Here is a nice example of a nice pussy with a grip:
http://xhamster.com/movies/6297085/riding_that_white_pipe.html
It's a nice cock---looks large from behind. You will note how girls index finger and thumb overlap. Guys---Almost all the 'studs' on the porn I've watched--a girls hand will do this. Yours is probably more than adequate----don't buy into the porn bs!
This girl does a lovely job, and is more into sensation than jack rabbit jumping and phony acoustics.
I am a level or two above her--probably. With my muscle control, I can squeeze around the opening, deep, or both.
If a guys gonna come too quick, I can come off halfway and clamp him till ejaculatory inevitability subsides.
I can squeeze him on the way out, on the way in, nibble on his knob.
And keep him deep inside, not move, and 'milk' him.
The moments almost immediately after a guy comes are perfect time to really make gentle love to a cock you care about.
It's very sensitive to being overstimulated @ this time.
If left in pussy, I want to be a warm, gentle, embracing force---not really a force, more like a haven, a place totally safe warm and loving. My gently gripping pussy softly caressing. (Ya---the caress is likely to escalate as time passes! grin)
If in mouth---this is the time to gently make out with Mr. Cock.
Anyway, this is a nice clip, well done, and illustrates the thread.
And just posting this, I'm juicing copiously and believe I'll stop in @ a friends office and give a little surprise.....g'day y'all....