What does it feel like to bottom

[sulvca]

I've never been fucked. I've done a lot of fucking. I've been a top in MM sex and penis in a vagina. I've often wondered what it feels like to be penetrated.

 

[briacon429]

Here are two responses I’ve posted on other threads. Your question is pretty broad, so if you have questions about any of the details, feel free to DM!

(Btw, on the first one, the OP asked if it hurt, though hopefully it was clear from my answer….)

It shouldn’t! Or at least, it shouldn’t hurt in a bad way.

It’s important to note that bottoming isn’t for everyone. Some guys have trouble taking dick, usually because their hole will cramp up. So if you’re one of those guys, you may be best off topping or even avoiding anal sex altogether.

Having said that, bottoming can and should feel awesome! If you’ve ever played with your hole, imagine that except way more intense. I also love the sheer intimacy of feeling a man’s anatomy inside me.

Best of all is if he hits your prostate. It’s basically the male G-spot, so it can make you cum hands-free, and it can give you feelings of pleasure you never imagined!

Let’s not forget the lubrication! A nice hot load can feel like a whole extra helping of lube, and you can feel the difference as his dick slides in and out. That’s one of my favorite parts, feeling him fuck me using his own cum as lube…!

 

[chrisrobin]

If the guy fucking knows what he's; doing and not a wham-bam merchant a prick in the asshole feels amazing, totally sensual right up to and including the guy shooting his load - as a bottom you can feel that as well, his cock swells as his load is expelled and your anal muscles can feel it.
Not only does it feel good there are so many other positions to get fucked, some where you are in charge and using the fucker!

 

[dreambridger]

Every cock feels different, and it feels different depending how ready you are or how erect you are or what position you're in. But I love it.

 

[tito21]

Every cock feels different, and it feels different depending how ready you are or how erect you are or what position you're in. But I love it.

Yes!! 100% this!! Though i do notice that a cock attached to a guy with a big wallet tend to slide in the old corn-hole much easier, even without lube.

 

[hvdude]

What the above posters fail to mention is what it's like THE FIRST TIME. It's all in the lead up to the actual penetration. There should be a lot of kissing and caressing to get you relaxed. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what does and does not feel good. Breathe. He should get you in a position to rim you; usually you face down, head on the mattress with your butt in the air. The purpose of rimming is not only to get your hole excited for more stimulation, but to lubricate it as well. Relax. When you get to the point where you feel you want him to insert a finger into you, tell him. He should go slow and use lube if you'd like to get your hole slick. He can add more fingers/lube as you like.
You should get to a point where your hole is "itching"; you really want something more. There are two positions I think are best for first timers: the way you are now or on your back with your legs in the air, pillow under your hips. You both should be well lubed.
He should position the head of his cock just at the entrance to your hole. Keep eye contact as he SLOWLY penetrates you. Breathe and relax. It will hurt a bit, but that will shortly pass. Make sure to vocalize; make noises like moaning, whimpering, etc The head of his cock stretching your anus will give you a mixture of both pleasure and pain, but if it hurts too much have him pull out and try it again.
When his cock head passes through the anus you will both feel a slight "ahhhhhh" feeling and he should be able to penetrate into you fully. Once he does, stop and get used to the sensation before he starts to thrust. Follow your body and enjoy the ride.
One last thing: during anal sex the penis entering and withdrawing from the bottom often times brings air with it, so you may feel bloated and have to expel it. It's not dirty or bad. It just is.

 

[sulvca]

@hvdude just reading your above description makes me hard.

Must mean I'm prime and ready for a good fucking. Now off to go find a good cock for the job.

 

[MuscledHorse]

feeling another guy's erection in you is the most amazing high there is (apart from taking even larger stuff like hands). I was hooked the first time I get fucked. You have pleasure sensors in your ass you didn't know existed until you engage in sodomy. You can feel your top's erection as it slides in and out of your, spreading the rectum with each thrust and filling you as his cock head and hits and stimulates your prostate and the shaft presses against it as it slides past on the inward thrust and outward retreat. And then there's the look of ecstasy in your top's eyes as he plows you and rides the pleasure waves you are giving him as his erection thrusts in and out over and over and you know it's your ass that is going to make him cum and breed his male essence in you, spilling it purely for pleasure an sport even as your own penis begin to erupt a load of cum from the sensory overload you are enjoying. for me, this is an experience that never gets old no matter how many partners i have or how much size (cock or hand or both) gets shoved up me.

