Tried a Toy Out on my BF

[fournineteenfiftynine]

I'm not big. 5.5.

He does like me to fuck him with it and says he likes it.

However, last night we experimented with a 7 inch dildo where he had an extreme orgasm while I was inserting it into him in places that my dick cant' to.

He loved it.

On the one hand I'm glad, cuz it was hot and he loved it.

On the other hand, it kind of pinpoints my lack of size.

I'm okay with it but it certainly does push that button a little.

 

[Reddhott]

Interesting. Do you not see the incongruity on your two topics today?

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

I guess both are about the over emphasis on dick size I guess.

 

[Reddhott]

I guess both are about the over emphasis on dick size I guess.

Yes. You say he doesn't like to be objectified for his dick size. But then you do it to yourself. Obviously he likes you. The fact that the dildo gives different sensations, doesn't mean that he is judging your lack of size. It's a toy. Toys are for fun. The real thing is always more fun.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

Good feedback Reddhott. This is why I like this site so much. Thanks.

 

[mikeyinbrooklyn]

Don't be jealous of a dildo. Enjoy your body for what it is. Also, I have always found that I get the most pleasure out of causing pleasure for my partner. Relax, stop overthinking it, and enjoy the sex. If either one of you enjoy dildos, then use 'em!