Waiting tables has my respect for many different reasons. I work at a very fast paced corporate restaurant that is ALWAYS busy, so people are high strung most of the time. However, the ability to have aching feet, throbbing headaches and a lingering feeling of discomfort as you take someone's order, you are still able to smile.
That is difficult. Not only that, but everyone seems to think that if their food takes 20 minutes to get out, that it's the server's fault. No, in fact, 75% of the time (the other 25% being someone forgets to run their food) the cooks are fucking you over. Not to mention, they have an attitude.
I'm one of the waiters you'll get who will make your plate look nice and edible, because though it may taste the same, who wants to eat something that looks like it just erupted?
It's very rare you find someone who leaves the 15% for less that excellent work, and most tip 18% on absolute awesome service instead of the 20%. You may think 2% isn't much, but when their bill is $80.00 and you get 18% (14.40), instead of 20% (16.00), well, there's $1.20 difference. Again, it may not be much to you, but is toothpaste free? No. That 1.20 makes a difference, I assure you.
When I was in High School (Oh so many years ago), I was suspended for arguing with my Economy teacher, who always said "You don't want to flip burgers at McDonalds!" Well, without those burger flippers, who'd make your precious Big Mac? I hate how there are some people who figure their "status" makes them more valuable than another person. For example, a dope dealer's life is just as valuable as a priest's life. Sure, one of them is ruining lives while another is helping them, but you cannot put a price on a human life.
Hopefully, the next time you go into a restaurant and think "Ugh, here comes that
server again," remember that we're people too, please.