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[zunter775]

money he deserves ? lol
how about his fans getting their moneys worth ?

Man, I think you have a personal vendetta against me. Like every comment from you is straight negativity…why do you keep coming back to this forum. Just move on.

I have 200+ pics and 200+ clips over 4 years. You don’t have to like my content, but it’s fair for me to do a few ppv here and there.

 

[deleted18380401]

money he deserves ? lol
how about his fans getting their moneys worth ?

to be fair, we use the term "deserve" for pay for all other kinds of work. it's standard for people to think about pay as something one deserves particularly in the context of assessing the amount one gets paid for the work they do.

i personally think PPV is silly for anyone since you are already subscribed, but i understand the capitalist move to try to maximize profits and to tier content in terms of price. I don't think ole boy is trying to be a porn actor like, say Xaddy or Venom. I think it's a hustle and I ain't mad at that.

 

[zunter775]

to be fair, we use the term "deserve" for pay for all other kinds of work. it's standard for people to think about pay as something one deserves particularly in the context of assessing the amount one gets paid for the work they do.

i personally think PPV is silly for anyone since you are already subscribed, but i understand the capitalist move to try to maximize profits and to tier content in terms of price. I don't think ole boy is trying to be a porn actor like, say Xaddy or Venom. I think it's a hustle and I ain't mad at that.

I appreciate this fair assessment. And I said it since I started, it’s always been a little look into some of my real encounters. It’s not studio, it’s not planned, it’s just random tumblr/twitter style bits. It’s something that has been successful for me since day 1. Nobody forcing anyone to subscribe, and the people that ask for refunds I’ve given. I understand people want more from me, but I’ve always been careful how I balance OF + other aspects of my life, because I’ve seen how it can negatively affect peoples lives to alarming degrees. I have to remain aware of these things while attempting to build my life in a positive way. I’ll admit it’s a challenge, especially with the expenses of being an adult in USA these days, but I’m hustling like all of us.
As for ppv, a lot of people choose to pay for extra, a lot don’t. Again, no one’s forcing anyone to pay. I get it’s maddening to miss a video and I’ll try to find a better way to go about that. I appreciate my fans and how fortunate I am to have this hustle, but it’s nothing more than that. It’s not my favorite thing, but I can’t say no to this money because to be honest it’s life changing, and thus part of the reason I started up again.
Aside from all that, I try to keep it light and never too serious, which can be hard when reading forums like this with a lot of false shit. I get it’s fun to gossip and talk, it’s cool and whatever, but just be careful about how deep some of y’all go in on people who might not have as thick of skin as I do. I always try to keep to myself and stay away from drama, I’ve learned some hard lessons over time, but don’t we all when we’re young. End tangent

 

[MissterBennett]

I appreciate this fair assessment. And I said it since I started, it’s always been a little look into some of my real encounters. It’s not studio, it’s not planned, it’s just random tumblr/twitter style bits. It’s something that has been successful for me since day 1. Nobody forcing anyone to subscribe, and the people that ask for refunds I’ve given. I understand people want more from me, but I’ve always been careful how I balance OF + other aspects of my life, because I’ve seen how it can negatively affect peoples lives to alarming degrees. I have to remain aware of these things while attempting to build my life in a positive way. I’ll admit it’s a challenge, especially with the expenses of being an adult in USA these days, but I’m hustling like all of us.
As for ppv, a lot of people choose to pay for extra, a lot don’t. Again, no one’s forcing anyone to pay. I get it’s maddening to miss a video and I’ll try to find a better way to go about that. I appreciate my fans and how fortunate I am to have this hustle, but it’s nothing more than that. It’s not my favorite thing, but I can’t say no to this money because to be honest it’s life changing, and thus part of the reason I started up again.
Aside from all that, I try to keep it light and never too serious, which can be hard when reading forums like this with a lot of false shit. I get it’s fun to gossip and talk, it’s cool and whatever, but just be careful about how deep some of y’all go in on people who might not have as thick of skin as I do. I always try to keep to myself and stay away from drama, I’ve learned some hard lessons over time, but don’t we all when we’re young. End tangent

Let me ask you this. Why aren’t you appreciative of your fans. You never interact with them on your Onlyfans or reply to their DM’s. They’re spending their hard earned money on your monthly subscription fee, you at least owe your fans that.

