Prior to my current relationship, I was 100% top. I never thought I would bottom, and never had any interest in it, until I met my current bf who only preferred to top. So I became a bottom for the first time for him. We will change roles from time to time, but I want to say 90% of the time I’m the one being fucked. I enjoy it a lot but I miss being the dominant top sometimes. If I were to become single again some day, I think I would identify as versatile as I now enjoy doing both. And if a guy wants me to be a top only I would be fine with that too.
It always confuses me when guys flat out refuse to top. I can understand if someone doesn’t like to bottom because it’s not for everyone. But like why wouldn’t you want to change it up sometimes and fuck a tight ass? It’s like a hug for your dick. But to each his own I guess.