What is your thoughts on guys walking around with their cocks completely visible in their pants. My wife says my cock is always on display.
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I love it, but my wife berates me in certain trousers/underwear combinations. She really doesn't like the idea of women knowing I'm hung.
Boobs are constantly on display. The bigger they are the truer that becomes. Why should a man's bulge be any different?
Could you see bits of flesh or just VPL? I wonder what brand.
I wonder if it’s against the law in any way if you can clearly see the entire cock in detail in tight pants or bicycle shorts. Any idea?
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Mine shows all the time, I do get a little self conscience at times. As I get older, it does not seem to bother me as much. Society at least in the United States set the tone for what's acceptable and what's not. For women it's acceptable for parts of their body to show. Specifically the beast. However men are deemed as perverted if their penis is visible under clothing. It's wrong for society to expect men to hide what they have. That alone can be uncomfortable... I can see that changing very slowly as today younger crowds are much more accepting of individuality. Which is a good thing... 
This is an interesting topic and makes me think a lot on how women constantly feel.
First, is what about non consciously "displaying", like if you happen to wear comfortable sport tights or whatever. In that case, 100% OK of course. If someone doesn't like it, they can look elsewhere. Bigger problem is if someone stares at it and makes you feel uncomfortable... In my experience this is not really common, for sure less common than for women.
Second, is about "displaying" more or less on purpose. Like maybe you want to wear some thight pants because that make you feel sexy, which is totally OK. We start going into gray zones when you do that because you wanted to be looked at, what is acceptable there and what is not? Or in which situations? Obviously you should not go there flashing people... but is it bad if you wear something that makes you more "obvious" just because of that? Sometimes I wear tight jeans without underwear for that reason and I don't know if that is acceptable or if I am acting as a perv (I hope not!). But I will never "make it obvious". My mindset in those moments is: "this is how I look like, you can look at me if you want" (so I won't "point" in anyway to my bulge, let's say).
First, is what about non consciously "displaying", like if you happen to wear comfortable sport tights or whatever. In that case, 100% OK of course. If someone doesn't like it, they can look elsewhere. Bigger problem is if someone stares at it and makes you feel uncomfortable... In my experience this is not really common, for sure less common than for women.
Second, is about "displaying" more or less on purpose. Like maybe you want to wear some thight pants because that make you feel sexy, which is totally OK. We start going into gray zones when you do that because you wanted to be looked at, what is acceptable there and what is not? Or in which situations? Obviously you should not go there flashing people... but is it bad if you wear something that makes you more "obvious" just because of that? Sometimes I wear tight jeans without underwear for that reason and I don't know if that is acceptable or if I am acting as a perv (I hope not!). But I will never "make it obvious". My mindset in those moments is: "this is how I look like, you can look at me if you want" (so I won't "point" in anyway to my bulge, let's say).
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If I know I'm going to be out in public I'll do my best to be as discreet as possible. I never beg for attention. It doesn't bother me if another guy wants to flaunt it. His choice, and it doesn't concern me. Let others judge because you know they will.
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It is difficult to hide in some clothes. It is uncomfortable to try in some too. I just wear what I wear and sometimes it is visible and others it isn't. I don't care. I do get a lot of comments from friends though. lol
Should be the same for women and men... if you're not comfortable with the attention that you receive you should think about wearing something that draws less attention to your ass/tits/dick... whatever. If a woman wears a tube top people are gonna notice her tits, even more the bigger they are. Same is true if I go commando in gym shorts. If I'm uncomfortable with anyone staring I should put on some underwear that keeps my junk in place or thicker shorts. Women can choose to wear less revealing top. It's not fair to fault the girl/guy that's checking out my bulge if I put it out there.
I meant, it is probably more likely to have people staring at you if you are a woman than if you are a man. The potential effects of that are another topic that shouldn't be discussed in this threat.
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I won't say commando is not hot at all, but to me commando says one thing- he's trying as hard as he possibly can to let everyone see it. There's a difference in natural sexy and over the top, which I think of commando as. There are times it can be distasteful. One of the sexiest cock presences I ever saw was actually a Methodist minister who had been jogging. He was wearing thin athletic shorts and what looked like might have been traditional, thin, full cut boxers underneath. Somehow the thin extra layer between his shorts masked a raw penis image yet revealed the natural, sexy movement of his penis. There was no VPL, just a minimal but incredibly sexy presence of penis movement.
However, to each his own on how much they want to show.
However, to each his own on how much they want to show.
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I used to go commando all the time. I always showed and it never bothered me. In 2012, I started working at my current job. The owner is an older man. One day I caught him staring at my cock. Every time I would get up, he would be staring at my crotch. Something about him staring at my dick really creeped me out. So for a while, I started wearing underwear to hide the bulge. While it didn't completely hide the bulge, it did tone it down.
The problem was the underwear I did have was old and looked sad. So I bought a few pairs online and tried them out. I ended up going with Sheath Underwear, which has the dual pouch. I usually end up pulling my dick and balls through the hole in the underwear and have them in the outside pouch. It is more comfortable for me. But they usually will work their way out of the fly and still show off a bulge in my pants. So I am back to showing a bulge, but the owner doesn't stare at it anymore. (Or maybe it just doesn't bother me anymore.)
The problem was the underwear I did have was old and looked sad. So I bought a few pairs online and tried them out. I ended up going with Sheath Underwear, which has the dual pouch. I usually end up pulling my dick and balls through the hole in the underwear and have them in the outside pouch. It is more comfortable for me. But they usually will work their way out of the fly and still show off a bulge in my pants. So I am back to showing a bulge, but the owner doesn't stare at it anymore. (Or maybe it just doesn't bother me anymore.)
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It's inevitable in some clothes. When I wear joggers or shorts made from sweatshirt fabric, my bulge is pretty noticeable. Have definitely noticed stares when I'm on the Tube (London's version of the subway).
MuscledHorse
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Guys should be encouraged to do this. Too many are raised with guilt and shame surrounding their cocks. It's fake social moralizing that is damaging to the male psyche. I keep mine on display always.
I think you are right in the sense of being OK with your body and so (although I don't know about the encouraging, it is dirtier as using underwear!). I wonder more about the style and so... does it is as stupid and distasteful as showing a cameltoe?
No matter what I wear or don't wear, my bulge shows. It seems that briefs make it stand out more. I can put it between my legs in briefs and that hold it down and hide it. That is very uncomfortable and I don't like sitting on my dick. Boxers are the same as commando, it hangs down the leg. I cannot stand to point my dick straight up. If I do and get a hardon it sticks out the top of my pants past my bellybutton. There is just no good way to hide mine.
I love to show off the assets. It's a real turn-on. All my jeans are skintight and show off my bulging cock — it's amazing how smoking hot button fly 501s are for a guy with my build. At the pool, it''s the briefest Speedos I can get away with, on the beach it's usually a thong, and I have a couple with an awesome lycra blend thin enough to show the outlines of my cock. I really wish the 1970s would come back — my uncle says i'm dressing the way he and his buddies did back thenn
