When and how did you learn that your cock was big/small? (18+)

For some time I assumed that I was smaller than the men I was having sex with because they were always quite a bit older than me, and I would grow bigger in time, but it never has gotten bigger. The first time I really thought to myself “I am a lot smaller than any other man I’ve seen” was when I was 22 and I was with a guy that was more than twice my length. Also when I started having sex with women I met some that were pretty up front about the fact that I was small
 
I always thought my dick was average at best. Even though my first gals (as inexperienced as I was) complained about being sore, or trouble getting more than a couple inches into their mouth. Every porn movie had monster cocks and every guy seemed to talk about having a minimum of 8” cocks. I measured mine and had my gf measure it too (she popped my balloon when she said it was just shy of 7” ) 6 3/4” length in my mind was a small cock. It wasn’t until I started fucking a cougar she told me my girth was off the scale. She loved my fat cock spreading her wide open. Now of course with the internet and sites like this place having girth like mine makes it a bigger dick. I was 24 then (she was 42).
 
About 10 years ago, someone suggested I put my measurements into a size comparison website. Turns out, I was something like 75th percentile in length. That really shocked me! I had no idea.
 
I thought I was average because the only cocks I’ve were in porns. My teammates in college after a water running practice made the comments about me while we were all in the shower. One teammate said out loud that wow looks like we have a huge teammate over there. I wasn’t hard just flaccid but i hang over 5” n thick while flaccid. Plus we wore yellow spandex shorts for our uniform shorts. More comments were made in front of our team and womens team. It was odd yet hot the team calling be big boy or big cock as a freshman in college
 
About 10 years ago, someone suggested I put my measurements into a size comparison website. Turns out, I was something like 75th percentile in length. That really shocked me! I had no idea.
Calc Sd has me at 90- 99 percentile in length depending on what study I compare to. That left me scratching my head and kind of suspect of those studies.
 
I always thought I was average (I think seeing porn when I was younger skewed my idea of what was normal size) and I never had a situation where we compared or anything like that. I even had situations where I was around other men nude but I did not peek in the open bay showers. Wife always said I was big but I figured she was just being kind. I found out I was big when I first posted my first few funny dick pics back in my Tumblr days, I was probably in my late 20s. So many were commented how big I was and those comments just continued again and again as I moved to other platforms sharing my funny pics and then expanding into more and more types of pics.
 
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Whenever I’m fucking those Asian spinners my cock looks massive in their mouth, hands or pussies. But when I joined this fucken site I realised I’m out of my depth against you monsters. So I’ll often lose in the ‘Are you bigger and thicker than the poster above you’ threads.
 
I was pretty late to the sex game (growing up, my family was super religious and I was terrified of coming out as bisexual) and had always assumed I was average. My first time was at university--I was out with some classmates getting drinks and one of the guys started grinding up on me and joked that I must have something in my pocket. He asked to come back to my place and when he pulled my pants down, he got real quiet for what felt like forever and I thought I had done something wrong. Then he told me it was the largest he'd seen in person and he wasn't sure he could take it, and he apologized and offered to jack me off instead. After that, all my classmates found out. At a frat party exactly one month later, my friends told me to "prove it". When I was finally drunk enough to whip it out, they all acknowledged they were smaller (no one took theirs out then though) and a few commented that they were glad their girlfriends didn't know. The summer after that year, we'd have a weekend at a lake house and all get naked, and that was when I saw the real difference. When we were all drunk, we had fun doing direct comparisons. And though there are guys on this site much larger than me, at 21x16cm (~8x6 in inches), I was quite longer than most of my friends, and much thicker.
 
I was pretty late to the sex game (growing up, my family was super religious and I was terrified of coming out as bisexual) and had always assumed I was average. My first time was at university--I was out with some classmates getting drinks and one of the guys started grinding up on me and joked that I must have something in my pocket. He asked to come back to my place and when he pulled my pants down, he got real quiet for what felt like forever and I thought I had done something wrong. Then he told me it was the largest he'd seen in person and he wasn't sure he could take it, and he apologized and offered to jack me off instead. After that, all my classmates found out. At a frat party exactly one month later, my friends told me to "prove it". When I was finally drunk enough to whip it out, they all acknowledged they were smaller (no one took theirs out then though) and a few commented that they were glad their girlfriends didn't know. The summer after that year, we'd have a weekend at a lake house and all get naked, and that was when I saw the real difference. When we were all drunk, we had fun doing direct comparisons. And though there are guys on this site much larger than me, at 21x16cm (~8x6 in inches), I was quite longer than most of my friends, and much thicker.
Beautiful thick cock on you man, love the bush too. How thick is that pipe??
 
Believe it or not, now in my 40s is when I'm learning that my size appears to be on the good side for most people I meet. I've always thought it was on the small side but in 80% of my hookups, it appears to be the opposite. Weird.
 
Beautiful thick cock on you man, love the bush too. How thick is that pipe??
Thanks! Yea, I don't have to shave to show off--it speaks for itself. And I can't close my hand around it.
 
Thanks! Yea, I don't have to shave to show off--it speaks for itself. And I can't close my hand around it.
wow your own hand doesn't fit around? I didn't realize I was thick when I was younger because I have huge hands and could fit around my shaft, but when I had my first girlfriend play with it, it really shed some light on that