What do you consider small, acceptable, large?

[CRAIGROBBO]

Alright ladies, I am sorry I have asked somewhat similar questions in the past.

I would like to know (and hoping I get a somewhat varied response) what you ladies would consider, Small acceptable and large for a mans penis.

Please don't confuse my question of 'average' I am not asking what you have experienced etc. I am asking what do you consider to the threshold for small, Acceptable(for yourself) and large.

I think I have come to term that I got far too hung up on 'porn sizing' than real world so wondered...just what is it real world girls find ...

Thanks in advance.

Craig

 

[693987]

Oh, for fucks sakes... seriously? This, again?

If you fucking must. Average length is 5-6". Large length to me, obviously, is anything above that and small is anything below that. Circumference average to me is 4-4.5", and yes, I'm able to be that precise, because of measuring sex toys and that I used to write reviews for sex toys.

 

[CRAIGROBBO]

Oh, for fucks sakes... seriously? This, again?

If you fucking must. Average length is 5-6". Large length to me, obviously, is anything above that and small is anything below that. Circumference average to me is 4-4.5", and yes, I'm able to be that precise, because of measuring sex toys and that I used to write reviews for sex toys.

Sorry, If this has been asked before would you please link me and I can close this thread(or ask admin to remove) I didn't mean to step on toes.

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

Well let's see. 6 is small, 7 is acceptable and 8+++ + is preferred.

But only if thick like 6 or thicker around.

OK, I'm a size Queen. Sue me.

 

[693987]

Sorry, If this has been asked before would you please link me and I can close this thread(or ask admin to remove) I didn't mean to step on toes.

It's yet another variation of the size question that gets asked on here all the time. Different women (and men of course, but with this being Ask a Woman...) have different opinions about it. Just look at the variation between the TWO responses in here. What's the minimum girth to make you happy, what's the minimum length to make you happy, what do you think is big, over and over and over and over.

 

[CRAIGROBBO]

I was hoping to get a little more data on real world experiance but maybe i shouldnt have asked...ill get my coat.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I find small and large ones to be quite acceptable.

 

[fluffychocolate]

OP, I guess the thing is I wonder why does this question get asked so much by so many guys? What is the magic answer that you all are looking for? I never bother with these questions simply because I don't see the point for the OP.

I liken it to going into the Ask A Man forum and asking what is the perfect sized pair of tits, average sized pair of tits, and small pair of tits. Regardless of the answers the men give, I more than likely won't be sporting the size tits that any of the guys consider perfect. It just seems like something someone would do to torture themselves and lower their self-esteem.

 

[LaFemme]

OP, I guess the thing is I wonder why does this question get asked so much by so many guys? What is the magic answer that you all are looking for? I never bother with these questions simply because I don't see the point for the OP.

I liken it to going into the Ask A Man forum and asking what is the perfect sized pair of tits, average sized pair of tits, and small pair of tits. Regardless of the answers the men give, I more than likely won't be sporting the size tits that any of the guys consider perfect. It just seems like something someone would do to torture themselves and lower their self-esteem.

Well put!

I don't get it either. What good is an answer? Not being rude, I wish I understood the importance of placing oneself on a scale - especially when most points on the scale are 'great'.

If it's because you want to know if you're normal - likely you are. If you think women have different ideas of what a large or small comprises, maybe we do. But as few of us measure, it's all a guess anyway - so your "data" is based on nothing. (I had a b/f who told me his dick was ten inches. Ok. It hurt. I never measured it, but maybe it was eight. I just took his word for it.)

For me, there's been "couldn't feel it" (once in my life - about the size of a pinky), "feels great" and "ouch". Men for the most part, feel great. What size is that? I don't know. 4? 7? I really don't know.

Like I've said before, if I knew there was going to be a quiz, I would have taken notes.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

OP, I guess the thing is I wonder why does this question get asked so much by so many guys? What is the magic answer that you all are looking for? I never bother with these questions simply because I don't see the point for the OP.

I liken it to going into the Ask A Man forum and asking what is the perfect sized pair of tits, average sized pair of tits, and small pair of tits. Regardless of the answers the men give, I more than likely won't be sporting the size tits that any of the guys consider perfect. It just seems like something someone would do to torture themselves and lower their self-esteem.

It's just insecurity. He wants to make sure that most women wouldn't toss him out of bed once his pants came off.

OP, here's my answer to your question. In terms of both girth and length, anything below 5 inches is small. 5-6 is ideal, 6+ is large, 8+ is too big.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Well put!

I don't get it either. What good is an answer? Not being rude, I wish I understood the importance of placing oneself on a scale - especially when most points on the scale are 'great'.

If it's because you want to know if you're normal - likely you are. If you think women have different ideas of what a large or small comprises, maybe we do. But as few of us measure, it's all a guess anyway - so your "data" is based on nothing. (I had a b/f who told me his dick was ten inches. Ok. It hurt. I never measured it, but maybe it was eight. I just took his word for it.)

