Wanking

1. put your cock in your hand.
2. pull up and down.
3. Repeat untill you are blind. lol
Sorry, i am a smart ass, I know.
Try laying a towle on the bed, lube your hand up and thrust into it whille laying face down.
 
There was a bit in one of Ricky Gervais' shows, he was telling about how this kid used to wank by catching a fly, pulling it's wings off, getting in the bath with just the tip of his todger poking out of the water, then putting the fly on top of it. The wingless fly could do nothing but walk around which, according to this kid, was the best wank he ever had.

So yeah, try that!
 
Every guy has his own way because only the cock owner knows how a certain method or stroke feels. My wife can jo me all she wants and I'll cum but when I do myself, I get the best satisfaction. So my advice to you, sbd09, is to experiment to find out what is best for you.