 

[zunter775]

Let me ask you this. Why aren’t you appreciative of your fans. You never interact with them on your Onlyfans or reply to their DM’s. They’re spending their hard earned money on your monthly subscription fee, you at least owe your fans that.

I’m sorry it comes off that way. It’s definitely not intentional. As I said I do appreciate them, I do respond to some messages and some comments, but not all, so I get why people might think that. I don’t want to make excuses, and I think maybe at times my lack of responses gives the impression that I’m not appreciative. I don’t promise chat like some other creators do, it’s just something that comes with the platform for me, but yeah I’ll be sure to be more aware in that aspect because I’m realizing some people do want that as part of the sub price. I have written numerous posts on OF in the past thanking fans for their support, just maybe not as much recently. I need to be better at showing it, and I saw your last comment about it and have been trying to show it more since then.

I get a lot of messages on OF, I miss a lot too (not on purpose) and sometimes people have different expectations/want to have lengthy conversations with me, ask me out, ask for my #, etc. Some people get mad if I don’t give them what they want, and people can get aggressive sometimes. I need to up my customer service but also maintain my boundaries. Not an excuse just an explantation.

 

[Psyro77]

I’m sorry it comes off that way. It’s definitely not intentional. As I said I do appreciate them, I do respond to some messages and some comments, but not all, so I get why people might think that. I don’t want to make excuses, and I think maybe at times my lack of responses gives the impression that I’m not appreciative. I don’t promise chat like some other creators do, it’s just something that comes with the platform for me, but yeah I’ll be sure to be more aware in that aspect because I’m realizing some people do want that as part of the sub price. I have written numerous posts on OF in the past thanking fans for their support, just maybe not as much recently. I need to be better at showing it, and I saw your last comment about it and have been trying to show it more since then.

I get a lot of messages on OF, I miss a lot too (not on purpose) and sometimes people have different expectations/want to have lengthy conversations with me, ask me out, ask for my #, etc. Some people get mad if I don’t give them what they want, and people can get aggressive sometimes. I need to up my customer service but also maintain my boundaries. Not an excuse just an explantation.

Are you not attracted to black guys (dark skin) I know you’re biracial and from your videos it seems you don’t associate or have many black friends. Has that changed since you moved

 

[zunter775]

Are you not attracted to black guys (dark skin) I know you’re biracial and from your videos it seems you don’t associate or have many black friends. Has that changed since you moved

