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So already I know that I'm not the average guy here. IDK if it is related to my Asperger's, but what interests me seems to be very different than others here, or if I'm interested in the same thing, it is for very different reasons.

First off, I'm starting with I have zero interest in having sex with another guy, and jerking with someone else holds no interest either.

Penis pictures are more of a curiosity. The diversity of size fascinates me. I'm not going to wank to just any random dick pic though.

For a picture to really hold my interest either it needs to look a lot like mine, or there's some aspect I aspire to. For example, if the dick looks like mine, but the balls are a bit looser and hang better... I'm interested. I'm getting into ball weights because of this.

Is there a toy or bling I'm interested in? A really nice cock ring or ball weight will get my attention, but the penis wearing it is just a stand in for my own. What would that ring or weight look on my equipment?

Is the guy in a situation where either I have been in the same situation before and enjoyed it, or is it a situation I aspire to? The male bonding aspect of working out with my friends, hanging out in the locker room, and the group shower... Great times from my past. Not sexual, but a pic of guys in the group shower, sauna, or in the locker room reminds me of those times. I can imagine that's me and my friends.

Then there's situations where I aspire to be able to do what the guy is doing. For example, a trough urinal. If I try to use a trough with others, everything comes to a halt. If I can get a stream started before others arrive I'm fine, but if there's already guys there... I may as well just go to a stall. For this reason, trough pics where the guys are just doing their thing interest me. I aspire to be able to do that, and I'm working on it. Again, not sexual.

If there's a locker room or men's room pic where someone has a boner... not interested, as I feel that's not really appropriate. Yes, boners happen, but don't stroke it, and don't flaunt it. Also not interested in porn where guys are having sex in those locations.

So there you have it, a little more insight into me.
 

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I see a lot of myself in this post. Between the brotherhood nude hangout vibe, the pee shy/muscle lockdown, the wanting to know how something would look on me, and of course diversity of size.

That last one is brotherhood sort of thing for me. I often get caught in the marketing trap of buying something personal for me and finding out it didn't do what I expected like underwear. I need underwear that lifts and presents balls but way too often manufacturer sells stuff for hung guys or treats balls like something to be tucked away.

Thanks for sharing.
 

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I see a lot of myself in this post. Between the brotherhood nude hangout vibe, the pee shy/muscle lockdown, the wanting to know how something would look on me, and of course diversity of size.

That last one is brotherhood sort of thing for me. I often get caught in the marketing trap of buying something personal for me and finding out it didn't do what I expected like underwear. I need underwear that lifts and presents balls but way too often manufacturer sells stuff for hung guys or treats balls like something to be tucked away.

Thanks for sharing.
I kind of have a different problem with underwear. I have oversize balls, and my girth is well above average, although my length is average. My problem with underwear is that the pouch of most underwear can't handle it, and either I end up with bits escaping, or being pushed where they shouldn't be.
 

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So already I know that I'm not the average guy here. IDK if it is related to my Asperger's, but what interests me seems to be very different than others here, or if I'm interested in the same thing, it is for very different reasons.

First off, I'm starting with I have zero interest in having sex with another guy, and jerking with someone else holds no interest either.

Penis pictures are more of a curiosity. The diversity of size fascinates me. I'm not going to wank to just any random dick pic though.

For a picture to really hold my interest either it needs to look a lot like mine, or there's some aspect I aspire to. For example, if the dick looks like mine, but the balls are a bit looser and hang better... I'm interested. I'm getting into ball weights because of this.

Is there a toy or bling I'm interested in? A really nice cock ring or ball weight will get my attention, but the penis wearing it is just a stand in for my own. What would that ring or weight look on my equipment?

Is the guy in a situation where either I have been in the same situation before and enjoyed it, or is it a situation I aspire to? The male bonding aspect of working out with my friends, hanging out in the locker room, and the group shower... Great times from my past. Not sexual, but a pic of guys in the group shower, sauna, or in the locker room reminds me of those times. I can imagine that's me and my friends.

Then there's situations where I aspire to be able to do what the guy is doing. For example, a trough urinal. If I try to use a trough with others, everything comes to a halt. If I can get a stream started before others arrive I'm fine, but if there's already guys there... I may as well just go to a stall. For this reason, trough pics where the guys are just doing their thing interest me. I aspire to be able to do that, and I'm working on it. Again, not sexual.

If there's a locker room or men's room pic where someone has a boner... not interested, as I feel that's not really appropriate. Yes, boners happen, but don't stroke it, and don't flaunt it. Also not interested in porn where guys are having sex in those locations.

So there you have it, a little more insight into me.
I like the way you think…
 
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I kind of have a different problem with underwear. I have oversize balls, and my girth is well above average, although my length is average. My problem with underwear is that the pouch of most underwear can't handle it, and either I end up with bits escaping, or being pushed where they shouldn't be.
If we had a nude friendly society, bad idea with so much shaming though, you wouldn't need underwear.
 
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