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Good question. I have no idea. As a bottom, I have never called it a pussy. I refer to my hole, ass or butt.
It’s a form of submission. The word doesn’t do anything for me, but some guys really get off on it.
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I think it does make sense. In a highly pornified, sexualised, patriarchal world, the man is seen as the dominant (‘the fucker’) while the woman is the submissive, the ‘receiver’ - so a man referring to his hole as pussy or cunt is linguistically implying submission. Certainly that’s what’s going on for the subs I fuck who use the term.
But it’s a guy, not a girl. I cant wait til my first m/m experience but for sure don’t want the guy referring to his hole as a pussy. Submissive or not.
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Maybe a bussy? Boy pussy is not a commonly used term here (aus).
Why is it any kind of reference to a pussy? Bussy or cunt. I mean they are a guy. I mean I like watching gay porn because it’s men, not women, not pussy.
Whatever turns a person on ! And we all know there's no simple answer when it comes to sex !!!!!!!!
I know quite a few tops (including myself) use that term. It stems from ( on our case) from fucking women for so long and how good it felt and how fuckin some guys reminds us of that feeling..
Don’t get it twisted “There is ass and there is pussy”. There is a difference between the two..Like the term daddy, people tend to use the term loosely..
Don’t get it twisted “There is ass and there is pussy”. There is a difference between the two..Like the term daddy, people tend to use the term loosely..
Not at all. I’m talking about men using a word. Semantics is how people engage with the world. If you think about it, it’s a metaphor. Why is a man ‘a dog’? ‘Cos he acts like one in the view of the speaker. Why is an asshole a pussy? Same reason. Just my thoughts.
Most gay guys don’t use the term. It’s only a small, subset of ultra-submissive guys that are often also cumdumps, into various forms of humiliation, etc.
No one in my circle uses the term and personally I don’t like it. I’m not a big fan of queer either but when I grew up in the dark ages it was a term used in a pejorative sense.
At my age I’m a live and let live guy. Human sexuality is exceedingly complex and there are seldom easy answers.
I don’t know that a survey could be fashioned where we might learn anything useful about the term or its cultural connotations.
At my age I’m a live and let live guy. Human sexuality is exceedingly complex and there are seldom easy answers.
I don’t know that a survey could be fashioned where we might learn anything useful about the term or its cultural connotations.
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I literally had this conversation with a friend today. It grosses me out!! But to each their own!
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The term pussy is affectionately being used to refer to an orifice.
The term pussy does not to always refer to a vagina, as the correct term for the female genitalia is vagina, not pussy. So if a gay guy refers to his ass as a pussy, he’s referring to an orifice that gives him pleasure. It would be different if he was calling his ass a vagina.
Yes, pussy is a colloquial term for vagina. But the meaning of words change. If a man refers to his ass as a pussy, it’s a turn on. I sometimes refer to mine as a pussy. It’s different. It’s erotic. In my case, it has nothing to do with femininity or submissiveness; it’s just a sexy word.
The word pussy is not gross. Think about the number of people who think anal sex is gross (not that this is a reason to call an as a pussy). They at least have a point.
It’s really not a big deal.
The term pussy does not to always refer to a vagina, as the correct term for the female genitalia is vagina, not pussy. So if a gay guy refers to his ass as a pussy, he’s referring to an orifice that gives him pleasure. It would be different if he was calling his ass a vagina.
Yes, pussy is a colloquial term for vagina. But the meaning of words change. If a man refers to his ass as a pussy, it’s a turn on. I sometimes refer to mine as a pussy. It’s different. It’s erotic. In my case, it has nothing to do with femininity or submissiveness; it’s just a sexy word.
The word pussy is not gross. Think about the number of people who think anal sex is gross (not that this is a reason to call an as a pussy). They at least have a point.
It’s really not a big deal.
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Not all of us do, I hate that! It’s usually for straight guys going gay, or DL str8 guys who are wanting to fuck men on the DL but want to maintain their image of masculinity, by calling it a pussy, in their heads it is, so they can bypass the fact that they are actually fucking a man and don’t feel ‘gay’
