Why do some guys do this?

[D_Sal_Manilla]

After one meets and actually had fun, and before you part they say they will call again. They say they are interested but then they like never call.

I mean like just say your not interested its better than lying.

I'm just like mad. I feel like a total jack ass waiting a week to hear form someone.

Why don't guys have the balls to actually say what they feel?

 

[HFOStimmer]

Cause men are pigs

 

[humdinger]

men are not pigs. people are simply at varying levels of maturity.

 

[Exbiker]

People are deluded.

Insecure, and afraid.

We all imagine that certain things are important, when they are not.

We sell our souls for money, to buy things that cannot bring pleasure.

All that really matters is people, their minds and souls. Their hopes and dreams. Sharing, friendship, and community...

And so, in turn, openness, honesty, and confidence matter. We ought not to deceive each other.

Or ourselves...

Hope this helps.

 

[deleted3782]

Why don't guys have the balls to actually say what they feel?

Most guys don't know how they feel...or feelings change.

 

[Gecko4lif]

After one meets and actually had fun, and before you part they say they will call again. They say they are interested but then they like never call.

I mean like just say your not interested its better than lying.

I'm just like mad. I feel like a total jack ass waiting a week to hear form someone.

Why don't guys have the balls to actually say what they feel?

Thats weird. I would think most people have enough going on in their lives not to be waiting for somebody but whatever.

There was a saying ive heard somewhere. Not sure where. Its something like always appreciate the call but never expect it. I know its similar to that.


But yeah he was probably just being polite. You never know how somebody is going to take rejection.

 

[Teb8807]

I wouldn't have waited a week. If they had a good time like they said they did, they would have called sooner. Well, unless they're actually really busy with work or other things going on in their life.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

they might be busy...or they are just looking for fuck buds. Calling right away might seem that they want more than a fuck bud kinda thing. Some guys are about the chase....once they get their goal, the chase is over and they move to another challenge.

 

[avg_joe]

I think it is a culture thing. They don't want to hurt your feeling.

 

[bigmatt1983]

But yeah he was probably just being polite. You never know how somebody is going to take rejection.

being completely ignored is not polite ill take rejection over that kinda thing any day

 

[lovinglife]

After one meets and actually had fun, and before you part they say they will call again. They say they are interested but then they like never call.

I mean like just say your not interested its better than lying.

I'm just like mad. I feel like a total jack ass waiting a week to hear form someone.

Why don't guys have the balls to actually say what they feel?

CALLER ID - YouTube
Has some relevant bits I think.

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

CALLER ID - YouTube
Has some relevant bits I think.

this was actually pretty funny.

 

[Frnkd213]

Why wait, call him up and find out why, you'll never know until you do.

 

[Joseph]

Sorry, but the "Bastard never calls back" thing was an element of straight women ever since......... the invention of the telephone!

Some don't want to hurt you, some just don't care or some might ... ya know... be busy.... uhhh, this is why I don't go for these kind of meetings...

 

[hrdhatdad]

it's an awkward moment. If I want to see a person again, just tell them if you're interested, call me because I'd like to see you again. If they don't call, there is your answer.

 

[K.Dst]

Cause when you're telling a guy "Sorry I'm not interested", said guy will almost always think it's a good idea to ask "Why?" and not find the answer "I don't know why, I'm just not" to be enough.

So basically, it's all about not saying to a guy we're not into him but helping him realize this all by himself

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

Fuck me! the moment he calls is the moment I'm away from my phone.

 

[rbkwp]

Think
courtesy went out the window, quite some years ago, with all us humans
the easier life is made for us, the lazier we get re former common courtesys, period.
Slackness in responses annoys me to the MAX
no need for it..

 

[Peter Wood]

Why didn't YOU call him?

 

[ShannonH]

It's upsetting how many people are just afraid to be direct when they're face-to-face with someone.