Where to meet?
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Anywhere, if outside has OK weather (not raining) then anywhere that have enough open space to fuck.
Could be going down to a nearby clearing/wooded area or a railway station to public bathrooms. The world is your oyster (as they say), have sex wherever. The location usually isn't an issue, getting a straight guy to go is more challenging
Could be going down to a nearby clearing/wooded area or a railway station to public bathrooms. The world is your oyster (as they say), have sex wherever. The location usually isn't an issue, getting a straight guy to go is more challenging
The thing is I am extremely dl guess nervous of getting caught or arrested
If your in the middle of the woods, you ain't gonna be arrested. Not unless your sending up flares telling everyone where you are.
If your more like me, and getting caught is more of a thrill than a turn off then you'll find the excitement and just crack on with it. The more you worry, the more you'll think on it and then before you know it.... It'll never happen.
Just take a leap and do it, be a little spontaneous and you'll definitely reap your rewards
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First, you are just meeting up. Same as a man and a woman. Like Petnax said, cars are the go to for discreet situations. As also mentioned... The woods! Hell, you live in Mass. right? Perhaps chat a bit to see how it goes. Meeting at a public place such as grabbing a coffee with him is perfect. Once you "size up" the situation, you can go from there. There's a local parking lot near me that I see guys parked together all the time. If you have a dark tint... Perfect!
Funny thing... I'm (finally) meeting a guy tomorrow at a local coffee house. Then another guy on Sat at a different coffee house. In both cases we agreed to see where it leads before committing to any hanky panky.
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Wow, I'm surprised to see so much mention of cars. I'm not comfortable hosting at home even when alone. Often offer my F150 with tinted windows and a rear window that can be blocked. Plenty of room for hj and bj but most guys seem to find it too risky. Very few takers. You guys are lucky.
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Well here's the thing with cars...
1. Get out and chat a bit first. Especially for a first meetup.
2. Be parked in a discreet location. Not ones that are patrolled or near other folks that don't need to be involved. Too many times I've seen cars parked at my local park that I know is patrolled. Or on a private parking lot of a company that has security patrols.
I'm a big fan of outdoors if the area and weather permit.
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