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[Thecouple111]

A question for all.
My wife and I have been togeter for 26 years. She has never really got use to my cock. I am 8.5”x6.75”. She is always sore for a day or so after. This makes our sex limited to just a couple times a week. She has seen dr and they said everything is ok down there. I just dont get how she has not gotten use to it by now. Its so frustratibg because I am always horny. With her she can take sex or leave it. She was with 8 guys before me. She says they were all much smaller. I am not sure if I believe that because before her and I got together she use to brag about the guy she was with and how he had a big cock. I know this because we were in the same crowd of friends. So I am not sure if its my size or she just isnt into me as much as the other guy. I know they had sex everytime tgey got together and she wanted it from him. So what is everyones thoughts on this. I think she would be still with him if he didnt break up with her. Thx.

 

[deleted969111]

I’m not as thick as you bet thick enough. My wife is tiny.

If you can, get some Foria THC lube. She may still be sore but I think she’ll love it.

 

[693987]

Either trust your wife or don't. Women have different sizes to their genitals just like men do, shockingly enough. Some people's anatomy fits together better than others. Some people's anatomy doesn't fit together well, period. Even after decades.

 

[BillM]

Stud, Well you are in the ONE percent of the size range in cock size so she may have been with a guy that had a big cock just not as big and thick as you are!! As for her getting use to it are you giving her all the foreplay before having sex with her??

 

[Thecouple111]

Stud, Well you are in the ONE percent of the size range in cock size so she may have been with a guy that had a big cock just not as big and thick as you are!! As for her getting use to it are you giving her all the foreplay before having sex with her??

Yes i go down on her quite awhile before sex. I love eating pussy. She is usually very wet and we also add lube.

 

[twoton]

Here is a 26-years-and-running example showing that women are interested in more than penis size.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

A question for all.
My wife and I have been togeter for 26 years. She has never really got use to my cock. I am 8.5”x6.75”. She is always sore for a day or so after. This makes our sex limited to just a couple times a week. She has seen dr and they said everything is ok down there. I just dont get how she has not gotten use to it by now. Its so frustratibg because I am always horny. With her she can take sex or leave it. She was with 8 guys before me. She says they were all much smaller. I am not sure if I believe that because before her and I got together she use to brag about the guy she was with and how he had a big cock. I know this because we were in the same crowd of friends. So I am not sure if its my size or she just isnt into me as much as the other guy. I know they had sex everytime tgey got together and she wanted it from him. So what is everyones thoughts on this. I think she would be still with him if he didnt break up with her. Thx.

um- just maybe her last guy was the biggest guy she had been with... until she met you.

 

[palmer]

I'm in the same situation with you @Thecouple111, I'm 7x6 and I know my wife's ex was bigger and she used to brag to her friends about them banging all the time. In the end he was an asshole and she left him.
She's also take it or leave it when it comes to sex and we've gone from several times a week to maybe once or twice a month. I've asked her why and she's just had very little interest (hormones and everything else checked out fine).
It's something I've come to terms with and I enjoy sex when we have it (I too am constantly horney)
And congratulations on the 26 years being together.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

A question for all.
My wife and I have been togeter for 26 years. She has never really got use to my cock. I am 8.5”x6.75”. She is always sore for a day or so after. This makes our sex limited to just a couple times a week. She has seen dr and they said everything is ok down there. I just dont get how she has not gotten use to it by now. Its so frustratibg because I am always horny. With her she can take sex or leave it. She was with 8 guys before me. She says they were all much smaller. I am not sure if I believe that because before her and I got together she use to brag about the guy she was with and how he had a big cock. I know this because we were in the same crowd of friends. So I am not sure if its my size or she just isnt into me as much as the other guy. I know they had sex everytime tgey got together and she wanted it from him. So what is everyones thoughts on this. I think she would be still with him if he didnt break up with her. Thx.

A couple of times a week isn't shabby. It makes no difference what size any other guy was or is.

Consider how YOU would feel about sex if your penis was painfully sore for a day or so afterwards.

 

[thick_]

Well I’m not as big as you but just a step down in girth and a bit shorter. My ex also was sore after sex as well for a day or two. I made sure she was ready with some long foreplay and we used lube. Sometimes even added it during sex if I felt things were not sliding well. All that and still had issues. And it would lead to a period of no sex as well. It seemed to happen more as we got older or she didn’t say anything early on not sure. Anyway not sure what to tell you other then lube a lot. But your not alone.

Side note she is now with a guy who is on the low end of the average scale in girth and length but she said she doesn’t have the issue with being sore but also does not have many orgasm during penitration as she had with me.

 

[deleted936015]

Whos ex tells them any of that info about their new interest.....
Mind blown....

