Understanding Couples?

AtYourCervix10

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I get invited to join a lot of couples. I am looking for feedback from others who have experience with this. I guess there are multiple components about this dynamic that i try to understand. I am trying to get better at this, as most of the beautiful women, are part of couples.

1. it seems that the male drives this meeting and dynamic in their relationship. I've found most women do this to please their men. and it's tricky because I'm all about the woman. I've met couples where the woman hasn't even seen my pictures. which can be unnerving.

2. often times they want me to "use her as a sex toy". obviously this hints on disrespect to women, yet it's a dynamic that they seem to crave. or he does. and she wants to please him. Know what I mean? So this seems to complicate things for me.

3. I just want to please her and focus on her to have a good time and sustain a good erection. But who am I pleasing? Her or Him?

4. Often times, they want you to be the Alpha Male big dick guy who has his way with the MRS. While aspects of being objectified turn me on, I do feel conflicted about doing anything that could be viewed as disrespectful to women.

5. most times, the couples want to meet you and "get to know you" so the MRS feels comfortable. yet i've found if i spend too much time chatting at the bar, so she feels comfortable, i sort of lose my wind and interest. So when we go upstairs and am with her.

(i realize some of these points overlap)

it's not as simple as it seems. or i guess i'm over thinking it. can anyone relate?

does anyone have insight here? Good experiences? I have a tendency to overthink things. So maybe someone can offer me some advice to get into the right, simplified frame of mind to be better at this? thank you!