 

[Mister2101]

You know it's good as you see all these grown men lying on their back, pulling their knees to their chest.......or getting on their knees with their head down, ass in the air.....spreading their ass cheeks.....arching that back......."offering" their ass and begging to be fucked.......yes baby.....its that good......

 

[chrisrobin]

What the above posters fail to mention is what it's like THE FIRST TIME. It's all in the lead up to the actual penetration. There should be a lot of kissing and caressing to get you relaxed. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what does and does not feel good. Breathe. He should get you in a position to rim you; usually you face down, head on the mattress with your butt in the air. The purpose of rimming is not only to get your hole excited for more stimulation, but to lubricate it as well. Relax. When you get to the point where you feel you want him to insert a finger into you, tell him. He should go slow and use lube if you'd like to get your hole slick. He can add more fingers/lube as you like.
You should get to a point where your hole is "itching"; you really want something more. There are two positions I think are best for first timers: the way you are now or on your back with your legs in the air, pillow under your hips. You both should be well lubed.
He should position the head of his cock just at the entrance to your hole. Keep eye contact as he SLOWLY penetrates you. Breathe and relax. It will hurt a bit, but that will shortly pass. Make sure to vocalize; make noises like moaning, whimpering, etc The head of his cock stretching your anus will give you a mixture of both pleasure and pain, but if it hurts too much have him pull out and try it again.
When his cock head passes through the anus you will both feel a slight "ahhhhhh" feeling and he should be able to penetrate into you fully. Once he does, stop and get used to the sensation before he starts to thrust. Follow your body and enjoy the ride.
One last thing: during anal sex the penis entering and withdrawing from the bottom often times brings air with it, so you may feel bloated and have to expel it. It's not dirty or bad. It just is.

I agree with the above except for the "make sure you vocalize" bit. That comes when the cock enters your hole, makes the eyes water and an involuntary gasp and "aaaah" My first time it did hurt but once he's shot his load he didn't pull out, went a bit soft then got hard again and really fucked me, this time I was there enjoying every thrust of his cum lubed cock! After that, piece of cake!

 

[Vrxist]

What the above posters fail to mention is what it's like THE FIRST TIME. It's all in the lead up to the actual penetration. There should be a lot of kissing and caressing to get you relaxed. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what does and does not feel good. Breathe. He should get you in a position to rim you; usually you face down, head on the mattress with your butt in the air. The purpose of rimming is not only to get your hole excited for more stimulation, but to lubricate it as well. Relax. When you get to the point where you feel you want him to insert a finger into you, tell him. He should go slow and use lube if you'd like to get your hole slick. He can add more fingers/lube as you like.
You should get to a point where your hole is "itching"; you really want something more. There are two positions I think are best for first timers: the way you are now or on your back with your legs in the air, pillow under your hips. You both should be well lubed.
He should position the head of his cock just at the entrance to your hole. Keep eye contact as he SLOWLY penetrates you. Breathe and relax. It will hurt a bit, but that will shortly pass. Make sure to vocalize; make noises like moaning, whimpering, etc The head of his cock stretching your anus will give you a mixture of both pleasure and pain, but if it hurts too much have him pull out and try it again.
When his cock head passes through the anus you will both feel a slight "ahhhhhh" feeling and he should be able to penetrate into you fully. Once he does, stop and get used to the sensation before he starts to thrust. Follow your body and enjoy the ride.
One last thing: during anal sex the penis entering and withdrawing from the bottom often times brings air with it, so you may feel bloated and have to expel it. It's not dirty or bad. It just is.

What about the curve? How deep does it until it reaches the curve? I mean 5 inch or 5.5 or 6, or 6.5, or 7, or 7.5, or 8, and so on until it reaches the curve and how does it fell when the curve is pushed, does it become straight? When pushed?

 

[PutItInHere691]

the first time will hurt somewhat-- a person can go without getting screwed for few months then when gets screwed it will hurt a little--

but this kind of pain is different than any other kind--its not like a toothache pain or cutting yourself pain---

not all penises feel the same--but to the bottom once that dick is inside him and he gets used to it--feeling that dick begin to pump in and out is awesome--

if decide to do it--relax and dont do it with someone you dont trust---

good lube is a plus-- until you decide to do it--buy you a tube of ky-gel and finger yourself--you can always buy a dildo--skinny ones feel decent they open your hole a little and stimulates things pretty good

and whoever you decide to let penetrate you let them know its your first that want to take it easy--

best way to do it first is him laying on his back you stand over him and guide his dick inside you----your muscles tend to be more relaxed in this position

 

[DiggingDeep96]

If I understand correct, it just chemistry and how you feel towards each other. Things go way better with chemistry. The right situation.

