What does this make me???

[Horsehungjock]

Ok ive been kinda confused about this for a while. I have alot of conflicting thoughts and urges come across my mind.


I know im straight but for some reason certan things about some guys turn me on. ive had sex with about 8 girls and enjoyed it all but over these past few years ive kinda wanted to have sex with a guy.

i mean i had been a football player for a while now so seeing a naked male body was nothing new to me but for some reason ive been paying alot closer attention to them and actually been quite turned on by some. Especially some muscular ones with nice asses.

I look at all asses no matter what sex, also feet for some weird reason. If you have a nice plump ass and pretty feet you have something for me...lol


but it has been to the point to sometimes at night when i jerk it ill think about having sex with guys, me on top just stroking away at them. Its even to the point to where ive jerked it to gay porn and gotten quite turned on.


but the werid thing is that i still love women, i mean love women, i think about them alot love having sex with them , want to marry a beautiful woman and have a family, but im seriously hell bent on having sex with another guy at least once before i get married.


another weird thing, im black but im not attracted to black guys. My thing is white guys, i love to check out white guys and all kinda of girls mainly black girls but its something about white guys that do it for me.



it seems weird cause im all guy, football player for ten years, im a guys guy, born rough and rugged and tough drink whiskey, pretty much could be a mn and the square table in the commercial, but over the last few years ive been getting turned on by guys.


its not a relationship thing just purely physical. Ill see a built guy in the gym and thoughts of licking his pecs cross my mind and if he has a nice ass ill be like id love to pound that. More of a prison rough gay style tho...lol

i read some stuff about this i think it makes me Hetero-Flexible not fully Bi because i definetly love girls way way to much...

i need some ass, ill pick either right now...lo

this is the first time i have ever mentioned this to anyone its been on my mind alot lately, what is yalls oppinion??

 

[jeff black]

I know im straight but for some reason certan things about some guys turn me on. ive had sex with about 8 girls and enjoyed it all but over these past few years ive kinda wanted to have sex with a guy.


but it has been to the point to sometimes at night when i jerk it ill think about having sex with guys, me on top just stroking away at them. Its even to the point to where ive jerked it to gay porn and gotten quite turned on.


but the werid thing is that i still love women, i mean love women, i think about them alot love having sex with them , want to marry a beautiful woman and have a family, but im seriously hell bent on having sex with another guy at least once before i get married.

You sound like alot of guys on here, Horse. You may want to explore your feelings more, if it is something you are interested in trying. Experimental is the new thing.

another weird thing, im black but im not attracted to black guys. My thing is white guys, i love to check out white guys and all kinda of girls mainly black girls but its something about white guys that do it for me.

Just a preference. Nothing new.

it seems weird cause im all guy, football player for ten years, im a guys guy, born rough and rugged and tough drink whiskey, pretty much could be a mn and the square table in the commercial, but over the last few years ive been getting turned on by guys.

its not a relationship thing just purely physical. Ill see a built guy in the gym and thoughts of licking his pecs cross my mind and if he has a nice ass ill be like id love to pound that. More of a prison rough gay style tho...lol

i read some stuff about this i think it makes me Hetero-Flexible not fully Bi because i definetly love girls way way to much...

i need some ass, ill pick either right now...lo

this is the first time i have ever mentioned this to anyone its been on my mind alot lately, what is yalls oppinion??

People have to be careful what they classify homosexuals as. I know a gay guy who is more masculine that 15 of my closest Straight guy friends.:biggrin1: You can be a guys guy all you want. Being experiemental/ Bisexuality/ homosexuality isn't about how manly you are.
Just go out, to a gay bar or club or something, and get some ass. You will feel better and it will allow you to try some new things.

 

[henryroyce]

I am with you. I am str8 and have never had a m2m experience..... but I do sometimes think about what it would be like and even fantisise. For me, the fantasy is not to pound a guy, but to suck him off and gulp down the result. I guess part of it is that it so good to me that I would like to pleasure another guy like that - just like I take huge pleasure in bringing women to orgasm.

If I were younger and could rewind time, would I change things and add a m2m experience into my sexual history? Probably not. I am not gay; I am not bi; I am str8 but love sex - and the thought of m2m is enought to turn me on because it is just another form of sex after all! Does that make sense?

 

[phantom73]

What does it make you...?

A man who has the best of both worlds!

Have fun with it!

 

[headbang8]

What does it make you? It makes you human.

Go out. Do what you feel like doing. Don't even think about whether the act labels you masculine or feminine, dominant or submissive, football jock or nancy boy. If you hold yourself back, you'll never discover the real sexual you.

Play safe--I'm sure you know how. And if you don't, Google it.

And enjoy.

 

[Driver]

It's all good!

 

[lonly31]

well i have had sex with both sides and i really love sex with a guy . im bi but love the m2m sex im not out so its hard to get it only been with two guys but it was great . i use a toy mostly . it feels so good buty you have to try it if you dont like it dont do it . have fun its worth it

 

[Heather LouAnna]

I look at all asses no matter what sex, also feet for some weird reason. If you have a nice plump ass and pretty feet you have something for me...lol

Aint that the truth, darlin'. I love men with nice feet and pretty toenails. I don't want to suck on them or anything, lol...it's just a big turn off to see that a man's feet are grody and dirty. An ugly foot shows a lot about character, I guess, and means that they're not detail oriented people.

As for the rest of that rant you went into: I used to love candy, but now I don't care for it much anymore. That goes for fast food too. People's tastes change. It may be that you've had this desire to sleep with another man for a long while and it's just now surfacing.