For me, there's been "couldn't feel it" (once in my life - about the size of a pinky), "feels great" and "ouch". Men for the most part, feel great. What size is that? I don't know. 4? 7? I really don't know.

Like I've said before, if I knew there was going to be a quiz, I would have taken notes.

For me, there also the aspect of if the dude is worth any hassle.
I'm on this board because one lover, of many years' duration, is a man of gifted size. I'm a physically small person, especially at the pelvis. He happens to be worth effort. So I'm here looking for the secret of dealing with lentgth and girth.
That said, I don't have numbers for it.
The guys I've dated with self perceived smaller size usually just rolled with it. None were into humiliation and the like, thank goodness. YKINMK.

Really, to me, a penis is a fun aspect of a soul vessel.

 

[CRAIGROBBO]

Thanks for the replies.

I tried to sum it up briefly in first post.

As you girls mentioned it is insecurity related but not so much about other women and what they think of me but more comming to terms with myself and self acceptance.

When watching porn and all the talks of huge and monster cocks etc etc its easy to feel inadequate...

What i was trying to do was get a real world feel of what would be considered small acceptable and large between most women to see where in the category I would fit (but without disclosing my size)

As mentioned its not about how women perceive me but how i perceive myself

I'm not very good at explaining but hopefully you can get what im trying to say.

 

[Austingal]

Ask not about the stature of the penis, ask about the stature of the man.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Thanks for the replies.

I tried to sum it up briefly in first post.

As you girls mentioned it is insecurity related but not so much about other women and what they think of me but more comming to terms with myself and self acceptance.

When watching porn and all the talks of huge and monster cocks etc etc its easy to feel inadequate...

What i was trying to do was get a real world feel of what would be considered small acceptable and large between most women to see where in the category I would fit (but without disclosing my size)

As mentioned its not about how women perceive me but how i perceive myself

I'm not very good at explaining but hopefully you can get what im trying to say.

Yep. Porn isn't real, or a reasonable benchmark. Don't use it as any standard. Bigger dicks are used because it's a visual medium. (And there's creedence to the idea that shaving is so popular because camera techs find it simpler to shoot penetration without hair. Now we have boys and men who think pubic hair is inherently unclean and unnatural. Yes, it's "unnatural" to have the hair that naturally grows from your follicles. My mind boggles)

And please, we are women. We are of legal age. Girls, well those are high school and younger. And they don't need to know your size.

 

[JMore45]

My ex is 7x5 (he showed off and measured in front of me). If he goes too deep, it hurts. So this is the size that's a tad too big for me. Especially when I'm not yet warmed up.

 

[CRAIGROBBO]

Thanks for the replies, I think my question may have been interpenetrated wrong. I wasn't asking what you ladies like or prefer or your preference.

i was asking what you personally consider big or small (ladies will vary and this i understand)

Craig

 

[AlteredEgo]

Thanks for the replies, I think my question may have been interpenetrated wrong. I wasn't asking what you ladies like or prefer or your preference.

i was asking what you personally consider big or small (ladies will vary and this i understand)

Craig

The problem is that you had the word acceptable thrown in there. Removing g it does change the question. I actually prefer not to answer this. Every time I give my opinion on what looks small to me, and what looks large, a zillion butthurt little bitches come out of the woodworks and I had enough of that yesterday.

 

[LaFemme]

Craig, you need to accept your size. I know that's tough when you watch porn, but truly there are very few women in the world who have a definite preference. Unless you have a micropenis or something so massive it hurts, you are fine. Truly. It's the man that counts. Women have said that over and over again on this site.

Be a good man. Be an interesting person. Be a man who is interested in women. Have a life. Work hard. All that is far more important than the size of your cock. Really, truly.

 

[CRAIGROBBO]

Thanks I totally understand 100% but we all look at ourselves, I was just trying to get a gauge of where I stand.

As some of you may know (but most probably dont) i do suffer quite badly from depression and a big part of it is my physical appearance and i am trying to fight it one step at a time, my biggest part (well not literally) is my penis, I have come to accept its not all about the size (it took me a while but I have) however Just like women like to receive compliments about their eyes for example I would just like to know where i stand.

This is so hard for me to explain and its frustrating because I have what I feel in my head but I just cant seem to say it here

I understand i should have put a better word than 'acceptable' I am very bad at wording(as you can proberby tell already) and I just keep tripping myself up.

I am really honestly not asking what your presence is I am not asking how good it feels or any thing like that.

iam just trying to gauge what a threshold is for being defined as a small penis or a large penis (not statistically but real world)

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Perhaps you need to understand why it's important to you.

Because we are mostly saying it doesn't matter to us.
And ultimately, it only matters to the people involved with any given penis.

As a veteran of the depression wars, I can tell you focusing on something not you is a huge help.