What about everything else?
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I am not sure what you have been reading? There have been other threads where women have tried to say things, other than physical attributes, count. But you guys always end up with "cocky" questions.
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I'm game.
Fantasy (Reality) Man:
1. Straight, Single and Emotionally Available
2. Smart
3. Avid Reader
4. Non-smoker
5. Healthy lifestyle
6. Makes me feel adored
7. Taller
8. Compatible sex drive
9. Financially thriving and wise with money
10. Dependable
11. Initiative
12. Spiritual
13. Knows when / how to take charge
14. Strong with a sensitive side
15. Of Germanic/Northern European heritage
16. Has a life of his own but shares it with me
17. Able to speak on a variety of subjects
18. Knows how to fix things around the house
19. Interested and likes to listen to me play piano
20. Knows how to challenge me
21. Good communicator
22. Healthy relationships with family and friends
23. Truthful without being Hurtful
24. Integrity does what he says
25. Pays attention
26. Willing to learn new things
27. Appreciation for fine dining, arts, culture
28. Good dancer and sense of rhythm
29. Oh yeah.....and a nice cock too. :smile:
Fantasy (Reality) Man:
1. Straight, Single and Emotionally Available
2. Smart
3. Avid Reader
4. Non-smoker
5. Healthy lifestyle
6. Makes me feel adored
7. Taller
8. Compatible sex drive
9. Financially thriving and wise with money
10. Dependable
11. Initiative
12. Spiritual
13. Knows when / how to take charge
14. Strong with a sensitive side
15. Of Germanic/Northern European heritage
16. Has a life of his own but shares it with me
17. Able to speak on a variety of subjects
18. Knows how to fix things around the house
19. Interested and likes to listen to me play piano
20. Knows how to challenge me
21. Good communicator
22. Healthy relationships with family and friends
23. Truthful without being Hurtful
24. Integrity does what he says
25. Pays attention
26. Willing to learn new things
27. Appreciation for fine dining, arts, culture
28. Good dancer and sense of rhythm
29. Oh yeah.....and a nice cock too. :smile:
Interesting list. I don't mean to be presumptuous, but I think I probably could answer yes to 28 out of 28. My only drawback is I'm only an average dancer - good rhythm, but could use some improvement.
If you weren't a cougar we'd be a good match.
Take care babe.
-Ranger
You neglected #1 Straight and SINGLE. Your last pic post says you have GF. That's NOT single, babe! :smile:
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Is that really compatible with most women? With a list like that you gotta bring more to the table than sex.
Beyond a list of 29, my experience is that women look for mature, confident (not cocky) and a good sense of humour in your first meetings. Beyond that, I suspect the list includes many of the items above, including good communication, romantic, honest, acts with integrity, and compatible with sex. Most women aren't interested in men who are shorter than they are.
And for the question above, you have to bring a lot more to the table than sex. A relationship mainly based on sexual attraction would be lucky to last six months, and most men and women are looking for (at best) a lifetime together. However sexual confidence, experience and being a good lover (and larger than average) don't do your chances any harm as the relationship progresses. Indeed, such attributes may mean a contented lifetime together compared so something not so happy or long-lasting.
What does that mean? The ultimate form of love is emotional, spiritual and sensual attraction. This form of love is rare but one we should all search for. I know, because I have this type of love, and it is sublime.
And for the question above, you have to bring a lot more to the table than sex. A relationship mainly based on sexual attraction would be lucky to last six months, and most men and women are looking for (at best) a lifetime together. However sexual confidence, experience and being a good lover (and larger than average) don't do your chances any harm as the relationship progresses. Indeed, such attributes may mean a contented lifetime together compared so something not so happy or long-lasting.
What does that mean? The ultimate form of love is emotional, spiritual and sensual attraction. This form of love is rare but one we should all search for. I know, because I have this type of love, and it is sublime.
Cock size isn't even on the list of what's important to me, to be honest.
Hm. I posted a blog about this some time ago, and I don't think my preferences have changed any. So I'll just copy and paste from there...
:smile:
Hm. I posted a blog about this some time ago, and I don't think my preferences have changed any. So I'll just copy and paste from there...
:smile:
You will never find a man with those attributes, but keep looking. Really and truly, men don't get women's moods or where those moods come from. Men don't communicate easily, it's contrary to our nature. And men always mix sex and love together: if she loves me she will want to have sex with me / she has sex with me therefore she loves me. Women who understand men understand this, and they are precious. Like my wife.
