Does anybody still use kik? That is anonymous, if I remember correctly. It has worked for me.
In several years on this site I have managed maybe three meets. All of the reasons given are true, plus a lot of guys fantasise about doing it or volunteer for it when they are drunk and/or high and horny but, come the day, they're just not feeling it, so they flake off. Then there are the guys who ask for pics and it becomes a competition, or they just like the power trip it gives them auditioning guys. Nah. Avoid.
But it is possible to actually get to it if you are determined and strike it lucky! Here's the evidence. I'm the cock on the right.
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