I’ve always been attracted to Black guys, I’ve dated and had sex with Black guys. People who know me in real life know this. In regards to relationships, I’ve found being with Black or Mixed guys feels the best and most comfortable because there’s a feeling of mutual respect/understanding about how life works vs when being with partners of other races. Unfortunately relationships don’t always work out. Because of social media/OF, I’ve learned to keep my romantic life private to the point where people don’t know if I’m in a relationship or not. People don’t know the guys I’ve dated, hooked up with. If you did, you wouldn’t be asking this. It’s just something I do to protect the relationship (sounds dramatic but gays can be vicious). I’ve had vids with Black guys from years ago that I’ve had to take down at request of the partner.
Not everyone wants their shit put on OF for 10s of thousands of people to see. I try to be really clear about this every time I’m asked and I don’t take offense. I don’t collab like others do, the sex I have is real/not planned/ usually with people who don’t have OF. So that means I need a signed agreement from them, which 99% of the time people don’t want to do. Most of the sex I have doesn’t end up on OF for these reasons, this is why most of my stuff is solo. Not to mention it’s awkward to ask to film and often ruins the moment. I get people want to see representation, I have Black and Mixed Black men in my OF. Maybe they aren’t the right shade to be seen as “Black.” That’s another conversation I won’t go into. Honestly it hurts me that people think that — I understand why, but OF isn’t reflective of reality and what people see is highly selected due to various reasons and me respecting my real life sex partners.
I have Black friends, if you want to know who they are re, please look at who I’m following on IG. I have multiple black friends in my YouTube videos. Please look more closely. I don’t post a lot on IG, but I can assure you, most of my friends today are Black. I’m not sure where this comes from.
Not everyone wants their shit put on OF for 10s of thousands of people to see. I try to be really clear about this every time I’m asked and I don’t take offense. I don’t collab like others do, the sex I have is real/not planned/ usually with people who don’t have OF. So that means I need a signed agreement from them, which 99% of the time people don’t want to do. Most of the sex I have doesn’t end up on OF for these reasons, this is why most of my stuff is solo. Not to mention it’s awkward to ask to film and often ruins the moment. I get people want to see representation, I have Black and Mixed Black men in my OF. Maybe they aren’t the right shade to be seen as “Black.” That’s another conversation I won’t go into. Honestly it hurts me that people think that — I understand why, but OF isn’t reflective of reality and what people see is highly selected due to various reasons and me respecting my real life sex partners.
TL DR; My attraction isn’t limited by race and I don’t choose partners based on it. Black men of all shades are fine as fuck, end of story.

 

[zunter775]

I copied and pasted a paragraph twice, but you get what I mean. Idk how else to prove this without sitting and quantifying/naming all the Black men I’ve been with. This would be weird, cringey, and performative, so I’m not doing that.

 

[kkichigo]

I copied and pasted a paragraph twice, but you get what I mean. Idk how else to prove this without sitting and quantifying/naming all the Black men I’ve been with. This would be weird, cringey, and performative, so I’m not doing that.

I feel bad for all the trash you've probably read in this thread. You actually seem really cool and smart

 

[zunter775]

I feel bad for all the trash you've probably read in this thread. You actually seem really cool and smart

Thanks. Don’t feel bad for me. This comes with the territory. To be honest this thread is the reason why I tried to stop OF in the fall, a lot of this shit I take really personally even when it’s straight lies. I really don’t like drama/a lot of what’s on social media these days. I’m getting better at not letting things get to me. Unfortunately that YouTube money doesn’t match OF, even though it’s growing and I’m doing ok, it’s more of long term passion project. I enjoy it regardless. I’m still figuring everything out and trying to be self-sufficient. Can be hard when people try to dissect your life when you’re still trying to grow and build it up. I just need time, I’m 27. I lean on the introverted side especially as I get older, and I think sometimes it comes off in a certain way. Trying to get better at that/be more open online while keeping a level of privacy.

 

[NiceAnonGuy]

Are you not attracted to black guys (dark skin) I know you’re biracial and from your videos it seems you don’t associate or have many black friends. Has that changed since you moved

I don’t see why it matters if he possibly didn’t prefer dark skinned men.

Growing up, many (not all) dark skinned men in my school and in the media seem to make it their life’s mission to emasculate & humiliate mixed and light skinned men. I’ve always found this very unsettling but we always just had to laugh it off.

Plus, in the case of biracial people: Most of their black dads had minimal involvement in their lives; so most grew up with their non-black moms in their usually very non-black environments. Therefore, most would not be conditioned to prefer blackness unless they tried to teach themselves to; or unless the trauma/bullying from white ppl got so bad that it radicalized them and pushed them towards pro-blackness.

Not saying any of this is the case with Trop Daddy. Just saying that as a light skinned man, there is an intense pressure/expectation to prefer dark skinned men even when they don’t seem to value us that much (as a collective). Personally, I love all shades of black ppl but just had to point this out.

