Tricked into a blow job in a changing room

[the.shy.one]

Here's the initial situation: I'm 20 years old and have had long-term and short-term relationships with women, including sex. I never felt like I was missing something. When I wasn't in a relationship or felt like it, I simply masturbated.

But now something happened that threw me off track a bit:
I was in Munich for a half-marathon race and stayed overnight in a hotel. In the evening, I went swimming in a public indoor pool to relax. I noticed a young guy around 18 with a swimmer's build who smiled at me. I didn't think anything of it and said "Hi" and smiled back.

Later, I went to take a shower and wanted to change in a changing room. The guy bumped into me again and said something like, "Sorry, I know this sounds stupid, but I think I tied a knot in the drawstring of my swim trunks, and I only have short fingernails and can't undo the knot. Could you please help me with the knot?"

It all sounded totally real and desperate, so I said, "Sure, let's see."
He said, "We'd better go in here," and we both walked into a cramped changing room together.

One voice in my head wasn't entirely comfortable as he locked the door, but the other voice said it would look really weird if I fiddled with the drawstring of his swim trunks out in public. So I got on my knees in front of him, trying to ignore his six-pack and the thick sausage in his trunks. I ran my hands to the top of his trunks and found the drawstring, but the knot was absolutely easy to untie. It didn't make any sense.

My mind was racing.
What had I gotten myself into?
How could this happen?
This couldn't possibly be an accident.

On the one hand, the situation unsettled me, but on the other, it was totally arousing, and my heart was pounding.
I thought to myself, if I didn't do it now, it would haunt me for the rest of my life.

So I slowly pulled his swim trunks down his slightly hairy thighs, and his already semi-erect penis almost hit me in the face.
I grabbed the thing, pulled back the foreskin, and used my mouth and tongue to do exactly THE things I love most, until he had trouble staying upright and came.

But now to the question that's been bothering me: Was my behavior right, and you would have done it the same way as a straight man, or is that already gay and I should question my sexuality?

 

[Rooker]

That’s gay. You weren’t tricked.

And the details you provided indicate you are less interested in advice and just posted this because you get off on telling the story.

 

[cofrader]

So I got on my knees in front of him, trying to ignore his six-pack and the thick sausage in his trunks

There is a section for fictitious/ erotic stories, use it.
Why would anyone get on the knees to untie e knot on a swimsuit? The IA did copy paste from shoelaces?
Ignore a six pack? Why? I wish I have the time and determination to have one myself but it doesn't make something i look on a potential partner.

used my mouth and tongue to do exactly THE things I love most

Eating pussy? I'm sorry I thought you were asking on ask straight men.

The whole story is ridiculous and your sexuality it's obvious for you on the second quote no matter how big her clit is I'm afraid you are going to miss a penis, so do the math.

 

[techpump]

You were gay for him the second you got on your knees

 

[Robert Dole]

He picked up something about you, tested it and found he was right. Don't make too much of "questioning your sexuality", think of it as another sexual experience, and it happened to be arousing for you. Up to you if you explore it further, but if you don't go you won't know...

 

[Nemorex]

Sounds like you liked it. It’s no problem

 

[throbb]

To answer your question, if you wanted to do it, and he wanted you to do it, I don't think you did anything wrong.

I think it's fine to experiment to help figure out what you are, which you get to change any time you want. I'm not sure the straight/gay thing is so important for identity. Young guys if I remember being 20 pretty much need to cum 4 times a day and get really horny in all sorts of situations, and sometimes you might feel like blowing a swimmer in a locker room and sometimes you might not. Maybe you learned something about yourself doing it, and you can also learn not to have shame about doing something you wanted. You can still love pussy and women (not the same thing). In my mid-20's, women would ask if I was straight and also ask if I had ever experimented with other guys (which I had not but which I would have).

You may also have liked the idea of a great looking guy or at least a guy with a hot body wanting you? Maybe you feel stronger or accepted or that your body (which sounds like it is pretty good) by hooking up with a hot guy. Maybe your self-image is caught up in that way, too. There is a way in which great looking people wanting you is validating.

FWIW, many years later, in a relationship, I only wish that I had experimented more and never turned down many opportunities that presented themselves that I didn't act on (and I also wish that I had always been 100% safe, which I was not and which caused lots of anguish).

Whatever you are, I wish you a great sex life and the freedom to do WTF you want as long as it doesn't hurt others.

PS Oh, by the way, if you're being honest, you weren't tricked. You were given an opportunity you may not have recognized at first, but you were ultimately quite glad to blow the hot swimmer with the big sausage and the nice abs. So be honest about that!

 

[0jb0]

That's hot