What do you notice first, second, etc. when you see a new erect cock for the first time?

[tubeamp]

I have asked a number of women this - when I have had sex with them of course - and their answers surprised me. At the risk of polluting the answers here, here is what I have been told.

First, no woman has said size, at least in the way men might think they would. I'm 7.5 x 5.25, so I don't think they are just being polite. Quite the opposite: I have been told if a penis is much bigger, they worry if sex will be enjoyable, or even painful. I have hit a few cervixes, and the woman was definitely not happy about it. (It looks like it must feel like having your testicles kicked.)

The most common answer is the shape. And this part surprised me. They have largely said they prefer a cock that is narrower at the tip, and fatter toward the base. They say that they think penetration will be gradual and easier. In contrast, many have told me they don't like a mushroom head: the maximum stretching happens right away, and then there is less stretch of the first few inches of the vaginal canal where they have the most sensation at full penetration.

Finally, coming in close, is the general shape and look. None of them have quite been able to explain this so that I can understand. But they find the general aesthetic important. When asked, some seem to prefer straight, others think a bit of a curve is sexy. Most that I have asked, don't like veiny; one told me that it "looks too much like a farm animal". In America, most have said they prefer uncircumcised, but that is likely much to do with what they have experienced.

Most guys on this site nowadays seem to be gay, so I am wondering what they notice and get turned on by.

 

[Jooyo]

Shape, definitely shape...

 

[eridim]

I'm not a woman, but definitely all the oposite of what they've told you. I'd even go one step too far and be sexist, because women say the opposite of what they want because they don't want to be judged for being superficial or wanting a big fat cock. But I don't have a vagina, so maybe feeling a cock inside your vagina is different from the feeling inside your ass.

I first notice the size. Big cocks are a huge turn on. Sometimes if the guy is not fully my type I'd still get very turned on if he has a big cock.

Second, the shape of the head. The bigger the head, the better. But always proportional to the overall shape of the cock.

So third is overall shape. A thin cock with a big head doesn't look good to me. But a thick cock with a thick head is very hot. Always within proportion! A way too thick base with too thick head is not pretty either. I used to love straight cocks, but now I find a slight banana curve upwards also hot. I don't like curves to the left or the right, but that's just me being too picky now.

Finally if they are cut or not. Used to love cut cocks, now I'm fine with both. But I have a lot of things to say about both. Cut cocks are generally beautiful, but circumcision can go so many ways. Some are cut too far back, others look messy, so it's a slippery slope. Uncut guys with not too much foreskin are very sexy too. When the head shows on it's own, without the need to pull back the foreskin too much is the best. And the foreskin shouldn't be too tight, smothering the head. Too much foreskin is a turn off. It always makes me wonder how thorough are they in cleaning what's in there.

These preferences have changed over time and will change again. It all depends on what stage of your life you are at and how much experience you have. I've noticed I've become more flexible over time with the types of cocks I like.

 

[Lil miss daisy]

mtf here, i always look at the curve and the glans, secondly i look at the veins, and the balls. big is not the main thing for me. im 23 cm so most guys/trans are smaller than me.

 

[jdphnx]

Hmmmm..... good question.
1. Cut or uncut. I prefer cut.
2. Ratio of length to diameter. I'm not a size freak, in fact I prefer medium and smaller for sucking. The shorter the cock, the slimmer it should be. Longer cocks should be proportionately thicker. The pic below is a good ratio.
3. Shape: No strong preferences here, but the best are those that stick straight out when standing. Some downward curve is good so it slides into my mouth easier when I'm kneeling. Upward curve a little less so. The first cock I ever sucked had a strong upward curve and it was a little awkward (even though I LOVED it).
4. Pubic hair: I prefer cocks that are kept trimmed up with just a small patch of twink-like pubic hair. Not a fan of hair that extends around and encases the balls. Smooth balls are best.
5. Do the balls hang loose and low or are they high and tight. I don't really prefer one over the other but it's just an interest.

 

[droopyboy]

I have asked a number of women this - when I have had sex with them of course - and their answers surprised me. At the risk of polluting the answers here, here is what I have been told.

First, no woman has said size, at least in the way men might think they would. I'm 7.5 x 5.25, so I don't think they are just being polite. Quite the opposite: I have been told if a penis is much bigger, they worry if sex will be enjoyable, or even painful. I have hit a few cervixes, and the woman was definitely not happy about it. (It looks like it must feel like having your testicles kicked.)

The most common answer is the shape. And this part surprised me. They have largely said they prefer a cock that is narrower at the tip, and fatter toward the base. They say that they think penetration will be gradual and easier. In contrast, many have told me they don't like a mushroom head: the maximum stretching happens right away, and then there is less stretch of the first few inches of the vaginal canal where they have the most sensation at full penetration.

