Literally!!! I’ve noticed the same thing. The more fucked up a guy is, the more they like him. Which has made no sense to me. ‘Cause I’ve watched people send marriage proposals to a literal criminals and murderers, as long as they find them fuckable.
And it really does frustrate me that that’s all they value. I like to get to know someone first. See what their goals in life are. Find out what their personality is like. Like sure, I wanna blow a guys back out, pull his hair and leave my handprint on his ass-cheek. Like sex is fun. But damn can we get to know each other first?
I also think it comes from the fact that a lot of gay guys just rest each other and themselves like pieces of meat. Commodities to be traded. But then again, social capital in the community is based on how you look and euro-centric features. So yeah, it makes sense that a lot of gays glorify pornstars. Which is, horrible by itself.
I bet, if gays weren’t so porn addicted the gay community would he a lot different. I can legit see why so many guys don’t wanna be in the gay community or are walking away from it.
