All of the women here are wise beyond years. The personal experiences and related experiences of others have made women understand that internet relationships can be extremely dangerous, at best.
And by sharing their stories, we all learn!
However, I will give you my response, because when I first came here, in fact I (we) were looking for a bit of spice in our relationship. Why do women begin ghosting or fail to follow through with hooking up after playing online?
You've heard some answers, as hooking up was never in the cards to begin with.
But what about the women who do want to hook up and why have you been so unfortunate in finding those women who would follow through?
Take a look at yourself.
Your style, your interaction with the women. Your expectations.
Are you totally stuck on the fact that you have a big cock and that, in and of itself, is sufficient for a hook up?
When you interact with the women online, do you actually try to build some common ground besides she has big tits for your big dick?
When you find a lady online that will interact with you....do you constantly hound her and beg for her sole attention?
Do you allow her the freedom to roam the site without harassing her every time she comes online?
What if, after a few trips to the chat room where you share your dick and she shares her boobs, she finds you a bore and there is just no chemistry for going further than an online jerk off session?
What if the "she" who is watching you is really a "he" in disguise?
What if the "she" who is watching you is really not at all like what her pictures represent in her gallery?
Catfishing is extremely common and why people do it is beyond me, but it truly happens (to both genders.)
I've met some really great men here.
Some have built great friendships with my husband and me.
But I will tell you this Never, not one single time, did I ever make a date with a guy and back out. But I learned a ton of lessons along the way. Each time I learned I never made that mistake again. I've been catfished. I've been lied to and had guys represent themselves in pics as 15-20 yrs younger than what they actually were, ending up older, balder, fatter, mug-ugly. Call me shallow. I'm ok with that. I always had an out if I every felt uneasy at the initial meeting. And I don't mind calling guys on their shit when they misrepresent themselves.
There are tens of thousands of reasons why you have been unlucky in moving past the computer. I cannot tell you why you are not finding what you are looking for. Only you know the answers to that. But I can tell you that every lady you show your dick to doesn't necessarily want it for herself (even if that is expressed it an online chat.) Women, just like men, like to play, and yes there are asshole women too. Men don't have the market secured on any given personality trait.