Finally, coming in close, is the general shape and look. None of them have quite been able to explain this so that I can understand. But they find the general aesthetic important. When asked, some seem to prefer straight, others think a bit of a curve is sexy. Most that I have asked, don't like veiny; one told me that it "looks too much like a farm animal". In America, most have said they prefer uncircumcised, but that is likely much to do with what they have experienced.

Most guys on this site nowadays seem to be gay, so I am wondering what they notice and get turned on by.

Lots of dudes here (str8, bi or even gay)who just like "dick" and then move on. You can relax here and give an opinion on a cock without the earth losing orbit...it`s "OK",thank goodness

 

[chrissal480]

I tend to notice how he handles himself exposing his naked body to me.. does he shy away because he is small or if he stands proud and happy with what he has to offer..

This instantly puts out there if shys away or try’s to hide it.. if he isn’t happy with what he has to offer how does he expect me too

 

[chrisrobin]

First thought is usually wow, then a cser look.
Bushed is tops, I like to get a good sniff of pubes when I blow a nob. Uncut for preferred but a torpedo shape is good - excellent for penetration.
Size only matters when I decide if I can suck it balls deep and take it balls deep, I like to know its going to give me satisfaction without great agony.
A pre cum leak always turns me on, makes my nipples itch and my ring contract

 

[Swelldick]

I definitely notice shape first; the look of the glans and how it's proportioned to the shaft. Girth over length. Are they cut; is there a noticeable foreskin? Any discernible circumcision scar? Is the frenulum present or carved out? Any pronounced veins? I guess you could say that I give it a good once over.

 

[droopyboy]

I have asked a number of women this - when I have had sex with them of course - and their answers surprised me. At the risk of polluting the answers here, here is what I have been told.

First, no woman has said size, at least in the way men might think they would. I'm 7.5 x 5.25, so I don't think they are just being polite. Quite the opposite: I have been told if a penis is much bigger, they worry if sex will be enjoyable, or even painful. I have hit a few cervixes, and the woman was definitely not happy about it. (It looks like it must feel like having your testicles kicked.)

The most common answer is the shape. And this part surprised me. They have largely said they prefer a cock that is narrower at the tip, and fatter toward the base. They say that they think penetration will be gradual and easier. In contrast, many have told me they don't like a mushroom head: the maximum stretching happens right away, and then there is less stretch of the first few inches of the vaginal canal where they have the most sensation at full penetration.

Finally, coming in close, is the general shape and look. None of them have quite been able to explain this so that I can understand. But they find the general aesthetic important. When asked, some seem to prefer straight, others think a bit of a curve is sexy. Most that I have asked, don't like veiny; one told me that it "looks too much like a farm animal". In America, most have said they prefer uncircumcised, but that is likely much to do with what they have experienced.

Most guys on this site nowadays seem to be gay, so I am wondering what they notice and get turned on by.

Size of the cockhead..thickness of the shaft...length too...big balls?

 

[Sizzling_bites]

Apperance, skin color(fairer the better) , glans color(deep pink or reddish preferred), size, cock head size, pubic hairs

 

[BigAl9]

The first thing which I notice is the size, then is the glans larger or smaller diameter than the shaft. I also take note of whether if it is cut or intact. Of course being erect makes this difficult in most cases unless there is opportunity for close examination.

 

[gcs2718]

It's just the overall look to me. Like people themselves, some cocks are more attractive than others. I have no one type and I have sucked cocks of all sizes. I like decent sized balls and if I have a size preference it's in the average range. The reason is I love being able to deep throat a guy because the reaction it evokes is a real turn on for me as a cocksucker. Also as the owner of a cock I know how good it feels to have your full length in someone's mouth. I'll still gladly suck a guy who's too big to take down my throat. There's also a thrill in feeling my mouth stuffed to capacity by the big fellows.

 

[NY2NY]

1) Size and shape
2) Cut/uncut
3) Head
4) Surrounding area, like hair, balls, legs
5) Are they normal, shy, showing off?

I'm mostly straight and I basically just see locker room penis, so #5 is important for context. Some guys are just changing and don't seem to care. Some are shy and want privacy. Some are more open.

 

[Robert Dole]

Size and shape, big erect cocks that point straight up, long foreskins

 

[MrAmpersand]

In my case, color, thickness, cut or uncut, and then size

 

[lelyal]

The shape. My cock is curved and I always wanted a straight cock. It doesn't matter if someone else is straight or curved, a stiff cock is a beautiful thing, it's just what I notice first.

 

[John Sssss]

Size. Sorry.

I mean, not everyone has to go into the Guiness book of records but I want to see a toy before playing with it!

 

[walker2]

Looking for a full, dense natural bush, then at the thickness of the head of his cock, then at the thickness of the ridge at the bottom of his cock head.