What did you learn hanging out at lpsg that you were surprised by?

[693987]

I was mildly surprised at the depth of the delusion and hatred some men have regarding women. I don't interact with bigots and have little patience for naivete or delusions in my social and familial circles. Echoing @nailz, how much some men are in denial and cling to saying they're straight/heterosexual, when there isn't a damn thing wrong with being bisexual. Beyond that? Not really anything has surprised me.

 

[C41ara]

Almost an entire year I'm here, so...
- I mostly have fun here, escpecially thanks to the funny and confident ladies who always keep the conversations on the right track.
- I've learned something about sexuality, of course, and that can help.
- I'm still surprised about how much men really think size is important in everyday life, when you have the pants on. I perfectly understand sometimes a guy wants to play or tease, it's the nature or the site, but don't take this too serious.
- Too much porn, guys.
- I still find very very weird that men are interested in other men's dicks and stuff like comparison.
- I really like black guys
- I didn't know what sph was, and maybe it was better before
- I really find pathetic people who ask something and then argue about the aswer they don't like.

Maybe other stuff, i'll think about it

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Oh, there's plenty I wish I could unsee/unread/unlearn.

 

[286798]

I'm late to the show on this one... read and intended to give a thoughtful reply and then life happened. Anyhooo... I agree with much of what others have posted.

One theme I read in several of the responses to this thread is that the behavior and attitudes of some of the men here has been disappointing. That's really too bad, but I've seen a lot of it, so I totally get it. I was just surprised that so many of you mentioned it as one of the negative things you've learned.

I've received some pushy messages, unsolicited dick pics, nasty replies if I don't agree, etc. Conversely, I've learned that if a guy is thoughtful, respectful, and considerate, I'm willing to be extremely forthcoming. I wish that more guys knew that a giant dock isn't the way to get the keys to the kingdom... being nice is.

ETA: Being genuinely nice... not just be nice until you get what you want and then become an asshole.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Conversely, I've learned that if a guy is thoughtful, respectful, and considerate, I'm willing to be extremely forthcoming. I wish that more guys knew that a giant dock isn't the way to get the keys to the kingdom... being nice is.

ETA: Being genuinely nice... not just be nice until you get what you want and then become an asshole.

This is something our OP seems to know well. He's such a genuine, warm, friendly, flirty, NICE man. Such a welcome addition here.

 

[286798]

This is something our OP seems to know well. He's such a genuine, warm, friendly, flirty, NICE man. Such a welcome addition here.

Yes. He's the #1 reason I posted that. 100% agree.

 

[EllieP]

This is something our OP seems to know well. He's such a genuine, warm, friendly, flirty, NICE man. Such a welcome addition here.

Could not agree more. He's a real sweetie!

 

[MickeyLee]

You made my vagina sad

 

[693987]

You made my vagina sad

It's like the Sahara desert over here...

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I actually lol'ed

 

[AlteredEgo]

I actually lol'ed

Me too. Given the post to which he was responding, the irony was hilarious.

 

[Pangurl4u]

That straight guys think it's ok to send a cock picture with first contact. WTF?! would you whip It out in person? Idiots.

That gay guys mostly want to be the cocksucker and the fuckee.

That bi guys prefer to be thought straight.

That gay and bi guys lust after straight guys.

This