Variety

[merc41]

I always looking for new ways to enjoy sex. Be it positions, toys, lube fetishes. Naturally there is always the tried and true ways and things but I am always on the hunt to try new things. My partner thinks that it strange and I am unsatisfied. It's not that, I'm just looking for new ways to pleasure myself and whom ever I'm with. Now this has led me to having sex with other males, joining a male j/O club ,sex with a transgender ,new toys and positions etc.etc. Any body else men ,women transgenders feel or act this way?

 

[lapdog2001]

I've always only explored new things with the woman I was with at the time. Unless I was in a mutually agreed upon open relationship, or a non-monogamous relationship, I would never seek out other people.

Toys, positions, role play, locations, etc. are all fare game. Maybe I've been fortunate that I've been able to bring stuff like up and have a conversation with my partner about it.

I don't know how you convince your partner that is isn't them, when you've sought outside exploration?

 

[merc41]

Everything has been on the down low. Also, it has been great or better than expected. That may be part of the problem. Always feel I'm being. denied or missing something.

 

[chrisrobin]

When I was young I was introduced to many ways of obtaining sexual pleasure, giving pleasure and enjoying and being enjoyed. This always lead to a little experimentation and I enjoy the variety of ways sex can be enjoyed. Being a top, a bottom oral and timing cock rings and dildos plus a variety of places, indoor and out for sexual pleasures - try to vary it and sex never becomes a bore (well not that way)