 

[zunter775]

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I don’t see why it matters if he possibly didn’t prefer dark skinned men.

Growing up, many (not all) dark skinned men in my school and in the media seem to make it their life’s mission to emasculate & humiliate mixed and light skinned men. I’ve always found this very unsettling but we always just had to laugh it off.

Plus, in the case of biracial people: Most of their black dads had minimal involvement in their lives; so most grew up with their non-black moms in their usually very non-black environments. Therefore, most would not be conditioned to prefer blackness unless they tried to teach themselves to; or unless the trauma/bullying from white ppl got so bad that it radicalized them.

Not saying any of this is the case with Trop Daddy. Just saying that as a light skinned man, there is an intense pressure/expectation to prefer dark skinned men even when they don’t seem to value us that much (as a collective). Personally, I love all shades of black ppl but just had to point this out.

Thanks for your perspective. It’s cool to read.
For the record, my dad and his family are all Dark skinned. You can see on my IG. My father has not only been present in my life, but he has worked his ass off so that I can have the best life I can. He’s extremely professional, intelligent, loving, and caring. He’s still with my mom, he’s still there for me and my brother when we need him. Our relationship has actually grown over the years and it’s really awesome to get closer to him. I’m really lucky and fortunate to have him in my life and know that he loves me unconditionally. Him and my mom (music prof and graphic designer) taught me to be respectful of everyone. I think that is why I am attracted to all races.
But yeah, like NiceAnonGuy says, being biracial comes with a lot of learning to navigate the nuances of being Black- Biracial in the US. As time goes on, the topic is only becoming more controversial. I’m not crying about it, but it’s something that weighs on us, in a specific way that’s not always easy for others to understand. Again, I’m so privileged that I don’t even like to talk about these things sometimes, but they are our reality.

 

[kkichigo]

Thanks. Don’t feel bad for me. This comes with the territory. To be honest this thread is the reason why I tried to stop OF in the fall, a lot of this shit I take really personally even when it’s straight lies. I really don’t like drama/a lot of what’s on social media these days. I’m getting better at not letting things get to me. Unfortunately that YouTube money doesn’t match OF, even though it’s growing and I’m doing ok, it’s more of long term passion project. I enjoy it regardless. I’m still figuring everything out and trying to be self-sufficient. Can be hard when people try to dissect your life when you’re still trying to grow and build it up. I just need time, I’m 27. I lean on the introverted side especially as I get older, and I think sometimes it comes off in a certain way. Trying to get better at that/be more open online while keeping a level of privacy.

It's just nasty when people get so personal, about like livelihoods and relationships. Everyone deserves some basic respect and a sense of privacy.

 

[Messy Elliott]

Aww the comment got deleted. Just when I get my popcorn

 

[Quadzirella]

So zunter775 and tropdaddy are the same person?

 

[kkichigo]

So zunter775 and tropdaddy are the same person?

or a really dedicated fanfic writer

 

[NiceAnonGuy]

or a really dedicated fanfic writer

My gut believes that it’s really him. I also follow him on YouTube and the vibe of the post matches the vibe on his more introspective videos. Of course I could be wrong as the interwebz can be a circus lol

 

[Quadzirella]

or a really dedicated fanfic writer

Haha right? Cos I’m not buying it. Tropdaddy could barely give 2 shts on his actual subscriber that pays him money, now all of sudden he’s in here defending himself? BFFR but that’s just my opinion

 

[zunter775]

Haha right? Cos I’m not buying it. Tropdaddy could barely give 2 shts on his actual subscriber that pays him money, now all of sudden he’s in here defending himself? BFFR but that’s just my opinion

It’s 4real4real…(if you don’t get the reference, it’s a bonus track on E=MC2)

 

[Quadzirella]

It’s 4real4real…(if you don’t get the reference, it’s a bonus track on E=MC2)

I said what i said and it’s not changing. But good on you boo. Be blessed!