Whats A Normal Average

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  1. MAXXXX100

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    My wife recently told me that her best friends new boyfriend lasts over an hour everytime when fucking her.

    now that sounds like a very much not possible to me. I would have thought it would have been closer to 3-7mins from penetration

    Which makes curious what is everyones averages when fucking?



    (I couldn't find a past thread on this)
     
  2. Quiet

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    Yup 3-7 minutes depending on the position. Last longest in cowgirl, shortest in doggy.
     
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    An hour sounds pretty normal too me 3-7 sounds like you're rushing it, I could never get real enjoyment out of such a short amount of time
     
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    An hour of penetration sounds like that might be painful to the recipient after a while. I can go an hour, but there's got to be position changes and even some rest breaks in there.

    Some time ago I had an all too brief fling with a much younger woman, and her comments was "you old guys sure last a long time." I asked if that was a good thing, and she replied it was a great thing. Snaps, old guys!
     
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    Was not expecting to hear a hour is kinda normal (I thought she was just saying it to wind me up)
    I think I am 3 mins max shorter if I am stressed or not unloaded in a while

     
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    A think a good fuck session should be at least 15 - 20 minutes. The wife and I have gone longer and quicker, but I try to make sure I’ve sufficiently satisfied her before I cum. We typically try 3 different positions to mix it up, and taking a pause to move around allows me a moment to take a break, and resume without fear of cumming too soon.
     
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    All depends on the position, doggy will be over a lot quicker than if she's on top, I'd say about 5-10 mins average
     
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    I really didn't think that short of a time was possible until some people said it here. I always took it as a joke like how in tv they say people are min men. Minimum for me would have to be at least 20 minutes and even that seems too short of the time
     
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    I think that is pretty much normal. the reason why they last an hour is because they can't feel nothing.. how can something be enjoyable if you can't feel shit
     
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    laugh - knowing the women that was claiming it she is a cougar and goes through younger men as I buy beer I reckon - its good reasoning
     
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    So much depends upon position and the play in that position. Our "normal" time from first penetration to climax is probably 15-20 min usually in missionary. When my wife decides its time for me to finish, she'll reach underneath her and play with my balls while I'm inside her. I usually don't last long then. If we're having an adventurous night and change positions often, I've made it as long as an hour. In fact, if she rode me cowgirl style, I could last a VERY long time.
     
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    I wouldn't mind going a bit longer, but my dick has always had its own ideas :)
     
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    My dick always stays hard after I bust and I can go over again until I'm totally spent, I can go an hour sure but I'd be swapping out positions and such.
    Seven minutes seems a pretty short time to me, I would say anything ten minutes or under is a quickie.
    As well as taking my own pleasure and getting my satisfaction I like it have my partner orgasam over and over working her up to those whole body shakers to the point of exhaustion, that's true great sex to me, it's always something to be savored and a marathon not a sprint.
     
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    New relationships, often inspire the penis to new performance heights. After a while many just men set a time clock in their heads, and when it goes off they get to watch TV; or sleep.

    When I was younger and had tons of energy, an hour hour was normal, till orgasm. On an abnormal night my record was seriously 10PM to 6AM , with only a few stops in between. That was yearsssssssssssssssssss ago
     
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    Ronin, you stud. C’mon buddy, you’re not that old.
     
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    Ha Ha Tell that to my penis :cool:
     
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    30 mins or more most women I've been with tap out.
     
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    15-20 min. average for me. I have had a few hour long sessions before but that is definitely not the norm and far from ideal.
     
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    It depends on how long since the last, how long and intense the fore play if there was any. So first time in a session probably a few minutes but second or third times and any after can be ages, like 15 to 20 minutes.
     
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    An hour of "play time" sounds "normal" to me. The pentration part might be aroumd 15min with some Position changes, but significantly less, if I havnt cum in a while :p
     
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