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baseball23

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So a family member of mine has moved in with her boyfriend....no big deal right?

Well, there is not one person in the family that likes this guy. He treats her pretty shitty. Aside from that fact I got to thinking....


What if they say they will get married.....and it gets to the point of "speak now or forever hold your peace".

Has anyone been to a wedding where someone ACTUALLY said something?

I think it would be awkward and hilarious.

Just curious if anyone else had an experience like that.
 

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I would not say anything at the actual ceremony. My way would be to talk to the person I thought was making a mistake and explain my misgivings, after that I'd leave it alone. If the union fell apart I'd be there for him or her(whichever I felt closest to) and let them know that, but would not go telling them I had been right all along.

I've known people who were making what I thought was a mistake, told them and let it play out. Only 1 of those marriages has held and it actually got better over time as he began to mature, which showed me that I can't always tell.