Versatile

I guess I am about 90% bottom and 10% top, so I usually say I am Versatile/Bottom or sometimes I just say Bottom.

At this point in my journey (life), I ONLY top when the other guy is versatile and we are going to flipfuck.

I've met too many guys who say they are versatile and it turns out that they meant they are bottoms who love to say they are versatile but only plan on getting fucked and they have no plans on fucking.
 
Prior to my current relationship, I was 100% top. I never thought I would bottom, and never had any interest in it, until I met my current bf who only preferred to top. So I became a bottom for the first time for him. We will change roles from time to time, but I want to say 90% of the time I’m the one being fucked. I enjoy it a lot but I miss being the dominant top sometimes. If I were to become single again some day, I think I would identify as versatile as I now enjoy doing both. And if a guy wants me to be a top only I would be fine with that too.

It always confuses me when guys flat out refuse to top. I can understand if someone doesn’t like to bottom because it’s not for everyone. But like why wouldn’t you want to change it up sometimes and fuck a tight ass? It’s like a hug for your dick. But to each his own I guess.
 
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Whether I want to top or bottom usually depends on my chemistry/attraction with someone. There are some guys I’m just not interested in topping, and others I’d only consider topping (or flip-flopping with).

So I guess I’m more “situationally-vers” and generally default to being a bottom.
 
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I am vers and I do want both but most of my sex life I have bottomed because when I have topped it has been a bad experience and I’ve built it up to be such a thing I just feel like it always going to be bad :(
 
I'm a vers top, probably 65/35, but somewhat fluid depending on my partners, scenarios, and moods. I lean top but I love to pig out as a bottom occasionally. I enjoy guys who like both to some degree so we can mix it up. I think versatile guys are the best fucks, too. They have experienced both sides and know what works.
 
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