Women's Issues Random Thoughts

Every other sub-do-hicker has one. Bout time bitches be gettin' random up in here.

When men compliment my face, dimples, etc. I just tell them that I will thank my parents for them.

Tonight I turned down hooking up with a guy that I've had genuine conversations with in the past. I knew he was looking for a fwb or hookup from a post he made, so I emailed him to say hi and see what he was up to. Last time we had chatted, he was in a very bad position. I also told him I saw his ad to make it known I was also interested in that.

His response? "Aww well im great thank for asking sexy but i need some local play are you game honey?"

Fuck that.
Strike one - sexy
Strike 2 - but i need
Strike 3 - you game honey?

I was drying up faster than the world's fish supply (true story). I was instantly turned off and disgusted.

I don't know if I'm just fed up from years of interactions with guys, if maybe I'm too sensitive or offended because I find certain words demeaning, or that someone couldn't take time to talk to me like a normal person because his pussy mission was on a time limit (which tends to happen often).

I love stand up comedy and I don't mind jokes. There's this one part in Kevin Hart's (ignore the fact he's a cheater) special where he addresses a woman in the audience and refers to her as "sweetie" and is kinda talking down to her because she's a woman. I get pissed off! I am tired of men saying I'm over reacting too. There's a difference between a pet name and referring to someone with an oppressive moniker.

I hate that I have to question whether or not I'm burned out or if my concerns are valid anymore.

Also, I used to not need much except some sexy talk when I was younger to hookup with someone. Now, I require some brain stimulation, being valued, big words are great turn ons....conversations that are maybe 80% interesting and 20% flirting and sex are great.

Anyway, that's my random thought mixed with a reply to yours.
I hear ya. Gotta have that brain 🧠 stimulation!
I have an ex girlfriend I play chess with. I want more than just cheesy flirtation. I want to see how you think and want to interact on multiple levels.
 
The soundtrack still gets me hyped.
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Realizing this might be heresy in some counties. True to the word Speculoos whips ass on Biscoff.

Better texture, not as sweet, crunch like an elder god rending the earth.
 
Tiny spam for a worthy cause

This is Cooper. Blonde, blue eyes and kinda a lil cutie. He could use a home and a lil love

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This showed up in my world. I can't take him home but maybe we can help him find a family
 
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So, my fella has been working out again and we stopped drinking awhile back. I didn't want to not him and his best friend both had doctors telling them to knock it off already so he told me it's shitty but he has to and if I don't quit with him it won't be a healthy relationship. So obviously, I knocked it off with him.

Anyway, he's been feeling and looking so much better. I literally have never looked at him and found him unattractive whatsoever, but I do notice a difference in his physique and I'm definitely expressing the fact that it's a visible difference. He smiled so genuinely when I told him I see his efforts paying off and it made me feel fucking wonderful 🩶✨

I've been more active lately as well (new job, way active) and my legs are sore as fuck but I'm loving it. As I start the second half of my life I'm definitely making it a goal to keep my range of movement and stamina as strong and capable as I can.

I love my fella. He looks so good. He made me lunch today cuz I fucking hate my new job. He is a wonderful partner. Currently full of his 🧬 cuz why wouldn't I want him so hard after he fed me and said verbatim "I want you to have a badass job, this isn't it so I do what I can while we look for something better for you".

Fuck yes. 🤘🏼 True love kicks ass
 
Back from another day at the new hell job.

I love the workout I get. I fuckin hate the attitude all those fuckers have about having to actually earn their own paychecks. Not to be/sound ageist, but I have to vent that being the only one over 30 (40 is less than 3 years away for me) and going from my literal dream job to what I'm stuck with now under the circumstances which brought the change about... I'm 'bout ready to say something and end up in the office for making a bunch of teammates catch feelings 🫩

Anyway, could be worse. But it still bugs the shit outta me.

*Hits bong*

Ok. I feel better 😮‍💨
 
So, my fella has been working out again and we stopped drinking awhile back. I didn't want to not him and his best friend both had doctors telling them to knock it off already so he told me it's shitty but he has to and if I don't quit with him it won't be a healthy relationship. So obviously, I knocked it off with him.