Sex is like good food. It fills you up and sataisfies you. Just like any meal, there are many different kinds. On the menu this evening, love, is rock hard white cock. You can order it up, try it out, and if you don't like it, you can send it back to the kitchen and just order your usual female flavor.

Don't feel guilty about ordering something different, baby. Indulge yourself. You only live once. Don't you want to say that you tried everything?

 

[JackbytheSea]

I think same-sex curiosity, for some of us, is a natural part of sexual development and should probably be explored (at least once), before you move onto humping chicks full-time and making babies.

Maybe, sex with a guy represents some kind of freedom for you, and you don't feel you need to be so careful or get his approval. Are you really gonna care one way or another, if you've satisfied another guy sexually? I seriously doubt it, because we look to women for that kind of approval - measuring up or being man enough. Maybe, you just want to ram your dick into something as hard as you can without a care in the world and walk away.

I would suggest you find a happy-endings massage parlor with a male on duty [some of them have guys], and work out your angst in a private session or two. It's clean, discrete and finite - no post-sex attachments. Ram your dingaling in there and walk out with your heterosexuality intact.

Furthermore, I don't think you're gay.

If you'd said something about wanting to hold some guy's hand, go dancing with him or buy him candy, I'd say you're probably gay. If you'd expressed some interest in one, particular guy or wanting to please him or get his approval, that would also make me think you might at least be bisexual.

Your prison power-trip scenario doesn't sound like anything but a sexual thrill to me - the promise of an adrenaline rush. Maybe even the thrill of sexually conquering another man - pushing him into a female role - appeals to you.

Sounds a little kinky to me, but not gay.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

:smile: relax and explore your sexual imagination Its a wonderfull adventure The beauty of the human body is amazing I wouldnt worry about being gay So what if you are? Gay people walk with pride and dignity nowadays.What im saying is relax and enjoy Thats the beauty of life We dont know whats going to happen in the future.

 

[Wrat]

Yeah, I don't think you're gay either. What's going on with you isn't really that odd, and is not unusual at all. It's good that you are emotionally mature enough not to be confused and angry. That is not uncommon either.

 

[Horsehungjock]

Aint that the truth, darlin'. I love men with nice feet and pretty toenails. I don't want to suck on them or anything, lol...it's just a big turn off to see that a man's feet are grody and dirty. An ugly foot shows a lot about character, I guess, and means that they're not detail oriented people.

As for the rest of that rant you went into: I used to love candy, but now I don't care for it much anymore. That goes for fast food too. People's tastes change. It may be that you've had this desire to sleep with another man for a long while and it's just now surfacing.

Sex is like good food. It fills you up and sataisfies you. Just like any meal, there are many different kinds. On the menu this evening, love, is rock hard white cock. You can order it up, try it out, and if you don't like it, you can send it back to the kitchen and just order your usual female flavor.

Don't feel guilty about ordering something different, baby. Indulge yourself. You only live once. Don't you want to say that you tried everything?

ha ha youd love me then, cause i always take good care of my feet, i always get compliments from women on my pretty feet



but yeah it may be a power trip kinda thing i dunno, definetly kinky i can say that. i think its more a curiosity thing that anything. and definetly all physical, no attatchments or anything, just some guy to bang and get my rocks off and just a change of pace with something differnet, i guess when i work up the nerve ill experiment and see how i ilike it then get back to you all when i do


i dont think it will be soon, but i def wanna do it at least once before i get married

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

I won't be worried, they could be only "growing pains": i mean that maybe you are only a bit confused as your hormones ar roaring loud. By the way, i do not think there are "guy things" like the ones you mentioned: i love romantic movies (a not so classical male feature), but never had attraction to a guy.

In any event, there is nothing shameful in being bi, you have just to accept yourself (i don't think it is easy in our society, however).

 

[davidjh7]

sunds like a pretty typical straight boy "forbidden fruit/naughty/curiosity" thing to me. If it keeps you up at night wondering, go find some ass that appeals to you, who is into you, and get it out of your system. if it is just a nice jerk of fantasy, keep it as that--don't put that much effort into something not that important to you. You don't sound gay at all to me.

 

[D_hfgdvb]

What this makes you is...able to identify with yourself outside of the box. Being a former school athlete, I understand the masculinity thing and its relevance to your straightness. But, as another poster said, there are some gay guys more masculine than you or I could ever hope to be. What you have done is this: You were honest with your feelings about what makes your dick hard. Alot of straight guys are so afraid that being turned on by another guy automatically makes them gay. Most of those guys are homophobic, so we never hear their thoughts...since they can't stop thinking about the guys that they are afraid of being attracted to...they can't speak! On the other hand, you have come to terms with what you like, and have accepted that. That makes you...HONEST WITH YOURSELF.
If you think you need a M2M experience before you settle down to start a family, you really should check it out. It's a feeling that isn't going to just go away until you address it.
I think you are an intelligent, straight man...and the only thing not "normal" about you is your ability to be honest with yourself. now, go get you some ass.

 

[basque9]

Hi horse, donkey here.... just want to remind you that there are masculine guys like me over on this side... sexuality is a journey... have the balls to take that journey...focus more on expressiveness and less on genderness.

 

[Mem]

It makes you Bi-curious, that's all

 

[B_Stronzo]

You're gay.

 

[D_Stavelay Strappon]

Seems a pity to me that we all think we must claim a "label" when it comes to this !

 

[mjcp]

It makes you a little bit bi, that's all. Does it make you less of a man? Hell no. It makes you more of a man for admitting it to yourself. Whether it stays a fantasy or becomes actual experience is all up to you. Nobody needs to know anything except for us. We need details, man.