Men can be reliable, honest, trustworthy, humourous, romantic and more, but for heaven's sake don't set the bar that high!
Edit: I'm a novellist (amongst other things). This advice was given to me about drawing male characters:
"Most men don't like talking about emotion. Because they feel they have to mean what they say: forever. They don't understand the concept that you get to change your mind. Men think when they say something it's written in stone and they have to die defending it. Women, I think, are much more flexible, and realize they can say something one day, and the next day say the opposite. So I think that's where a lot of communication breaks down. So guys really are very careful about what they say, so they say very little. Sometimes nothing. And I think women also tend to hammer guys about this to an extent - well, you said such and such. Which make guys say even less."
Men can be reliable, honest, trustworthy, humourous, romantic and more, but for heaven's sake don't set the bar that high!
Edit: I'm a novellist (amongst other things). This advice was given to me about drawing male characters:
"Most men don't like talking about emotion. Because they feel they have to mean what they say: forever. They don't understand the concept that you get to change your mind. Men think when they say something it's written in stone and they have to die defending it. Women, I think, are much more flexible, and realize they can say something one day, and the next day say the opposite. So I think that's where a lot of communication breaks down. So guys really are very careful about what they say, so they say very little. Sometimes nothing. And I think women also tend to hammer guys about this to an extent - well, you said such and such. Which make guys say even less."
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i want a guy who:
will call at 4am to play an amazing song he knows i have to hear.
laughs at sick jokes. a contagious laugh gets extra points.
likes other guys.
will nerd-out over video games, comics and horror movies.
respects limits on cell phone usage.
will spoon on the couch even if there is something else to do.
will act a fool when foolishness strikes.
doesn't have expectations beyond the moment.
will take things as they come.
doesn't want me to be like other girls.
is okay with random flirting. i'm southern. flirting is our native tongue.
believes hours spent making out is time well spent.
who will keep sundays sacred. no errands. no chores. sunday is lazy day.
knows the perfect diner with the perfect chocolate cake. one open at 3am.
ml
odd bonus: will read me bedtime stories when i can't sleep.
will let me draw on him.
will let me paint his toenails.
will call at 4am to play an amazing song he knows i have to hear.
laughs at sick jokes. a contagious laugh gets extra points.
likes other guys.
will nerd-out over video games, comics and horror movies.
respects limits on cell phone usage.
will spoon on the couch even if there is something else to do.
will act a fool when foolishness strikes.
doesn't have expectations beyond the moment.
will take things as they come.
doesn't want me to be like other girls.
is okay with random flirting. i'm southern. flirting is our native tongue.
believes hours spent making out is time well spent.
who will keep sundays sacred. no errands. no chores. sunday is lazy day.
knows the perfect diner with the perfect chocolate cake. one open at 3am.
ml
odd bonus: will read me bedtime stories when i can't sleep.
will let me draw on him.
will let me paint his toenails.
This post is awesome because it's almost exactly what I've recently found in the girl I've just started seeing. I'm not going to get all mushy, but I'm not generally this smitten, and this post made me think of her...
...go on and say it, I'm a wus.
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I have only encountered one large guy in the romantic sense, and besides his size he has many other amazing qualities:
loyal
private
respectful
masculine
gentle
tactful whilst still remaining honest
modest
possessor of an interesting mind
cautious
communicative
affable/easy-going
great listener
physically attractive to me
keen on the customization of romantic characterizations
compassionate
clean
self-sufficient
not shallow
very sexual
a good cook
awesome at dirty talk/role-playing
knowledgeable about the art of anticipation
loyal
private
respectful
masculine
gentle
tactful whilst still remaining honest
modest
possessor of an interesting mind
cautious
communicative
affable/easy-going
great listener
physically attractive to me
keen on the customization of romantic characterizations
compassionate
clean
self-sufficient
not shallow
very sexual
a good cook
awesome at dirty talk/role-playing
knowledgeable about the art of anticipation
voyeuristic
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It's amazing how hard it is to find a guy who knows how to dress himself decently - no white cross-trainers, no pleated pants, no doofy t-shirts w/brand names emblazoned on the front.
I prefer to think of myself as a marginally bigger than average wus...
feelings on black vans/connies?
no pleated pants.
*runs to change shirt quick like*
nevermind. the t-shirts are passable. how do you feel about love worn with some holes t-shirts?
ml
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