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It's not so much of question of jacking off "with" other guys, as it is a question of masturbating in a setting where other guys can see / hear what you are doing. Obviously there are some very sexually conservative guys out there, but I would say in general, by the time guys are in their late teens, we're pretty aware and comfortable with the fact that we all masturbate a lot or have masturbated at some point. So, I don't think many guys would be too shocked about masturbation in an all-male setting like a dorm: we're all guys and we all can understand the urge to masturbate. I've been in hostel dorms where I've seen or heard guys masturbating and it was a non-issue. One time in particular, a guy brought a girl back to the quad male dorm late at night and they had full on sex, even in the dark I could see pretty well everything, it was a hot summer night and we were all sleeping without blankets. It made me really horny so that the next morning I was stroking my hardon a bit, and the guy in the bed across from me was lying on his back checking his phone and then turned over to face the wall. I didn't get the feeling it was because he was uncomfortable, but just because he understood and wanted to give me some sense of privacy. Yeah, masturbation is more ok in certain situations than in others, but in an all-male, adult or young adult setting like a hostel dorm, I don't think anyone is going to be that uncomfortable with low-key masturbation.
 

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It's not so much of question of jacking off "with" other guys, as it is a question of masturbating in a setting where other guys can see / hear what you are doing. Obviously there are some very sexually conservative guys out there, but I would say in general, by the time guys are in their late teens, we're pretty aware and comfortable with the fact that we all masturbate a lot or have masturbated at some point. So, I don't think many guys would be too shocked about masturbation in an all-male setting like a dorm: we're all guys and we all can understand the urge to masturbate. I've been in hostel dorms where I've seen or heard guys masturbating and it was a non-issue. One time in particular, a guy brought a girl back to the quad male dorm late at night and they had full on sex, even in the dark I could see pretty well everything, it was a hot summer night and we were all sleeping without blankets. It made me really horny so that the next morning I was stroking my hardon a bit, and the guy in the bed across from me was lying on his back checking his phone and then turned over to face the wall. I didn't get the feeling it was because he was uncomfortable, but just because he understood and wanted to give me some sense of privacy. Yeah, masturbation is more ok in certain situations than in others, but in an all-male, adult or young adult setting like a hostel dorm, I don't think anyone is going to be that uncomfortable with low-key masturbation.

I totally agree with all you said.
 

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It's not so much of question of jacking off "with" other guys, as it is a question of masturbating in a setting where other guys can see / hear what you are doing. Obviously there are some very sexually conservative guys out there, but I would say in general, by the time guys are in their late teens, we're pretty aware and comfortable with the fact that we all masturbate a lot or have masturbated at some point. So, I don't think many guys would be too shocked about masturbation in an all-male setting like a dorm: we're all guys and we all can understand the urge to masturbate. I've been in hostel dorms where I've seen or heard guys masturbating and it was a non-issue. One time in particular, a guy brought a girl back to the quad male dorm late at night and they had full on sex, even in the dark I could see pretty well everything, it was a hot summer night and we were all sleeping without blankets. It made me really horny so that the next morning I was stroking my hardon a bit, and the guy in the bed across from me was lying on his back checking his phone and then turned over to face the wall. I didn't get the feeling it was because he was uncomfortable, but just because he understood and wanted to give me some sense of privacy. Yeah, masturbation is more ok in certain situations than in others, but in an all-male, adult or young adult setting like a hostel dorm, I don't think anyone is going to be that uncomfortable with low-key masturbation.
The guy next to you probably thought he'd better turn over and face the wall cause he didn't want to watch. It's almost kinda rude to expect that it's OK with other guys around.
 

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Not come across it in a hostel but, unexpectedly, when I went to college I found myself sharing a room for a few weeks. There were only two double rooms and we were told that, if anyone dropped out, we would be given priority for their single rooms.

The lad who turned up to share with me was from a military (air force) background. My entire life I had had a single room to myself and rarely been in a sharing situation, so my daily habits were well established. I decided to tackle the problem head on. I said to him "Look, I don't know about you but I get very horny and jack off a lot - always first thing in the morning and last thing at night". He agreed, which made it a bit easier to continue. I suggested that once the door was closed and locked we should take it that either of us can stroke one off whenever we need to, without embarrassment. Luckily, he was an easy going guy and thought that it was a good idea.

So, from then on, it was not unusual for one of us to wake up to the sound of a slapping foreskin from the other bed! We only shared a room for about six weeks before single rooms became available but it certainly made life easier for us both to accommodate/tolerate each others needs.
 

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Similar situation for me. My brother was younger than me, plus we had our neighbor buddy joining in with us. We couldn't ignore the hardons in our shorts, so we did together what we would have otherwise done on our own.
My younger brothers friends dad had a collection of 8mm porno movies (years before VCR tapes). We would go to his house watch the movies and stripped down and jacked off a few times
 

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imagine you wake up horny whilst sleeping in a youth hostel (you share the room with 3 other blokes). Would you have a wank? if yes, wud u continue if you knew they kinda can hear ya cos they (started beating/don't sleep).

Share your experiences.
Yeah. I have done circle jerks. So I dont see what's wrong with it.
 
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Yeah. I have done circle jerks. So I dont see what's wrong with it.

So many guys get it totally out of proportion and think that it's more than what it is - just a wank. Again, when I was at college there was a certain group of about 6 lads who used to congregate after an evening meal in one lad's room. We all knew what for, it was just a communal chill out and stroke. I was invited a couple of times but I never really felt the need to join them. Actually, I rather regret that now!
 

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I was in hospital 2 years ago, there was me and 3 other guys in this ward. when it came to lights out and our curtains were pulled between the beds we all had a wank, no one spoke during it. you could sort of make out the reflection of the guy next to you. i spent 10 days in hospital and each night we all did it.
 

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I was in hospital 2 years ago, there was me and 3 other guys in this ward. when it came to lights out and our curtains were pulled between the beds we all had a wank, no one spoke during it. you could sort of make out the reflection of the guy next to you. i spent 10 days in hospital and each night we all did it.


LOL if i had been there i would have went to each bed, and gladly gave each guy a silent wank...
 

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you'd have been welcome in my bed, i spent the first 6 beds in bed, i was unable to get out of it, when i finally got out of the bed and had a shower i went to town on my dick. i remember getting a bed bath, my dick was constantly hard when they washed me.
 
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I'm a (straight) firefighter, and the bedroom had 3 of us in it. Well I awoke around 3 am with a raging boner. And I mean raging. I was so fucking horny. Well my crew was fast asleep as they snored like a mother fucker. I just grabbed my sock and fucked it good under my blankets. They never woke up, I shot a huge load, and I stayed hard for another 30 minutes or so. Then Slept like a champ!