Anyway, he's been feeling and looking so much better. I literally have never looked at him and found him unattractive whatsoever, but I do notice a difference in his physique and I'm definitely expressing the fact that it's a visible difference. He smiled so genuinely when I told him I see his efforts paying off and it made me feel fucking wonderful 🩶✨

I've been more active lately as well (new job, way active) and my legs are sore as fuck but I'm loving it. As I start the second half of my life I'm definitely making it a goal to keep my range of movement and stamina as strong and capable as I can.

I love my fella. He looks so good. He made me lunch today cuz I fucking hate my new job. He is a wonderful partner. Currently full of his 🧬 cuz why wouldn't I want him so hard after he fed me and said verbatim "I want you to have a badass job, this isn't it so I do what I can while we look for something better for you".

Fuck yes. 🤘🏼 True love kicks ass
The kind of relationship that actually would make me want to be in one.

I admire your swagger in the face of job troubles. I'm not sure what circumstances you speak of but I've definitely been hit with enough nonsense in the workplace unrelated to the work to know it can feel like you're getting bs'd sometimes. Always important to remember you can only control you and your actions. Can't control other people even if their attitude is shitty or whiny.

Still admiring you from afar, TnJ. Keep being you.
 
The kind of relationship that actually would make me want to be in one.

I admire your swagger in the face of job troubles. I'm not sure what circumstances you speak of but I've definitely been hit with enough nonsense in the workplace unrelated to the work to know it can feel like you're getting bs'd sometimes. Always important to remember you can only control you and your actions. Can't control other people even if their attitude is shitty or whiny.

Still admiring you from afar, TnJ. Keep being you.

🩶
 
Back from another day at the new hell job.

I love the workout I get. I fuckin hate the attitude all those fuckers have about having to actually earn their own paychecks. Not to be/sound ageist, but I have to vent that being the only one over 30 (40 is less than 3 years away for me) and going from my literal dream job to what I'm stuck with now under the circumstances which brought the change about... I'm 'bout ready to say something and end up in the office for making a bunch of teammates catch feelings 🫩

Anyway, could be worse. But it still bugs the shit outta me.

*Hits bong*

Ok. I feel better 😮‍💨
We're having our share of working wannabees, too. We promise a salary - they promise work, but only one side is holding up their end of the bargain. And weirdly enough, it's the one with the checkbook.

Our turnover rate is quite high right now. Yes, Florida is hot, and there is no AC on the job sites.

But it wasn't always this way. Know when it was better? When the majority of our crews were immigrant workers. My old crews not only never missed a day, but their work was simply excellent.

We pay really well. But we pay people who really show up and show out. Now we're showing them the door.

Seems like we're always hiring. Sigh.
 
We're having our share of working wannabees, too. We promise a salary - they promise work, but only one side is holding up their end of the bargain. And weirdly enough, it's the one with the checkbook.

Our turnover rate is quite high right now. Yes, Florida is hot, and there is no AC on the job sites.

But it wasn't always this way. Know when it was better? When the majority of our crews were immigrant workers. My old crews not only never missed a day, but their work was simply excellent.

We pay really well. But we pay people who really show up and show out. Now we're showing them the door.

Seems like we're always hiring. Sigh.
It's the same here. The Western world is suffering a severe skills shortage. Ask any skilled tradesperson on a building site why that is. Everyone knew a tradesperson at one time. My friends in those years had apprenticeships ranging from Pastry Chefs, Mechanics, Plumbers, Concreters, Chippies, Brickies, Sparkies....Now ask a person how many they know....It's the same with Hairdressers, Teachers, Nurses...

We allowed and trusted politicians to care for our future. AI will never be able to renovate your home, navigate mud and slush, clear blocked shit in a pipe, connect your power or repair wiring, tolerate heat of the sun or freezing winds, trenches and scaffolding, steep slopes....or dealing with changes and clients + the hundreds more issues that arise on a single day..let alone the last minute cancellations of concrete orders due to rain or inclemment weather :) That alone is enough to send the stress metre into the red.

Anyone that says otherwise has never worked 5 minutes in the building industry.