 

[Vrxist]

If I understand correct, it just chemistry and how you feel towards each other. Things go way better with chemistry. The right situation.

So it's just for giving pleasure for the top?

 

[Brodie888]

From a very young age I have been playing with my ass with different objects and toys. So by the time I had sex with another man, there wasn't really any mystery in terms of how it would feel.

If anything, you are relying on the top to be good at what they do. Often they have never bottomed and have no idea. Sometimes they can't get hard right away because they are nervous. Guys who watch a lot of porn can have difficulty staying hard enough for long enough so you have to keep swapping things up.

The first time for people is often an awkward affair that is better forgotten. Just remember practice makes perfect!

 

[Topher the Gopher]

So it's just for giving pleasure for the top?

Not at all. Getting fucked can and should feel awesome for the bottom.

 

[Vrxist]

Not at all. Getting fucked can and should feel awesome for the bottom.

It's the pleasure only in the sphincter? What is like when the curve being push? If the d more than 5inch of course, and when penetration is sometimes the sphincter (closed?) reflex , y know what I mean?

 

[briacon429]

It's the pleasure only in the sphincter? What is like when the curve being push? If the d more than 5inch of course, and when penetration is sometimes the sphincter (closed?) reflex , y know what I mean?

The pleasure goes beyond the sphincter. To me, the whole experience feels great, including just the sheer intimacy of having another man inside me. But the real show is in your prostate, a.k.a. the male G-spot: if a dick hits it, it can make me cum uncontrollably.

In terms of the curves, keep in mind everybody’s anatomy is different. Dicks come in all shapes and sizes, and so do asses. So there’s no universal answer to what’ll feel best for you and your top. (This is part of the reason why your first time can be awkward.) But once you get the hang of it, especially how your body responds, you can have a great time!

 

[Topher the Gopher]

I agree with everything briacon429 said. In my experience, if my curve is bluntly rammed, it's painful (and it's also potentially dangerous), but once that barrier is established, some soft thrusting causing everything to adjust.

Having deep fisted a guy once, I can say that, once everything is comfortably stretched on the outside, the inside is very flexible and readily manipulated with gentle, careful, and mindful maneuvering. It sounds more complicated than it is when you actually do it.

It's the pleasure only in the sphincter? What is like when the curve being push? If th

The pleasure goes beyond the sphincter. To me, the whole experience feels great, including just the sheer intimacy of having another man inside me. But the real show is in your prostate, a.k.a. the male G-spot: if a dick hits it, it can make me cum uncontrollably.

In terms of the curves, keep in mind everybody’s anatomy is different. Dicks come in all shapes and sizes, and so do asses. So there’s no universal answer to what’ll feel best for you and your top. (This is part of the reason why your first time can be awkward.) But once you get the hang of it, especially how your body responds, you can have a great time!

e d more than 5inch of course, and when penetration is sometimes the sphincter (closed?) reflex , y know what I mean?

 

[WINGEDshoes]

What the above posters fail to mention is what it's like THE FIRST TIME. It's all in the lead up to the actual penetration. There should be a lot of kissing and caressing to get you relaxed. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what does and does not feel good. Breathe. He should get you in a position to rim you; usually you face down, head on the mattress with your butt in the air. The purpose of rimming is not only to get your hole excited for more stimulation, but to lubricate it as well. Relax. When you get to the point where you feel you want him to insert a finger into you, tell him. He should go slow and use lube if you'd like to get your hole slick. He can add more fingers/lube as you like.
You should get to a point where your hole is "itching"; you really want something more. There are two positions I think are best for first timers: the way you are now or on your back with your legs in the air, pillow under your hips. You both should be well lubed.
He should position the head of his cock just at the entrance to your hole. Keep eye contact as he SLOWLY penetrates you. Breathe and relax. It will hurt a bit, but that will shortly pass. Make sure to vocalize; make noises like moaning, whimpering, etc The head of his cock stretching your anus will give you a mixture of both pleasure and pain, but if it hurts too much have him pull out and try it again.
When his cock head passes through the anus you will both feel a slight "ahhhhhh" feeling and he should be able to penetrate into you fully. Once he does, stop and get used to the sensation before he starts to thrust. Follow your body and enjoy the ride.
One last thing: during anal sex the penis entering and withdrawing from the bottom often times brings air with it, so you may feel bloated and have to expel it. It's not dirty or bad. It just is.

Best description of how a "guy on guy penetration" needs to be!!!! - Where were you when I was getting fucked the first time in my teens?