You sure are dense. Were you kicked in the head?
Here we go.
Gay men do not enjoy sexual attention from women, and the content was likely not created for her consumption. Created by gay men for gay men, understand? Quit invading other people's space and making it all about you. And quit telling gay men how to have sex.
Same with expecting black men to only be tops and not bottoms. Get the fuck out of here. Many black men enjoy bottoming, quit trying to limit people.
Quit expecting all black men to live up to your Big Black Cock fantasy. What if he's a bottom? What if he has a medium cock or a small cock?
I'm sorry if "stereotype" has too many syllables for you. Maybe brush up on your reading skills?