Yet, there's never a shortage of wannabe politicians telling us how wonderful they are, or how bad the other politicians are. Never.
 
It's the same here. The Western world is suffering a severe skills shortage. Ask any skilled tradesperson on a building site why that is. Everyone knew a tradesperson at one time. My friends in those years had apprenticeships ranging from Pastry Chefs, Mechanics, Plumbers, Concreters, Chippies, Brickies, Sparkies....Now ask a person how many they know....It's the same with Hairdressers, Teachers, Nurses...

We allowed and trusted politicians to care for our future. AI will never be able to renovate your home, navigate mud and slush, clear blocked shit in a pipe, connect your power or repair wiring, tolerate heat of the sun or freezing winds, trenches and scaffolding, steep slopes....or dealing with changes and clients + the hundreds more issues that arise on a single day..let alone the last minute cancellations of concrete orders due to rain or inclemment weather :) That alone is enough to send the stress metre into the red.

Anyone that says otherwise has never worked 5 minutes in the building industry.

Yet, there's never a shortage of wannabe politicians telling us how wonderful they are, or how bad the other politicians are. Never.
It's the push, over the last few decades for everyone go get a university degree vs a community college trade certificate. White collar vs blue collar, the prestige.
Trouble is, a lot of the students coming out of universities can't parley that degree into a real, meaningful job. There was a doctor of metalurgy I had known, and, followed on facebook a while ago who earned multiple doctorates, went to trade schools to learn welding, glassblowing to furhter his research/manufacturing needs for unique work. He was pushing for kids to skip the university, and, get a trades diploma: MUCH less student debt, and, often better pay.... With guarantees of work.
Do IT manufacure/repair, baker, welder, glassblowing, HVAC tech, refrigerator tech, farmer , etc.
 
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It's the push, over the last few decades for everyone go get a university degree vs a community college trade certificate. White collar vs blue collar, the prestige.
Trouble is, a lot of the students coming out of universities can't parley that degree into a real, meaningful job. There was a doctor of metalurgy I had known, and, followed on facebook a while ago who earned multiple doctorates, went to trade schools to learn welding, glassblowing to furhter his research/manufacturing needs for unique work. He was pushing for kids to skip the university, and, get a trades diploma: MUCH less student debt, and, often better pay.... With guarantees of work.
Do IT manufacure/repair, baker, welder, glassblowing, HVAC tech, refrigerator tech, farmer , etc.
It's attitudes today also. Not everyone can pick up a trowel, hammer, scissors or is not squeamish by the sight of blood and guts in an emergency room. Early life experiences sort of guide you along the way, we all have a bit of either your an outside or inside person, or have had influences, or early experiences with hand tools in creating something, build karts, cubbies shit like that. Most kids when I was one spent there time in creeks, paddocks, racing down hills in gokarts you made at home...then later on fishing, exploring and shit.

That's the sort of stuff that leads you into trades, because trades depend heavily on motor skills, balance heights etc. How many kids do you see playing in creeks today, paddocks, building stuff with drills, saws etc. What it also leads to is an interest and a care for the environment, nature, wildlife when you walk through natural bush and waterways. Anyway...didn't mean to hijack the thread :)
 
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It's attitudes today also. Not everyone can pick up a trowel, hammer, scissors or is not squeamish by the sight of blood and guts in an emergency room. Early life experiences sort of guide you along the way, we all have a bit of either your an outside or inside person, or have had influences, or early experiences with hand tools in creating something, build karts, cubbies shit like that. Most kids when I was one spent there time in creeks, paddocks, racing down hills in gokarts you made at home...then later on fishing, exploring and shit.

That's the sort of stuff that leads you into trades, because trades depend heavily on motor skills, balance heights etc. How many kids do you see playing in creeks today, paddocks, building stuff with drills, saws etc. What it also leads to is an interest and a care for the environment, nature, wildlife when you walk through natural bush and waterways. Anyway...didn't mean to hijack the thread :)
All good points.
Children playing, imitating adults, older children.
It's how other species learn.
How we learn, too, sometimes.
over-teched.. and, we're loosing this part of humanity.