When men compliment my face, dimples, etc. I just tell them that I will thank my parents for them.
Tonight I turned down hooking up with a guy that I've had genuine conversations with in the past. I knew he was looking for a fwb or hookup from a post he made, so I emailed him to say hi and see what he was up to. Last time we had chatted, he was in a very bad position. I also told him I saw his ad to make it known I was also interested in that.
His response? "Aww well im great thank for asking sexy but i need some local play are you game honey?"
Fuck that.
Strike one - sexy
Strike 2 - but i need
Strike 3 - you game honey?
I was drying up faster than the world's fish supply (true story). I was instantly turned off and disgusted.
I don't know if I'm just fed up from years of interactions with guys, if maybe I'm too sensitive or offended because I find certain words demeaning, or that someone couldn't take time to talk to me like a normal person because his pussy mission was on a time limit (which tends to happen often).
I love stand up comedy and I don't mind jokes. There's this one part in Kevin Hart's (ignore the fact he's a cheater) special where he addresses a woman in the audience and refers to her as "sweetie" and is kinda talking down to her because she's a woman. I get pissed off! I am tired of men saying I'm over reacting too. There's a difference between a pet name and referring to someone with an oppressive moniker.
I hate that I have to question whether or not I'm burned out or if my concerns are valid anymore.
Also, I used to not need much except some sexy talk when I was younger to hookup with someone. Now, I require some brain stimulation, being valued, big words are great turn ons....conversations that are maybe 80% interesting and 20% flirting and sex are great.
Anyway, that's my random thought mixed with a reply to yours.