Ok, ive recently started a new a job, and i gotta admit i really like one of the staff members. now my problem is, ive never ever had a relationship with someone i work with, or made a move, it just seems a whole different ball game to me. if im in a bar or something, i will hapily ask people out or for a drink, and not give a shit if i get turned down. now my problems are 1.i dont know if she has any interst in me, or is just been nice since im new 2.and since i have to work with her, would find it embarrassing as fuck if she turned me down so any thoughts? all help is very much welcome here!!!