the, like any demographic, we are quite diverse in our desires including sexual our sexual wants. Read at least a little about gender dysphoria so you can understand that sex involving our penis is the exact opposite of pleasure for many like myself.

You seem legitimately interested in us. That's why I'm trying to help you understand how we work, at least from my own perspective. Even more to help you see we are each different just like the rest of the human race.

Aly.

 

[cherryboom66]

Cherryboom66 Don't get me wrong but you seem to be demonizing me because I have an attraction to TG women. I wouldn't be attracted.to anyone at first if they were not good looking. I know that is rather shallow but I'm talking sexually attracted. But aren't we all attracted.to good looking people. Once you get.to know them - if they are idiots,stuck up, bad people that's where you stop. If we are lucky and we are able to get physical and they are TG all the better for me. You seem to get aggressive only because I have a sexual attraction to TG women. I would think that you would be happy that they are sexually acceptable to me first as a person second as women third as a sexual partner. But it seems you have issues with that.

Please don’t involve me in your sexism. I don’t think you would accuse a man of “demonising” you and having “issues”. Being strong doesn’t make someone aggressive, I’m just straight to the point. Life is too short to beat around the bush x