This. I am fully willing to embrace bi/pan folks who live openly, publicly associate themselves with the LGBTQ community, and treat its members with respect. It seems Tyler has joined that group, and I particularly appreciate him speaking up on behalf of trans women who are increasingly coming under attack, both verbal and physical. But bi dudes who only regard other men as good for downlow hookups before they scurry back to their wives/girlfriends and bi women who only seem interested in other women when it turns on their husbands/boyfriends can STFU about us not welcoming them and throwing parades in their honor.