No one's "defending" internalized racism. But first of all, you are making assumptions about some random person's feelings based off of just the people he has sex with *that you know about*. There are any number of reasons why someone has sex with the people they have sex with. You don't know him. And second of all, even if he is feeling ways you accuse him of, it still isn't any of your business. That's something intimate that he would have to work out with himself. And thirdly, at the end of day, who people choose to have sex with for whatever reason is their own business. Why do you feel comfortable telling other people who they must have sex with?