 

[autoballer]

Couple times a week and sore sounds like a trooper to me, I'd keep her! My fiance has problems like this and we struggle with soreness and frequency, she knows I masturbate often and is ok with me watching porn and taking care of myself. Recently she talked to her doctor and got off of birth control for health reasons and what a difference it has made for us. She actually wants sex now. I love sex without a condom, but I'll be happier with more frequent sex with a condom. Lube helps. Foreplay helps. Kinky shit helps. Toys help. Oral first helps too(giving and receiving). I know I'll wear her out if I go too long so I don't hold back and finish her with a toy or my mouth instead too. Communication is key!

 

[Thecouple111]

Also something else I always wondered. All the guys she was with before me were cut. I am uncut. She also says she likes uncut better, but everytime she goes down on my she pulls my skin back and it looks cut before she puts it in her mouth. Whats your thoughts on this. It just seems strange that she bragged about another guy being so big around others and she never bragged about my size around others. Then I am the only uncut guy and she likes that the best also. Im not sure she is being honest. The shitty thing is I guess I will never know.

 

[693987]

Trust your wife or don't.

Communicate with her or don't. You could, y'know, just ask her why she pulls your foreskin back instead of hoping random people on the internet could tell you why.

 

[lapdog2001]

Also something else I always wondered. All the guys she was with before me were cut. I am uncut. She also says she likes uncut better, but everytime she goes down on my she pulls my skin back and it looks cut before she puts it in her mouth. Whats your thoughts on this. It just seems strange that she bragged about another guy being so big around others and she never bragged about my size around others. Then I am the only uncut guy and she likes that the best also. Im not sure she is being honest. The shitty thing is I guess I will never know.

She probably bragged about the other guy way-back-when, as he was probably the first big guy that she ever had. As other have said, you are near the top end of the scale for length and girth, and those two combined make you a very well hung man, probably the biggest all the women you've with have ever had.

A few times a week is not bad at all, and I'm glad to see that you are using foreplay and lube to ensure that she is well prepared to receive you. Sex and love are also in your head and heart. Are you saying romantic things to her all the time, and not just "Lets fuck, baby". I would love to have sex every day, but our reality is a few times a week as well. Life, commutes, chores, etc. all make for a tired hubby and wife, so weekends are the best times for us. But every single day starts and ends with kisses, caresses, and telling each other that we love each other, etc. We stay connected daily, even if that 'connection' isn't my penis deep inside her.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Also something else I always wondered. All the guys she was with before me were cut. I am uncut. She also says she likes uncut better, but everytime she goes down on my she pulls my skin back and it looks cut before she puts it in her mouth. Whats your thoughts on this. It just seems strange that she bragged about another guy being so big around others and she never bragged about my size around others. Then I am the only uncut guy and she likes that the best also. Im not sure she is being honest. The shitty thing is I guess I will never know.

In addition to @Fade 's good advice, didja happen to notice she's with you? No one person is or ever could be 100% perfect for someone else. We get close, damned close sometimes, but there's always something that may not be *perfect*. So what? Do you never look back at past relationships and acknowledge some good and great times? Does that mean your wife doesn't measure up?

If you prefer head with your foreskin up, then ask her to do that.

Maybe talk once in a while.

 

[Thecouple111]

In addition to @Fade 's good advice, didja happen to notice she's with you? No one person is or ever could be 100% perfect for someone else. We get close, damned close sometimes, but there's always something that may not be *perfect*. So what? Do you never look back at past relationships and acknowledge some good and great times? Does that mean your wife doesn't measure up?

If you prefer head with your foreskin up, then ask her to do that.

Maybe talk once in a while.

We do talk. This forum is to ask questions and get opinions and that is what I am doing. People here seem to jump down peoples throats for asking questions espesially women here. Thanks to the men who answered in a polite way.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

We do talk. This forum is to ask questions and get opinions and that is what I am doing. People here seem to jump down peoples throats for asking questions espesially women here. Thanks to the men who answered in a polite way.

Nobody is jumping down your throat. You're expressing mistrust for no apparent reason, unless there are details about your relationship that haven't been mentioned.

 

[693987]

We do talk. This forum is to ask questions and get opinions and that is what I am doing. People here seem to jump down peoples throats for asking questions espesially women here. Thanks to the men who answered in a polite way.

I answered perfectly politely. It just seems you don't like my pointing out the obvious. You do not seem to trust your wife or communicate with her that well, at least based off of your posts.

 

[SoaringSpirit]

She probably bragged about the other guy way-back-when, as he was probably the first big guy that she ever had. As other have said, you are near the top end of the scale for length and girth, and those two combined make you a very well hung man, probably the biggest all the women you've with have ever had.

A few times a week is not bad at all, and I'm glad to see that you are using foreplay and lube to ensure that she is well prepared to receive you. Sex and love are also in your head and heart. Are you saying romantic things to her all the time, and not just "Lets fuck, baby". I would love to have sex every day, but our reality is a few times a week as well. Life, commutes, chores, etc. all make for a tired hubby and wife, so weekends are the best times for us. But every single day starts and ends with kisses, caresses, and telling each other that we love each other, etc. We stay connected daily, even if that 'connection' isn't my penis deep inside her.

I couldn't agree with you more -