I have an incredible urge to have anal sex with a woman. I haven’t been able to convince my wife at all. The urge to try this is growing stronger with me everyday. I’m not sure how to proceeed. I obviously want to play it extremely safe and would prefer a woman. Thoughts on how to fulfill this fantasy as a married man needing to be discreet and safe?
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well for what I know from my straight male friends, woman don’t like anal sex, I had this conversation in the pass with couple of my buds, and there wifes wouldn’t even entertain the idea.. so one of them had a gay male friend, so now he gets it what he wants whenever he wants it… and he really like this guy.. and since there are good friends for a very long time he knows he is safe.. he shared this with me because we are very good friends. but he never told me who he’s friend is, no name nothing .. so that might be a solution ?
I’m not sure if that would be discreet enough. I don’t know how to find a rando man or woman though and be able to insure they are clean.
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Well... Several view points (just putting them out there:
1. Your wife says no. So it's no. End of story.
2. Find a female sex worker (since you say you prefer a woman).
3. Find another man perhaps using an online app. Lucky for you there are more bottoms than tops.
Whichever option (even if it's your wife's butt)... Wear a condom.
Think a female sex worker or man is pretty safe if I wear a condom? I always hear about herpes being skin to skin transmission etcWell... Several view points (just putting them out there:
1. Your wife says no. So it's no. End of story.
2. Find a female sex worker (since you say you prefer a woman).
3. Find another man perhaps using an online app. Lucky for you there are more bottoms than tops.
Whichever option (even if it's your wife's butt)... Wear a condom.
Also, why would I need to wear a condom for anal with wife?Well... Several view points (just putting them out there:
1. Your wife says no. So it's no. End of story.
2. Find a female sex worker (since you say you prefer a woman).
3. Find another man perhaps using an online app. Lucky for you there are more bottoms than tops.
Whichever option (even if it's your wife's butt)... Wear a condom.
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yes exactly that you do no matter with whom , and about making sure they are clean just ask, I know people lie but you’ll know.. must humans have the ability to read people ..Well... Several view points (just putting them out there:
1. Your wife says no. So it's no. End of story.
2. Find a female sex worker (since you say you prefer a woman).
3. Find another man perhaps using an online app. Lucky for you there are more bottoms than tops.
Whichever option (even if it's your wife's butt)... Wear a condom.
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See if someone on here would be willing to bend over for you and get to know them…. Become mentally intimate and build trust. Then proceed. Man or woman.
You could try to warm your wife up to the idea by rimming her over a few sessions and see how she likes it. Then work your way up to using your thumb or fingers. Slowly progress until she is comfortable with it. Tease her with the head and very slowly progress to more.
If she still isn't amenable and you still really want to do it, Grindr or Scruff or something would be your best option. Just be sure to wear a condom while hooking up with a random person. With that beautiful cock of yours you will find no shortage of guys who want to be fucked by you.
If she still isn't amenable and you still really want to do it, Grindr or Scruff or something would be your best option. Just be sure to wear a condom while hooking up with a random person. With that beautiful cock of yours you will find no shortage of guys who want to be fucked by you.
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My half-bro had the same idea of having a bit of anal with any of his gf's but they all refused. His mates had filled him with the idea their wives turned over on a regular basis and took it up the bum easily, so much so that because he hadn't had anal it became an obsession.
I talked him into it and as far as I know, years later his only anal experiences have been with me, his lady friends have all turned him down.
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