OK, so last night was my first visit to a full blown orgy club. The club I went to is very exclusive: it's invitation only, and they have weight and "looks" restrictions -- if you are overweight, underweight or dog-ugly, you are asked to leave. There were maybe 30 - 35 couples attending last night plus a few single people. The couples were mostly in their thirties and forties, some in their fifties and beyond, as well as a sprinkling of twenty-somethings. I did not go there to have sex with other men. I went with my main squeeze because I am a shameless exhibitionist and because I had never, EVER seen women having sex (with men or with each other) and I was curious to see it. While most of the men were ho-hum (quite a few I'd classify as overweight despite the weight restrictions) , the women there were very good looking -- none were "perfect," but every woman had something exceptional -- a great ass, great legs, amazing knockers, pretty face, etc. etc. Here are my conclusions about the evening: -- Most of the hetero sex going on was BORING. Except for two or three "live wire" women, most of the females (despite their good looks) barely moved. It was like a bunch of blow up dolls lying around being pumped by slightly over-bloated men. (Sorry, but I didn't find it in the least bit titillating.) -- Why was everyone so SILENT while they were having sex? Weird. It was like zombies having sex!!! -- Thankfully, there was SOME interesting sex going on -- a) A body builder and his wrestler girlfriend. They were quite physical. b) A lady in a sex swing at least looked alive and like she was enjoying herself. c) A foursome, MFFM, were working over one of the girls, and I found that quite titillating. (She was one of the few "live wires" present) -- There was one charming gal who was a lesbian. She didn't have sex with anyone.... this was unfortunate because I would have like to have watched. Anyhoo, I had a nice exhibitionist time and will go again next month. HOWEVER, the experience left me with two burning questions: A) Is it usual or unusual for women to be so PASSIVE during hetero sex? B) Is it normal for a "straight gal" (me) to be attracted to the women??!!