What about everything else?

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  1. C_T_D

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    We've talked a lot about the dicks you like, the dicks you don't. Dicks from a far off land even! So just out of curiousity, what about the rest of the guy? Physical yeah, but personality stuff too.

    He had one great quality. What were some of the others?
     
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    I am not sure what you have been reading? There have been other threads where women have tried to say things, other than physical attributes, count. But you guys always end up with "cocky" questions.:rolleyes:
     
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    Well yeah. That's part of the reason why I asked. It would be cool to hear about all the other things women love about their favorite big dicked men.
     
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    I'm game.

    Fantasy (Reality) Man:

    1. Straight, Single and Emotionally Available
    2. Smart
    3. Avid Reader
    4. Non-smoker
    5. Healthy lifestyle
    6. Makes me feel adored
    7. Taller
    8. Compatible sex drive
    9. Financially thriving and wise with money
    10. Dependable
    11. Initiative
    12. Spiritual
    13. Knows when / how to take charge
    14. Strong with a sensitive side
    15. Of Germanic/Northern European heritage
    16. Has a life of his own but shares it with me
    17. Able to speak on a variety of subjects
    18. Knows how to fix things around the house
    19. Interested and likes to listen to me play piano
    20. Knows how to challenge me
    21. Good communicator
    22. Healthy relationships with family and friends
    23. Truthful without being Hurtful
    24. Integrity – does what he says
    25. Pays attention
    26. Willing to learn new things
    27. Appreciation for fine dining, arts, culture
    28. Good dancer and sense of rhythm
    29. Oh yeah.....and a nice cock too. :smile:

     
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    Interesting list. I don't mean to be presumptuous, but I think I probably could answer yes to 28 out of 28. My only drawback is I'm only an average dancer - good rhythm, but could use some improvement.

    If you weren't a cougar we'd be a good match.

    Take care babe.

    -Ranger
     
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    You neglected #1 Straight and SINGLE. Your last pic post says you have GF. That's NOT single, babe! :smile:



     
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    You're right!

    Sorry, I am STRAIGHT, but I do have a GF.
    :sgrin:
     
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    Is that really compatible with most women? With a list like that you gotta bring more to the table than sex.
     
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    Beyond a list of 29, my experience is that women look for mature, confident (not cocky) and a good sense of humour in your first meetings. Beyond that, I suspect the list includes many of the items above, including good communication, romantic, honest, acts with integrity, and compatible with sex. Most women aren't interested in men who are shorter than they are.

    And for the question above, you have to bring a lot more to the table than sex. A relationship mainly based on sexual attraction would be lucky to last six months, and most men and women are looking for (at best) a lifetime together. However sexual confidence, experience and being a good lover (and larger than average) don't do your chances any harm as the relationship progresses. Indeed, such attributes may mean a contented lifetime together compared so something not so happy or long-lasting.

    What does that mean? The ultimate form of love is emotional, spiritual and sensual attraction. This form of love is rare but one we should all search for. I know, because I have this type of love, and it is sublime.
     
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    Cock size isn't even on the list of what's important to me, to be honest.

    Hm. I posted a blog about this some time ago, and I don't think my preferences have changed any. So I'll just copy and paste from there...

    :smile:
     
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    You will never find a man with those attributes, but keep looking. Really and truly, men don't get women's moods or where those moods come from. Men don't communicate easily, it's contrary to our nature. And men always mix sex and love together: if she loves me she will want to have sex with me / she has sex with me therefore she loves me. Women who understand men understand this, and they are precious. Like my wife.

    Men can be reliable, honest, trustworthy, humourous, romantic and more, but for heaven's sake don't set the bar that high!

    Edit: I'm a novellist (amongst other things). This advice was given to me about drawing male characters:
    "Most men don't like talking about emotion. Because they feel they have to mean what they say: forever. They don't understand the concept that you get to change your mind. Men think when they say something it's written in stone and they have to die defending it. Women, I think, are much more flexible, and realize they can say something one day, and the next day say the opposite. So I think that's where a lot of communication breaks down. So guys really are very careful about what they say, so they say very little. Sometimes nothing. And I think women also tend to hammer guys about this to an extent - well, you said such and such. Which make guys say even less."
     
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    i want a guy who:
    will call at 4am to play an amazing song he knows i have to hear.
    laughs at sick jokes. a contagious laugh gets extra points.
    likes other guys.
    will nerd-out over video games, comics and horror movies.
    respects limits on cell phone usage.
    will spoon on the couch even if there is something else to do.
    will act a fool when foolishness strikes.
    doesn't have expectations beyond the moment.
    will take things as they come.
    doesn't want me to be like other girls.
    is okay with random flirting. i'm southern. flirting is our native tongue.
    believes hours spent making out is time well spent.
    who will keep sundays sacred. no errands. no chores. sunday is lazy day.
    knows the perfect diner with the perfect chocolate cake. one open at 3am.


    ml

    odd bonus: will read me bedtime stories when i can't sleep.
    will let me draw on him.
    will let me paint his toenails.
     
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    This post is awesome because it's almost exactly what I've recently found in the girl I've just started seeing. I'm not going to get all mushy, but I'm not generally this smitten, and this post made me think of her...

    ...go on and say it, I'm a wus.
     
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    ya big wus. :wink:

    ya big adorable wus. :biggrin1:

    ml
     
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    I have only encountered one large guy in the romantic sense, and besides his size he has many other amazing qualities:

    loyal
    private
    respectful
    masculine
    gentle
    tactful whilst still remaining honest
    modest
    possessor of an interesting mind
    cautious
    communicative
    affable/easy-going
    great listener
    physically attractive to me
    keen on the customization of romantic characterizations
    compassionate
    clean
    self-sufficient
    not shallow
    very sexual
    a good cook
    awesome at dirty talk/role-playing
    knowledgeable about the art of anticipation
     
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    It's amazing how hard it is to find a guy who knows how to dress himself decently - no white cross-trainers, no pleated pants, no doofy t-shirts w/brand names emblazoned on the front.
     
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    I prefer to think of myself as a marginally bigger than average wus...
     
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    This is awesome and deserving it's own thread. Allow me...
     
  19. MickeyLee

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    feelings on black vans/connies?

    no pleated pants.

    *runs to change shirt quick like*
    nevermind. the t-shirts are passable. how do you feel about love worn with some holes t-shirts?

    ml
     
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    At first I thought it said "band" logos. I was like, there goes half my t-shirts.
     
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